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Just had to put a food shop on the credit card, fed up!

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whatsausername · 09/09/2025 18:04

We don’t get paid until next Thursday. I’d ran out of essentials like coffee, hand wash, toothpaste, chips etc. Needed the usual packed lunch stuff too. £78 in Asda. I have £82 in the account until payday but need to keep it in as direct debits due day before payday.

I just feel bleugh. We both work full time and having to put a weekly food shop on a credit card is just soul destroying.

anyone else feel like this?

OP posts:
Addyourmessagehereandhere · 09/09/2025 22:04

I haven't read the whole thread, and apologies if someone has mentioned this already but using Olio is a really good way to save some money.
It's an app where you can find people who have collected food from supermarkets which on the day are reaching their use by, or sell by, date - but they are still definitely edible.
Highly recommended for anyone who wants to save money and also prevent waste.
We regularly get free sandwiches, salad, fruit, doughnuts, pastries, bread, and other things.

SouthernNights59 · 09/09/2025 22:08

greengagesummers · 09/09/2025 20:36

But that’s a really unhealthy lunch, especially cheap processed bread, butter spread, ham and cheese, crisps. Cheap yoghurts are full of sugar and processed ingredients, as is squash. The only healthy thing in that list is the fruit.

Even if that wasn’t a really unhealthy lunch full of processed stuff, people still need to want to eat it. Not everyone eats or likes ham or cheese! No one in my family would end up eating that lunch aside from the fruit, so it would all be a waste. I don’t eat ham; DD doesn’t like crisps; DP and I are on diets so bread, butter spread, crisps, cheese and sugar isn’t anything we can really eat. You can’t just expect people to eat stuff they don’t actually like, or isn’t good for them, just because it’s cheap!

Plus, it’s cheap for a reason - it’s not good food! This is why so many people are overweight or obese in the first place. Cheap carbs, fats, processed food, processed dairy, processed meats.

And yet that's what people ate for lunch back in the days when there weren't nearly as many obese people as there are today.

Notaflippinclue · 09/09/2025 22:13

Wehavealaughdontwe · 09/09/2025 18:58

£75 doesn't come close to covering a full shop any more, especially if you have teenagers, lunchboxes etc. We spend around £100 and ita gone within a few days. Both work full time and are counting our pennies by pay day. It is soul destroying when you work but can hardly afford the basics to get by any more

Has anyone noticed anything going down? Muller Corners were £2.50 for 6 in Tesco perhaps they’ve realised this kind of treat is the first thing folks will boycott!

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

Alwaytired44 · 09/09/2025 22:15

LuckyNumberFive · 09/09/2025 18:53

Plenty of people do a weekly shop for £75?

If this is a weekly shop for the OP then fine, her post just made it sound as if it was a top up shop.

My weekly shop for a family of 4 is double that, easily.

RogerBakewell · 09/09/2025 22:16

StillSittingInACornerIHaunt · 09/09/2025 19:51

What a world we live in where people in full time employment have to decide if coffee is an essential or not! It is 100% essential for me.
I hear you OP. It's just so miserable to be middle aged, worked hard for decades, and unable to get to payday without getting the credit card out.
I've cancelled the gym, we never eat out any more, UK camping holidays only. It's 'fine'... but it's miserable.

I'm middle aged, worked hard for decades, use my credit card for all purchases, never had a gym membership, rarely eat out, love a good UK camping holiday.

All those things are active choices. You have just described the life I choose!

bagginsatbagend · 09/09/2025 22:17

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 09/09/2025 21:47

@whatsausername everything is just so expensive now. we are all in the same boat. pensioners suffering too but rachel from accounts couldnt give a toss. We are pensioners who look after 2 teens grandchildren 17 and 15 still at school with no financial help at all. we are struggling.

Edited

Do you mean the kids live with you? Do you get child benefit or universal credit for them? Have you looking into whether you’re eligible for pension credit?

Bridgetoo · 09/09/2025 22:17

@LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway your posts are quite unnecessarily aggressive. The op is clearly just having a rant about high food prices - let her be!

brunettemic · 09/09/2025 22:21

Some of your numbers make no sense. I’m baffled at the cost of lunches.

Also…change the direct debits so they come out after or on pay day. It’s unusual to not be able to pick the date.

