Ok so a lot came up here.
Twice the seven of swords popped out you see which depicts someone who is carrying a heavy burden. I want to be sure that you are not carrying this alone. One person cannot fix a relationship on their own. It takes both partners to want it and to be willing to do the work.
Just a side note too, in this card the person also caries 5 swords and looks back at 2 he has dropped. This can point to issues around infidelity. Or, issues of hanging onto the past, unable to enjoy what they currently have.
Something is heavy. Perhaps past emotional damage. There is something around healing which also makes me wonder regarding health issues. Also the word 'bashfullness' which may be something revolving around intimate health or feelings regarding intimacy.
There is a wistfulness. An issue connecting dreams with reality. Someone might be imagining more into the relationship than there is in some way.
I want to say that wounds cannot heal with thorns still in place (Annnnd that doesn't sound dodgy at all).
It seems some information is coming in or something change is set to happen in winter or spring. Perhaps around the time the snowdrops start to come out.
I don't know how else to say this but, I really don't like this situation. It's not to say I don't like the relationship of course. But I keep getting 'heavy heavy heavy'. Perhaps smothering too.
I hope whatevers going on here you can resolve.
I leave you with one last thought which was coming up - how much supporting should a pillar need? When it's its job to BE that support.