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Dd got spiked

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Partytimeisover · 12/07/2025 09:57

Dd went to a club last night for her birthday. There were 8 of them. She had arranged to hire a booth for them. Where the price includes cocktails and few other drinks. They were all sharing drinks between the 8 of them.

No one got ill like dd did. It was stuff like paranoia seeing stuff breathless rashes. She didn't know who anyone was she thought she was being attacked etc. The hospital said since everyone else is fine it was probably a brush by? Apprently someone injected her as they brush passed you.

Couple things im wondering. Why does that happen. What's the person spiking her get from it? Surely they are loosing out on money.

Also its odd that it was the birthday person who was injected why her out of 8. Is there something in that or is it just a coincidence?

Dd is ol she's been in the hospital since silly o'clock. Where they done blood test. Keep eye on her . They are giving fluids to flush it out of her system she will be able to leave soon.

OP posts:
Rabbitsockpeony · 13/07/2025 15:00

neverpostingidontthink · 13/07/2025 08:06

As someone who works in healthcare, it’s unlikely she was spiked and more likely she was too drunk/ bad reaction to drink/ has taken drugs and won’t admit it. You may think she’s not “that type” but I’m sure my parents swore I also wasn’t “that type” and I tried some things they weren’t aware of.

What an outrageous thing for someone who apparently (yeah right) works in healthcare to say. This is why women don’t report these things, they’re not believed.

And as someone who actually does work in a relevant industry, spiking is disturbingly common.

justasking111 · 13/07/2025 15:04

runningonberocca · 13/07/2025 14:55

The OPs daughter isn’t a teen. She is a 28 yr old woman who had no need to make up any excuses to her parents. If she had got very drunk or taken drugs she just wouldn’t have told her mother anything if she chose not to. And alcohol does not tend to cause a rash, breathing difficulties and hallucinations
It’s so demeaning and so invalidating to refer to parents believing “ their little darlings”. This young woman could have been in very real danger and she is having to defend herself to be believed.
And by the way I would also think very poorly of anyone slipping extra shots into the birthday girls drinks unbeknownst to her. It’s still extremely dangerous.
I really hope nothing like this ever happens to you or yours. And if it does that you believe them..

My friend was teetotal, 44 years of age and on no meds at all. She just went to a party because her husband did business with the host who subsequently it was discovered thought himself a Hugh Hefner, had cameras inside and outside of his mansion and estate recording for god knows what reason.

There's some sick bastard's out there.

ohyesido · 13/07/2025 15:51

I’m in no doubt that spiking happens.

I’m also in no doubt that sometimes drink can have unexpected unpleasant effects and often spiking is the more palatable theory than simply having had too much alcohol.

the information about the substance having left her system in that short period of time is nonsense and an excuse for why tests couldn’t verify.

it sounds like she simply had something that disagreed with her like many other people before her.

spikers don’t spike for laughs and needle spikes would leave a puncture

RentalWoesNotFun · 14/07/2025 10:54

I wonder if some people even read the post properly OP. Rashes and breathing difficulties and not recognising your pals dont tend to occur with having a couple of sherries too many.

Defo police. ASAP. Even if she’s exhausted and cant face it. They may want different bloods taken or something? You’d thinkI a toxology report or whatever they call it should be done. Shes been assaulted. It’s needing investigated. Im glad shes ok now. Terrifying.

Angrymum22 · 14/07/2025 16:09

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 13/07/2025 12:50

@Angrymum22 the same thing happened to my 6'3" DS. He was 25, on holiday in a big city abroad, and got spiked by the barman in the hotel where he was staying. The guy tried to sexually assault him but - thank God - DS was alert enough to get away.

He didn't report it because he was in a foreign country and was due to fly home 2 days later. He moved hotels for the final night. He was quite traumatised by it - understandably.

I'd honestly never thought to warn him about the possibility of date rape drugs being used on him.

There were a number of young men spiked the same week DS was spiked. DS was flying abroad the same week and I had to sort out antibiotics first him since he had an open wound ( whole different story) on his hand.
The assistant pharmacy was asking what they were for and said her son had also been spiked the same weekend, he’d been out for a quiet drink with friends after work. An hour into the evening his friends had to take him home and carry him into the house.
Another friend of DS’s was spiked at a young farmers do around the same time. Again he had a couple of drinks and virtually collapsed. All three were tall good looking lads which is worrying.
DS did think that it wasn’t actually meant for him. He’d bought two pints and one of the girls in his group was drinking from one of them, DS’s pint was spilt so when they went to go he knocked back the other pint the girl had been drinking from. Up to that point he remembered everything, but remembers nothing after drinking that pint. The worrying thing was that he bought a couple of kebabs at one point, but had no idea why he bought two. It was the rambling about some bloke lurking outside our house that made me think that someone had been with him. He thought it was the night club bouncer but it could have been the person who spiked him, who may have been attempting to isolate him.

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