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Do you let your kids go on inflatables in the sea?

121 replies

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 06/08/2025 12:36

I have second-hand trauma from watching this:

The fact that dad was literally RIGHT THERE with them and they were just playing in the shallows and then, Whoosh, gone. It's crazy.

OP posts:
Dreamerinme · 06/08/2025 17:15

Absolutely not. Inflatables are for swimming pools, not the unpredictable sea conditions.

We’ve must come back from the beach and two large families arrived with inflatables later in the afternoon. The sea was becoming quite choppy by then and these kids and their parents were being thrown about in the water and they were also the only ones swimming outside of the red/yellow flags. The lifeguards put a message on the loudspeaker to move inside the flags which they ignored; a lifeguard also went and spoke to them about the inflatables and to move inside the flags - they also ignored them. What can you do if people simply don’t care?

FindingMeno · 06/08/2025 17:16

We did as kids in the 70's but I didn't let my children. I only let them swim in the sea if I was in swimming with them when they were younger.

Radiatorvalves · 06/08/2025 17:18

No inflatables in the sea but I’ve allowed kids to use them on lakes in France. Recently kayaked in the Med (quite far from shore) with life jackets and used paddle board in sheltered bay (no life jacket). Kids are now young adults.

Hatty65 · 06/08/2025 17:19

No. I live by the sea and have family and friends who are on the Lifeboat.

Anyone who lets their child on an inflatable in the sea is a fool. We have folks (mostly children) drowned every year. People should educate themselves about the dangers if they are going on holiday somewhere and don't realise what local conditions are like.

No local round here would ever buy their kids an inflatable.

TurquoiseDress · 06/08/2025 17:21

Definitely not!

Surely inflatables are just for use in swimming pools…well that’s where we use them!

Sundaybananas · 06/08/2025 18:09

Sundaybananas · 06/08/2025 16:23

Christ no!

Strangely this has brought up what must have been a suppressed memory of my dad putting me in a tethered dingy on the beach at Filey in the 70s. The rope broke and it shot out to sea so quickly with a gust of wind. I remember being scared, and barely being able to even see the beach, but not what happened afterwards. I’ve just messaged my dad to ask!

Well, that opened up a can of worms.

Apparently I was rescued by the coast guard (I don’t remember that at all), but dad hoped I had forgotten, and it’s just come out that he never told my mum!

Both parents now in their very late 80s. I would have been about 7 at the time. Mum is now not speaking to dad 😬

Farkinhell · 06/08/2025 18:12

Absolutely not. Coastal town with lifeboat station and they are often extolling the tragedies that this can cause.

Crispynoodle · 06/08/2025 18:13

I live near the sea too and absolutely not! We are very sea savvy around here as it can get choppy most locals understand rip tides, floating if in trouble using bouys and dressing appropriately. We were at our local beach today and everyone were in wetsuits and were doing activities within sight of the lifeguards definitely no inflatables!

DorothyWainwright · 06/08/2025 18:16

No. Only irresponsible thickies let kids do that.

Saw some kids in the sea last week with inflatable rings, the lifeguard was watching them like a hawk. The mum was smiling at them indulgently from the beach like an idiot.

Poppins2016 · 06/08/2025 18:16

Never. I wouldn't entertain "just rock pools", either (too much temptation to enter open water "just this once"). Inflatables are for a pool, with close supervision, only.

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 18:21

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 06/08/2025 12:36

I have second-hand trauma from watching this:

The fact that dad was literally RIGHT THERE with them and they were just playing in the shallows and then, Whoosh, gone. It's crazy.

Onshore wind, yes. Offshore wind no.

MoggetsCollar · 06/08/2025 18:35

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 18:21

Onshore wind, yes. Offshore wind no.

The wind can flip round in seconds! Would your kids even know that had happened?

Gowlett · 06/08/2025 18:37

No, never.

cadburyegg · 06/08/2025 18:39

No, absolutely not.

mindutopia · 06/08/2025 18:39

No, never. Don’t own an inflatable. We live by the sea and swim year round.