Bridgetoo · 09/09/2025 22:23

@greengagesummers I was in France over the summer and thought food prices were broadly the same as the UK (except things in season like soft fruit). Prices are high across most countries so I don't think you can blame Brexit (tho it probably hasn't helped much)

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 09/09/2025 22:23

greengagesummers · 09/09/2025 20:36

But that’s a really unhealthy lunch, especially cheap processed bread, butter spread, ham and cheese, crisps. Cheap yoghurts are full of sugar and processed ingredients, as is squash. The only healthy thing in that list is the fruit.

Even if that wasn’t a really unhealthy lunch full of processed stuff, people still need to want to eat it. Not everyone eats or likes ham or cheese! No one in my family would end up eating that lunch aside from the fruit, so it would all be a waste. I don’t eat ham; DD doesn’t like crisps; DP and I are on diets so bread, butter spread, crisps, cheese and sugar isn’t anything we can really eat. You can’t just expect people to eat stuff they don’t actually like, or isn’t good for them, just because it’s cheap!

Plus, it’s cheap for a reason - it’s not good food! This is why so many people are overweight or obese in the first place. Cheap carbs, fats, processed food, processed dairy, processed meats.

Everyone l worked with in the 80’s, 90’s and noughties ate sarnies for lunch. Probably ham or cheese with lots of butter. And crisps.No one was obese.

NormaNormal · 09/09/2025 22:26

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 09/09/2025 19:44

I only drink coffee. It would be essential to me.

Soap and handwash are often the same price.

Coffee is essential for me but handwash is detergent.

justasking111 · 09/09/2025 22:27

The price of a family pack of minced beef has risen twice at Lidl in a month according to my DILs. Shopping is rising again?

greengagesummers · 09/09/2025 22:27

RosesAndHellebores · 09/09/2025 21:34

Please can you tell me where in France you were and what you were buying?

We have a home in France and groceries in France have been more expensive than here for a long time. There are product variations and I agree with the prices you have mentioned for fruit at this time of the year because there are greater seasonal and local gluts but the store cupboard stuff is as expensive or more, much of the fresh stuff is as expensive or more: meat, dairy, deli stuff, as are cleaning stuffs and toiletries.

Usually I shop at the Intermarche in France and the weekly cost is no different from the UK, except for fresh fruit and veg and wine. I didn’t see any croissants at three for 1 euro either at the Intermarche or the local baker.

Those very specific croissants were in the Netherlands (DekaMarkt supermarket); as well as Albert Heijn, Lidl/Aldi, Carrefour in NL and Belgium, Monoprix and Leclerc in France and local shops / local markets — but prices overall were far cheaper than here across all three countries, with local variations between different types of produce.

We were just buying usual food we eat at home or away: pasta/bread/cheese / salads/wine/fruit and veg/juice and so on. NL was cheapest, but equally the groceries in France really just were not at all as expensive as here — mainly fresh produce like bread, fruit and veg, wine etc. Cheese and bread were far cheaper. Jam, juice, veg, fruit, wine — all much cheaper! We don’t really eat much store cupboard or processed food anyway, so we didn’t buy much of that apart from jam.

On these threads people inevitably go on about cooking fresh local produce being cheaper, and actually in the U.K. that’s not been true for decades now: it’s the processed stuff that’s the cheapest. Whereas on the continent it seems you can still eat much more fresh produce cheaply compared to here.

Krenonges · 09/09/2025 22:29

My weekly shop is about £80 at Aldi / Lidl for family of 3. Splurge shop at start of month can be £120 max. No idea how people can spend £300 on a weekly shop unless they're buying loads of brands/ meat etc

Krenonges · 09/09/2025 22:30

justasking111 · 09/09/2025 22:27

The price of a family pack of minced beef has risen twice at Lidl in a month according to my DILs. Shopping is rising again?

I get the smallest pack and bulk up with veg and lentils

Choclabratwatowner88 · 09/09/2025 22:31

Not me putting our food shop in the credit card every month 🫣 we also get cash back but we always have done it like this…

Kindnesscostsnothingtryit · 09/09/2025 22:32

Justwingingit2005 · 09/09/2025 20:19

I won't comment on putting shopping on a credit card but why not have a jar of coffee if you work full time and your only luxury is a jar of coffee then you have it.
We are a family of 5, older teen boys. Our food bill is more than our mortgage but my husband loves coffee, I love kettle chips and my boys have weekly shopping treats.
We don't drink, smoke or have an active social life so if I want crisps at £2 a packet I will. Life is too short to deny yourself a little treat ❤️

We're the same, food bill matches mortgage! Our priorities are food and socialising with food, we dont smoke or go out and have very hungry teenagers. We all appreciate really nice food so im not feeling guilty about it.

suki1964 · 09/09/2025 22:32

whatsausername · 09/09/2025 20:07

A bar of soap gives me the absolute ick I won’t lie.

the hand wash was 74p im not gonna whinge about that

the coffee was a staggering £7+ for the big big jar. But life is hard enough before I start sacrificing my Nescafé coffee in the morning.

