My son is about to leave primary - he leaves tomorrow .
He has had a little crush for a while and he decided to tell her. He’s a quiet , sweet boy and he was really nervous. They all seem to be having girlfriends and boyfriends in the class - way too young but it’s all innocent - he got on well with this young girl and they spoke a lot outside school . She said no.
Thos is absolutely fine! She then told everyone in the class - again, not an issue she’s just a little girl and they’re all so young.
The sad thing is , her and her friends have today wrote some really unkind things in his leavers book. Things like “ you’re so ugly “ , “ why did you think she would say yes “ , “ I would rather die than date you “ , saying things about his size , that he’s already conscious about , and horrible names .
What do I do about this ? He will never see them again, he doesn’t want me to say anything and said it’s just jokes , but the messages do not look like jokes to me. It’s his last day tomorrow so I haven’t spoke to the parents as I don’t want him dealing with that. I have messaged his class teacher though as they will be signing shirts tomorrow and I don’t want nasty messages. He can tear the pages from the book , but not his shirt.
I feel so sad for him