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Do you let your kids go on inflatables in the sea?

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SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 06/08/2025 12:36

I have second-hand trauma from watching this:

The fact that dad was literally RIGHT THERE with them and they were just playing in the shallows and then, Whoosh, gone. It's crazy.

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Liliwen · 06/08/2025 19:01

Only in the shallows of the beach on a very calm day with me right there next to them to ensure they don’t go out. On their own or with me not close by then absolutely not

LavenderBlue19 · 06/08/2025 19:03

DorothyWainwright · 06/08/2025 18:16

No. Only irresponsible thickies let kids do that.

Saw some kids in the sea last week with inflatable rings, the lifeguard was watching them like a hawk. The mum was smiling at them indulgently from the beach like an idiot.

I saw a lifeguard in Mallorca giving a family a bollocking for having inflatable rings in the sea recently. It was a fairly windy day and the sea was a bit choppy (although calmer close to shore) so I could understand his frustration.

MyDeftHedgehog · 06/08/2025 19:04

No way. I grew up by the seaside and know full well what the dangers are. A calm sea can turn in minutes

MoggetsCollar · 06/08/2025 19:07

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 19:00

I have never seen a race abandoned due to a wind shift. I've seen races delayed while they change a course before the start, but once started, IME the race carries on regardless of wind shifts. (Think about it, every single gust will bring a shift in direction of some kind.)

..and we're talking about 30 degree shifts not instantaneous ~180s.

Again, think about it, you'd anchor over night in the Lee of land with open sea behind you. If unexpected ~180° ships were common we'd all have regular disturbed nights and 2am moves. (And I'm not saying that never happens, but again, we're not talking about speedy changes, and there's usually indication in the forecast. The only times it's happened to me in a seriously problematic way have been thermal wind of one variety or another, and pretty gradual.)

OK- well I have seen it lots of times. On junior and youth national circuits, so I guess the committee boats knew what they were doing. I've also seen courses adjusted very significantly mid-race. As I say, I have no personal knowledge, I'm just the roadie. 💁

Sortalike · 06/08/2025 19:14

Nope. Absolutely no way I would allow a lilo/rubber ring/etc in the sea. Im not especially keen on them in pools either.

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 19:22

MoggetsCollar · 06/08/2025 19:07

OK- well I have seen it lots of times. On junior and youth national circuits, so I guess the committee boats knew what they were doing. I've also seen courses adjusted very significantly mid-race. As I say, I have no personal knowledge, I'm just the roadie. 💁

Well, as you know, rule 33 allows the next mark and subsequent marks to be moved so it's possible to alter a course if the circumstances are right.

Abandoning the race to a shift, I'd be amazed if you can find an example of that unless there's some safety issue with the new direction. Typically abandonment would be due to strength, not just a course becoming a bit reachy.

But in either case, we're not talking about a fast unforecast ~180 out of the blue.

If onshore winds typically became offshore winds in the way described above an awful lot of watersports would be incredibly dangerous, not just inflatables.

And there are a very large number of ROs who don't know what they're doing, but that's another issue. 😁

youalright · 06/08/2025 19:31

LavenderBlue19 · 06/08/2025 19:03

I saw a lifeguard in Mallorca giving a family a bollocking for having inflatable rings in the sea recently. It was a fairly windy day and the sea was a bit choppy (although calmer close to shore) so I could understand his frustration.

Good on the lifeguard I cant even begin to imagine how horrific it must be to retrieve a child's body from the sea. And how frustrating it must be to repeatedly see parents put their children and the lifeguards life at risk like that. Its great to see on here most are saying no but you see it often on beaches so clearly lots of parents don't see an issue with it and would probably find it hilarious if the lifeguard had to go in to get their kids

cakeorwine · 06/08/2025 19:51

I've watched enough episodes of Saving Lives at sea to know how dangerous the sea is - and how people can get into trouble with tides, offshore winds, currents and inflatables.

Gmala · 06/08/2025 20:00

Liliwen · 06/08/2025 19:01

Only in the shallows of the beach on a very calm day with me right there next to them to ensure they don’t go out. On their own or with me not close by then absolutely not

This isn't safe, it can take a matter of seconds.

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 06/08/2025 20:09

Sundaybananas · 06/08/2025 18:09

Well, that opened up a can of worms.

Apparently I was rescued by the coast guard (I don’t remember that at all), but dad hoped I had forgotten, and it’s just come out that he never told my mum!

Both parents now in their very late 80s. I would have been about 7 at the time. Mum is now not speaking to dad 😬

Eeeek! That is a pretty big secret to keep from her to be fair!! I hope she's forgiven him tomorrow though! 😂

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Milliethekid · 06/08/2025 20:34

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 06/08/2025 16:33

No, my family used to go to the East coast every summer when I was a child. The beach had a creek, which was ok when the tide was out. However it created a dangerous current, when the tide was going in. We knew, not to swim in the sea near the creek, but it made me realise how currents can be dangerous on a beach, you don’t know well - and children on inflatables are an accident waiting to happen!

Someone drowned a few weeks ago on an inflatable on that beach.

I'm guessing Anderby creek?

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 20:54

Milliethekid · 06/08/2025 20:34

I'm guessing Anderby creek?

Google suggests two deaths there last month. 😬

Gettingbysomehow · 06/08/2025 20:56

Absutely not there have been numerous people who have been swept out to sea on strong tides over the years. I've always lived by the sea until recently here and abroad and there have been many such deaths. Tides are very unpredictable.

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 21:04

Tides are very unpredictable.

The UK Hydrographic Office might be surprised to hear that.

edwinbear · 06/08/2025 21:20

Inflatables in the pool only, never, ever in the sea. I’ve been scuba diving for 25 years and am also a cross channel swimmer. I wouldn’t use an inflatable in the sea, let alone wave my kids off on one - and I massively judge parents who do.

Liliwen · 06/08/2025 22:10

Gmala · 06/08/2025 20:00

This isn't safe, it can take a matter of seconds.

That’s why I’m right there holding on to it. On a calm sunny day abroad in shallow, still waters. Never on a windy day, never in the Uk and never past shallow waters. My children are strong swimmers but are still not allowed to be on inflatables without me right there holding them.

Throwawayagain1234 · 06/08/2025 22:19

Never and if the lifeguards are flying the orange wind sock (for no inflatables) that includes stand up paddle boards.

Do you let your kids go on inflatables in the sea?
knitnerd90 · 06/08/2025 22:23

I've been to a few places where the beach was a sheltered bay or lagoon with no currents, and I would allow inflatables with supervision. Most beaches, especially on the open ocean, absolutely not.

SeriousFaffing · 06/08/2025 22:28

No. As someone who drifted out to sea alone in a tiny blow up dinghy when I was 5 and on holiday abroad, absolutely not.

Inflatables are only for the pool.

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 08/08/2025 16:06

@Milliethekid - Yes!

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 08/08/2025 18:38

SeriousFaffing · 06/08/2025 22:28

No. As someone who drifted out to sea alone in a tiny blow up dinghy when I was 5 and on holiday abroad, absolutely not.

Inflatables are only for the pool.

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