Millionaire£ at 23, self made. Feel lost.

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I became a millionaire£ at 23.

All happened between 20-23.

Self made, have 3 buy to let houses with 300k£ equity in them rented out. With 750k£ liquid money.

The change happened so fast. All of my friends have regular income , it’s sometimes hard to do things I want to do as income difference.

I am use to making money so quickly that essentially I feel as if I’ve lost touch over it. As no one around me friend wise can relate or I speak with about it. Does anyone else feel like this in a similar situation?

I’ve lost motivation. Feel disconnected from the people around me who I grew up with.

I'm in exactly this situation. I'm sat here, in my pink castle, surrounded by only unicorns and fairies, wondering where it all went wrong. I'm so lonely and feel nobody understands my struggles. I made million 366£ just yesterday aged 20. Today I'm 29 years aged and made 4 million 84$$ before even waking up.

It is hard not to fit in with your peers, for any reason. I second coaching or some career counselling- you need something to do that you enjoy and you have the rare luxury of not having to worry about income.
What are or were you hobbies? Would you be interested in coaching sports, environmental activities?

Money isn’t the issue.

its feel disconnected from the real world and people around me being average people so cannot relate to them.

Volunteer with a charity and get a part time regular job, both of these will give you focus while you consider next steps. Join some entrepreneur networking groups to meet people in similar circumstances.

I assume you didn't get rich from your way with words!

I am googling it as we speak thank you!

Possibly a troll

If this is true, then you definitely need a therapist.

Very possibly!

Where did you get the money to buy 3 buy to lets at such a young age, such that you already have 300k equity in them? And where has the 750000 come from? Is it all from inheritance? Gift from relative? Lottery winnings?

Even if you'd got a grad job at 21 earning 200k pa, with no other money you're not getting to your position by 23.

If I was immature, I would have zero houses and zero money lol.

i would have a Lamborghini and live very differently.

if you was 23, do you think you’d still have it? Every single person my age would have wasted everything. On average I spend 1-2k a month on fun which in the scheme of things I think is valid.

If you find it hard to spend money, why are you having problems with your friends having less money than you, or with them not being able to spontaneously go on holiday with you?

As others have said, you don't have to spend your money, you can keep building it up.

I agree that’s why I didn’t reply.

i do not want them to use me, as sometimes I already feel as if they expect me to pay for things.

Don't beleive a word of this, but on the off chance that there is a grain of truth - stop talking about money and describing people as "average".

The way I made money is in a way the way you speak makes zero difference.

Hopefully that attitude doesn't go as far as refusing to spend money on your buy to lets maintaining them. There are plenty of stingy landlords about who only think about maximising their profit after their mortgage is paid.

Please read my post….

”self made” I have my own business I started early 20s. Which I never expected to turn out the way it did money wise.

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I’m not buying it. The sort of person who can make a million in three years:

a) wouldn’t then moon around feeling unconnected from people; and
b) wouldn’t know that a million isn’t enough just to put your feet up, unless you’re planning a very average life.

Them earnings 30k a year is an average wage. I’m not trying to offend but that is the realistic truth.

What sort of job were you doing to earn enough for the deposits? Can’t you go back to doing that or retrain in something that interests you?

Whatever the job was I’m assuming it didn’t require good communication skills.

So pay for a villa in Spain or somewhere for a week then they only have to pay for their flights and spends.

Sorry?

I never said money was the issue.

money created a disconnect of reality as it was made so fast whilst my friends and peeers stayed similar.

You'd be surprised.

But until the OP has therapy they will carry on feeling dissociated. They won't find any answers on here, other than to confirm their fear that everyone resents them.