Anyone fancy a quick tarot card reading? (I need practice)

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Trying to get better at reading the cards.

Anyone got something they want a quick answer too? Yes/no questions are ideal for the sake of speed but if you really want to know something else feel free to ask.

I'm NOT a psychic so you'll probably need to give some context. Just whatever you are comfortable with.

Just for fun guys. Don't take it too serious x

OK after quite a bad year so far, and that's putting it mildly, are things going to be looking up for me any time soon?

Yes please 🙏

Yes please 🙏. Never had a reading before! Will I progress in my career? Also single SN's mum, will I ever have a date again?

There's something about travel or a lot of movement.

A situation being worked at.

Keeping yourself busy.

Something happening quickly. But that might not necessarily be reconciliation.

I get the feeling the cards are telling you there's some more information to come in. To be curious about something.

They're not like - don't have anything further to do with this person! But they are talking about being true to yourself.

Perhaps consider a break or a trip. Put your own self care first.

Interesting! I'm not long back from a holiday and I have been trying to keep myself busy. I'm not sure what the "more information" is all about, but it sounds like there may well be hope, which is good. Thank you!

The power is in your hands. There has been or will be a twist of fate.

There's talk of working diligently to grow things over time.

There is...(Or you maybe just worry there is) something unexpected coming in but not necessarily bad.

It looks like this is going well for you. My feeling is it's saying to shake off the uncertainty and keep your focus on your new venture. There will be ups and downs but that's part of life and you will weather them.

I’d absolutely love one please - but only if you have time.

Ooft so just an easy, bog standard question which couldn't possibly have enormous implications if I say yes or no then xD

I'd hit the Mumsnet relationship forum for that one. They're the best people to give advice.

My feeling is there is movement. But it doesn't need to mean permanent movement. It may be in the form of a temporary break.

I wonder if there's another person involved? Or something revolving around religion or morality. Eg, the sacredness of marriage.

There is upset. But it might be upset about an unknown. That could be fear of what life would be like if you walk away. Or, upset about a lie you've been told or a situation there hasn't been honesty around.

My feeling is that it's uncertain, because you are uncertain. But some sort of new beginning or clean slate is on the cards.

And everyone on Mumsnet shouts in unison 'Hellllllll no!'. Lol.

But I take a look objectively.

Annnd up come the death card (no) and the devil card (he's up to some sort of mischief or just looking for sex/to use you in some way).

I mean he might not be a wrong'un or anything but he's looking for his own personal pleasure. It's not like a lost love, one that got away situation for him.

Ask yourself what YOU could get from this situation. Be selfish like he is. You don't owe him some kind of sympathy contact. And if you are looking to just hook up...an ex maybe isn't the way to go. Or, maybe it is...but don't expect him to care about your wants. He's in it for him.

I'd just not reply, personally.

Yes please! ...shall I stay in my current job?...& is love on the horizon anytime soon? Thank you for offering to do this

Dreams lead to ideas. Ideas can be put into action.

I'd let him feel things out. I think he may decide it's not viable in his own time. But he has to learn his own life lessons. And phoenix rise from ashes.

Will my life get easier?

That makes sense, thank you x

I do see an offer of some sort but it's like, the person doesn't want it.

Either that's a no or, it is you deciding you don't want the job I'd say. Maybe when some more info comes to light.

There's a feeling of
'Impress me'. Like a grumpy old man wants you to bend over backwords and you're like, 'nope!'. Or like you go to an interview and realise they want too much from you but can't give you what YOU deserve.

I do see you grasping something though. There is something coming in you will seize.

Thanks.

Interesting....this is the third time I've tried to get promoted, and the job I've applied for is a very good match to my current role, so it's a perfect opportunity to go for it.

The other 2 jobs were similar, but I didn't have enough experience they were looking for.

Im hoping to hear by the end of the week if I have an interview. My initial aim is for the application to score higher than the previous 2!

Yeh there's something about it not being clear cut. Maybe they've just been waiting for you to get the score and impress them though tbf. Maybe third times the charm.

Could be something needs a rejig. Or a similar role comes up that suits better.

Fingers crossed though op!

Definitely advocate for yourself. I feel being bold and asking for what you want rather than being a yes man will help.

There's coming and going. Ebb and flow.

I feel this is an energy of maybe feeling you always need to be the one making the effort or they just forget you.
And 'oh well,I am used to it just being me anyway'.

If acquaintances coming and going but it being hard to make friends. But getting out and about and having fun is still worthwhile. And temporary acquaintances still have merit.

There is talk of a pet.
(Perhaps dog walking might help you meet folk if it's a possibility).

Something like meetup.com might be handy. Or bumble friends section.

There is points this year where you feel a little left out but there are social events too. And I see you striking out on your own little adventures so getting over the more low times quite fast. Like, this isn't your first 'people can be a bit shit' rodeo.
Just keep putting one foot Infront of the other.
Keep trying new activities to meet new folk.

Hmm, interesting.
Without going into too much detail, that makes sense all things considered. Sadly because I did and do like him, but he messed with my head before. My DD basically said last time he messaged that I should leave him in ‘archived’.
But your first line did make me laugh.
And thank you so much for doing this.

Listen to that daughter of yours! Sounds like she sees his game. If it was a short relationship and he was already messing with your head, it's probably not going to get better keeping him floating around.

Cards say he's a wanker.
Ok they don't .... But I bet they would if they could haha.

Will my mum get sober? She’s just gone to rehab for the first time in her 70 years. Thank you xx

More diligent work is on the horizon.
Finances will improve via that not by windfall. But money is coming in.

Your book has something worth saying. If need be, consider self publishing.

Wow thankyou so much.
Love that.

It's asking you to consider a few things.

There's something about a daughter.
I think it might be - If you had a daughter, would you want her to marry someone like this man?
But it could also be that a child is relevant and holds the key to next steps.

For some reason that phrase 'what do they bring to the table?' comes to mind. That could be for various reasons. It could be that one or both parties is being too analytical (OR not analytical enough).

It raises issues like 'i want to marry this person but I'm not sure they are my equal or, I am theirs, contribution wise'. My thought was about work and financial but it could even be 'will they pull their weight in the home?' or 'are they emotionally available and capable of communicating with me in the way I would like?'.

Is there balance, harmony, give and take?
Do you both want the same things?

All the obvious considerations really. My feeling is you need to take a little more time and do the due dilleligence. If he's right for you, there's no rush.

The vibe I was getting card wise is about a person... not being the nicest to you.

I drew a little affirmation card and it says 'in order to manifest a happier life, you need to be clear about what you want'.

Now either this means being very clear with this person and setting boundaries for how things are to be if he wishes to continue the marriage. And setting these boundaries for YOURSELF too (if he crosses them after agreeing not to, you leave).OR it means, that you need to make a list of what you want from your life (pay special consideration to things like how you wish to feel each day) and consider if the things in your current life, support that reality that you wish for.

You may even find that if you state your boundaries, he throws a strop and goes. Or, refuses to heed them so, you decide you are done.

A card drawn talks about healing. Whether or not this is about the state of the marriage however, I do not know. But I feel you need to take action to shift things forwards, not let the current situation stagnate.

I think my request might have been lost but I’d really love your take on whether my final double embryo transfer will work, please?! And if it will be twins if so! Thank you x