@kleverklogs I think I would do similar things. I’d buy a house (with a utility room, a cat safe garden, large catios, more than one bloody bathroom and a triple garage/workshop thing).
I’d go part time with work, just to keep my PIN. I would also study loads, so that as soon as DC2 is older, I can work with MSF. I’d surround myself with cats, cooking, gardening and books, and I would pay a housekeeper to also cat sit when I’m away.
I have a camper van already, and don’t need another one, but I’d be able to take longer holidays. Oh, and I’d get qualified in welding, doing electrics and mechanics too (so I can fix campervan myself when it breaks down - it’s an old VW T2!).