What is your problem with soap? making you "ick"??? What's that about? Have you never used soap?

Anyway, that's by the bye , what's scaring me is the need for £75 packed lunch food

I treated dh today with some lidl twix as an extra to his lunches this week as they were on special offer. Other wise his ( and mine when I was working and needing lunch ) are the night before left overs. Whatever left overs there are, packed away and frozen. We might have bolognaise left, no spaghetti, so I freeze the bolognaise in a bag, and add the pasta another time - or wedges or rice. He dont care, he wants feeding

Worse to the worse, Ill boil up some hard boiled eggs and make a mayo with chopped salad though and pack a few pittas But we dont buy " take to work lunch food "

NormaNormal · 09/09/2025 22:33

@whatsausername , get your instant coffee from Aldi (gold blend-style jar) or Lidl (Nescafe -style jar).
The Aldi one is like a stronger version of Doeuwe Egbert.

Soap bars - get the pure soap from the own brand range, or if you must use handwash, use own brand shower gel in a washed handwash bottle.

usernamealreadytaken · 09/09/2025 22:35

whatsausername · 09/09/2025 18:04

We don’t get paid until next Thursday. I’d ran out of essentials like coffee, hand wash, toothpaste, chips etc. Needed the usual packed lunch stuff too. £78 in Asda. I have £82 in the account until payday but need to keep it in as direct debits due day before payday.

I just feel bleugh. We both work full time and having to put a weekly food shop on a credit card is just soul destroying.

anyone else feel like this?

I guess it depends what you class as essentials. Hand wash and chips would be very low down my essentials list.

suki1964 · 09/09/2025 22:35

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 09/09/2025 22:23

Everyone l worked with in the 80’s, 90’s and noughties ate sarnies for lunch. Probably ham or cheese with lots of butter. And crisps.No one was obese.

But they are now :)

MumWifeOther · 09/09/2025 22:36

LuckyNumberFive · 09/09/2025 20:27

£300-350 a month, particularly when it's a 5 week month including everything. No takeaways, two allergies in the household and I can't be arsed with the risk.

That's 3 meals a day, snacks, toiletries, cleaning stuff. I work from home full time so my lunches are maybe easier, but it's two adults, a toddler and a teen.

This is why I asked if OP just wanted to vent (which is fine) but if she wanted actual advice from people who have cut their food bill, or money saving tips when it comes to the food shop then loads of us manage a lot less. We can afford more but I grew up with absolutely nothing so it's a habit to get the best value where I can with the food shop. And no, before anyone asks, no massive Mumsnet salads or chickens that seem to last a week, I've never boiled a carcass for stock or anything 😂

What do you eat in a day? And where do you shop? We’re a family of 5 and I can’t see anyway we could manage to all eat 3 x meals a day for a month for £350?

nettie434 · 09/09/2025 22:36

It is absolutely eye watering the amount that an average no luxuries supermarket shop costs. The only thing I can suggest is to check whether there are any deals from using a credit card, for instance, my Halifax card often has deals at Morrison's. John Lewis gives you points too (nooo, this is just a fact, not advocating shopping at Waitrose).

Coffee cultivation has been really affected by climate change so prices are not going to get any cheaper. The only thing is to take any advantage of special offers.

Choclabratwatowner88 · 09/09/2025 22:36

Krenonges · 09/09/2025 22:29

My weekly shop is about £80 at Aldi / Lidl for family of 3. Splurge shop at start of month can be £120 max. No idea how people can spend £300 on a weekly shop unless they're buying loads of brands/ meat etc

Good for you because, we are a family of 8 and ours is £300 a month plus top up shops so probably about £500/£600 per month. When you have kids who eat completely different fruits and veg, one who doesn’t like plain water and will only drink flavoured water. We get a mix of branded and non branded and the branded (minus a few things) are only ever bought when on offer.

justasking111 · 09/09/2025 22:36

Krenonges · 09/09/2025 22:30

I get the smallest pack and bulk up with veg and lentils

No good if you're batch cooking. You need the bigger pack to make four meals for five people. That includes bulking up with vegetables.