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Advice needed to make myself sleep on a plane - how do you do it?

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Havingasmashingtime · 16/08/2025 09:39

I have a 9 hour flight coming up that leaves at 9pm so I need to sleep on it.

only the problem is I CANT SLEEP ON PLANES.

sadly I am a peasant so no first class beds for me.
i will be cramped into a small space sat upright.

any tips to force myself into a sleep?
any supplements I can take or drugs?
if so at what hour before the flight would I take it?

to add- when I arrive at the destination I need to be wide awake and raring to go - there will be no chill time

thank you in advance….

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Elektra1 · 16/08/2025 09:41

Melatonin

Or lots of wine

Midnightlove · 16/08/2025 09:42

Yep, melatonin

Doggymummar · 16/08/2025 09:42

I have melatonin and phenergan that I use daily for sleeping 😴 but I'm lucky that I conk out on flights. 14 hours coming back from Antigua and they woke me to disembark

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IMissSparkling · 16/08/2025 09:42

Absolutely nothing can turn someone who can't sleep on planes into someone who can sleep on planes. Believe me, I have tried!

Mumsntfan1 · 16/08/2025 09:42

Elektra1 · 16/08/2025 09:41

Melatonin

Or lots of wine

Both together!

AtomicBlondeRose · 16/08/2025 09:43

IMissSparkling · 16/08/2025 09:42

Absolutely nothing can turn someone who can't sleep on planes into someone who can sleep on planes. Believe me, I have tried!

I’ve come to this conclusion too. Sadly my DD is also a non-sleeper on planes despite really trying so it’s just genetic or something.

Movinghouseatlast · 16/08/2025 09:44

Nytol. The full fat version. I just take half as realistically on a 9 hour flight you'll only be able to get 6-7 hours if you want to eat as well, or if the people next to you want to eat.

LokeyCokey · 16/08/2025 09:44

I’ve had diazepam prescribed before, it doesn’t make me very drowsy like it does for some people but I find it relaxes me enough that I can sleep despite being a bit uncomfortable!

awaynboilyurheid · 16/08/2025 09:45

Watching with interest , another who is wide awake even on overnight flights and I cast my jealous eyes across to sleeping OH who can be sleep even before take off! I just read watch films but would love to know how to sleep on a plane.

Youdbeluckyifitchanged · 16/08/2025 09:46

Try listening to the podcast bedtime stories for adults Nothing Much Happens. You'll never get to the end of the story.

Whinge · 16/08/2025 09:46

IMissSparkling · 16/08/2025 09:42

Absolutely nothing can turn someone who can't sleep on planes into someone who can sleep on planes. Believe me, I have tried!

Unfortunately this has been my experience as well.

didwejustbecomebestfriends · 16/08/2025 09:47

I travel regularly to Oz from UK. I have a tried and tested system lol. Get on flight - immediately knock back 2-3 glasses of wine, and 2 phenergan. Sleep for 14 hours. Put a sign on you that says 'don't wake me up for food'. Boom. Works everytime for me.

HermioneWeasley · 16/08/2025 09:48

nytol or those anti histamines that make you drowsy. Stugeron travel sickness pills make me drowsy as well. Eye mask, ear plugs, neck pillow.

Changingplace · 16/08/2025 09:49

I find a really good eye mask and neck pillow make a big difference, then put headphones in and a podcast or chilled music and I always manage to drop off.

Othersnotsomuch · 16/08/2025 09:50

Diazepam from my sister

EveryDayisFriday · 16/08/2025 09:50

Phenergan, silicone ear plugs, a black out eye mask and a really good neck pillow, like those thick foam ones that wrap around.

GameWheelsAlarm · 16/08/2025 09:52

Do you ever fall asleep in front of the TV? I used to have great difficulty falling asleep in bed because of racing thoughts and stress, but would easily fall asleep on the sofa in front of a tv programme as that stopped the thought patterns that were keeping me alert. The game-changer is audiobooks. It's vital to have earphones that you are comfortable enough in to sleep (I wear a bone-conducting shokz headset but position it over my head like an Alice band) and that you choose a book that isn't too exciting plot-wise, has a narrator with a soothing voice, no annoying musical jingles or sound-effects, and you slow down the speed of reading to promote a calm headspace so that you don't want to stay awake to hear the story. Stephen Fry's greek myth stuff is quite good for this. I can now nap whenever I want, in any position, once I am set up my brain is happy to switch off after 5 minutes.

Iocainepowder · 16/08/2025 09:52

Sorry op i don’t have any advice for you but the advice on here about pills and wine is making me think of the scene in Bridesmaids.

Twattergy · 16/08/2025 09:52

Perhaps reframe it as 'getting rest' to take the pressure off. Ideas include:

Exercise during the day before
Avoid alcohol, drink plenty water and eat lightly
Super comfy clothing
Eye mask
Nice oils for face/hands
Sleep/soothing sounds on headphones

If you need to be perky the next day avoid alcohol and melatonin.

layingwoody · 16/08/2025 09:53

i would take an antihistamine (drowsy version) if it were me, or you could take nytol or melatonin? Have a good neck pillow, eye mask and blanket so your cosy, maybe some comfy head phones (playing something relaxing) / ear defenders / ear plugs if you prefer silence.

MagpiePi · 16/08/2025 09:53

IMissSparkling · 16/08/2025 09:42

Absolutely nothing can turn someone who can't sleep on planes into someone who can sleep on planes. Believe me, I have tried!

I was on an overnight flight back from the US once and had a whole row of seats to myself so could lie down.
Number of winks caught = 0

MrsMontyD · 16/08/2025 09:54

Menopause.

Othersnotsomuch · 16/08/2025 10:06

MrsMontyD · 16/08/2025 09:54

Menopause.

The “menopause” helps you sleep for hours on a flight?

bring it on then

kim204 · 16/08/2025 10:14

I would say a very comfy eye mask and loop ear plugs are a great help.

Rocknrollstar · 16/08/2025 10:15

A couple of glasses of wine, headphones and a book on Audible. Probably Michael Pain Around the world in 89 Days.

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