He's a man I used to work with. I always liked him and I think maybe he liked me too.
I've seen people on MN say that if a man really likes you he'll always make a move, however shy he is. So that suggests he didn't like me.
But, we worked together and he was an over thinker, always second guessing himself. I can imagine him panicking that it would be sexual harassment in the workplace if he asked me out and I said no.
But then, even when we stopped working together he didn't. But neither did I. We both still work for the same company but different branches so we never see each other.
I'm worried that if I get in touch now after all this time it'll look like I've just run out of other options and I've finally got around to him. But I never had any other options, I just never had the courage.
For all I know he might not even be single anymore.
I was wondering if I just send a breezy "Hi, long time no see, how are you?" type message and then depending on how/ if he replies ask if he wants to meet up, would that be weird?
We always got on really well and I miss him.