That said, I would like to take of few of the idiot tourists with their bodyboards and their GoPros who have nearly drowned me on many occasions and put them on an inflatable and give them a good shove off into offshore winds. 🙄

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 18:46

MoggetsCollar · 06/08/2025 18:35

The wind can flip round in seconds! Would your kids even know that had happened?

They're both keen sailors, so yes, but I'd be down there first. And I'm not sure the wind does flip around it seconds. Or at least I've never know it to. Clearly if the forecast looks variable it might be a concern.

The main time you'd get a true 180 switch in wind direction would be a thermal land/sea breeze and that takes time and the conditions are obvious long before it happens.

FurForksSake · 06/08/2025 18:48

Sundaybananas · 06/08/2025 18:09

Well, that opened up a can of worms.

Apparently I was rescued by the coast guard (I don’t remember that at all), but dad hoped I had forgotten, and it’s just come out that he never told my mum!

Both parents now in their very late 80s. I would have been about 7 at the time. Mum is now not speaking to dad 😬

Oh god, what a day your dad is having 🤣

Radiowaawaa · 06/08/2025 18:50

No, we live by the sea. All dc attended surf club as children and were all taught the dangers of the sea.

Radiowaawaa · 06/08/2025 18:51

Sundaybananas · 06/08/2025 18:09

Well, that opened up a can of worms.

Apparently I was rescued by the coast guard (I don’t remember that at all), but dad hoped I had forgotten, and it’s just come out that he never told my mum!

Both parents now in their very late 80s. I would have been about 7 at the time. Mum is now not speaking to dad 😬

Oops!

MoggetsCollar · 06/08/2025 18:52

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 18:46

They're both keen sailors, so yes, but I'd be down there first. And I'm not sure the wind does flip around it seconds. Or at least I've never know it to. Clearly if the forecast looks variable it might be a concern.

The main time you'd get a true 180 switch in wind direction would be a thermal land/sea breeze and that takes time and the conditions are obvious long before it happens.

If your kids are competitive sailors then surely you have seen lots of races abandoned mid-race because the wind has shifted so far round that the course is no longer viable? As you will know, junior races are generally 45 mins max, so it happens well within that time. I know absolutely nothing about sailing and wind, but I've seen this happen multiple times to DS on the race course.

rubyslippers · 06/08/2025 18:52

Sundaybananas · 06/08/2025 18:09

Well, that opened up a can of worms.

Apparently I was rescued by the coast guard (I don’t remember that at all), but dad hoped I had forgotten, and it’s just come out that he never told my mum!

Both parents now in their very late 80s. I would have been about 7 at the time. Mum is now not speaking to dad 😬

Omg!

Brunettesmorefun · 06/08/2025 18:53

No. I consider it too risky.

PoxyAndIKnowIt · 06/08/2025 18:59

No way!
I read a book in primary school (in the 70s) called ‘Aristide’ about a French boy who blew across the English Channel on a lilo, and it freaked me out!

LavenderBlue19 · 06/08/2025 19:00

No, absolutely not. Was never allowed as a child in the 80s/90s, either. I did have a boogie board but with strict instructions to stay within the flags and within my depth, as it's so easy to float out to sea.

EaglesSwim · 06/08/2025 19:00

MoggetsCollar · 06/08/2025 18:52

If your kids are competitive sailors then surely you have seen lots of races abandoned mid-race because the wind has shifted so far round that the course is no longer viable? As you will know, junior races are generally 45 mins max, so it happens well within that time. I know absolutely nothing about sailing and wind, but I've seen this happen multiple times to DS on the race course.

I have never seen a race abandoned due to a wind shift. I've seen races delayed while they change a course before the start, but once started, IME the race carries on regardless of wind shifts. (Think about it, every single gust will bring a shift in direction of some kind.)

..and we're talking about 30 degree shifts not instantaneous ~180s.

Again, think about it, you'd anchor over night in the Lee of land with open sea behind you. If unexpected ~180° ships were common we'd all have regular disturbed nights and 2am moves. (And I'm not saying that never happens, but again, we're not talking about speedy changes, and there's usually indication in the forecast. The only times it's happened to me in a seriously problematic way have been thermal wind of one variety or another, and pretty gradual.)

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