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Worried about ds going to secondary

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Imagoodperson999 · 21/06/2025 09:11

Ds will be going into year 6 in September. Im really worried about him starting secondary school. He has autism is on an ehcp. He's had his ehcp updated recently. He's working at year 1 level.

He's very sensitive and can get withdrawn emotionally/mentally. He will completely close down and won't/can't communicate.

SENCO have said he will be ok at mainstream secondary. With support and neutering.

I find it hard to believe a secondary school can be understanding of him . Have the time and patience to listen to him and be neutering.

I have spoken to one secondary school which my dd still gos to and my adult son went to. They said Ds would be put on the lowest level which makes sense. Home work must be done. The thing with this is they do sparkx? Sorry I may have got the name wrong and if they don't get 100% right they get detention.. so ds will get punished for not knowing answers . He also can't obtain information very well . So he could have been helped with the answer in class but he won't remember that by the time he gets home. And that would be in school at well so he would come across as if he's nkt paying attention. He can't start hus work on his own so he will just sit there and not communicate.

He's ok socially with friends.

But also I know SEN school would not be suitable for him.

I just want him to be happy . Not scared of going to school. Not punished for having special needs.

Home education would not be suitable and private is out of the question

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Kirbert2 · 22/06/2025 18:33

I'm worried about my son going to secondary too. He's Year 5 in September.

He is physically disabled and needs a lot of support due to that but has no learning disabilities so special schools aren't appropriate for him. I'd fight for special school in your sons case due to his learning disability.

Imagoodperson999 · 22/06/2025 18:46

Violinist64 · 22/06/2025 18:22

If he is working at a year one level at the end of year five, why is a special school not suitable for him? Sadly, the gap between your son and the other children is only going to increase the older they get. I would be very surprised if any mainstream school could truthfully accommodate his needs. Don't forget that your LEA will have a budget to think about and it is much cheaper to send a child to mainstream school, even with support, than a special school. My advice would be to look at both mainstream and special schools and see which one would suit your son best. You need to start looking now - don't leave it until year six.

I do feel like sen would be better. But what if they say no. I mean there's only 1 sen school i can see that may be suitable.

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Imagoodperson999 · 22/06/2025 18:51

Kirbert2 · 22/06/2025 18:33

I'm worried about my son going to secondary too. He's Year 5 in September.

He is physically disabled and needs a lot of support due to that but has no learning disabilities so special schools aren't appropriate for him. I'd fight for special school in your sons case due to his learning disability.

Ah it's so hard . I hope you get sorted . I wish I could help but as you can see im in a muddle to. Fingers crossed it works out 🤞

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Moosefish81 · 22/06/2025 20:01

I work as a teacher in an autistic resource base, which is attached to a mainstream secondary school. Our students are in the resource base for tutor time and spend some lessons with us where we work on things outside of the mainstream curriculum (speech and language, emotional regulation, anxiety etc.) but their curriculum teaching takes place within the mainstream school. We wouldn’t consider a child who was working at year 1 level as they just wouldn’t be able to access the curriculum. The lowest level we would consider is year 3 level. Where we have taken children at this level, due to parental preference, they have struggled and haven’t made the progress we would want for them. I really would recommend looking at specialist provision for your son as this sounds like it would suit his needs better.

cestlavielife · 22/06/2025 20:23

Imagoodperson999 · 22/06/2025 18:46

I do feel like sen would be better. But what if they say no. I mean there's only 1 sen school i can see that may be suitable.

You find all the reasonsthat one is suitable

Imagoodperson999 · 22/06/2025 20:30

Moosefish81 · 22/06/2025 20:01

I work as a teacher in an autistic resource base, which is attached to a mainstream secondary school. Our students are in the resource base for tutor time and spend some lessons with us where we work on things outside of the mainstream curriculum (speech and language, emotional regulation, anxiety etc.) but their curriculum teaching takes place within the mainstream school. We wouldn’t consider a child who was working at year 1 level as they just wouldn’t be able to access the curriculum. The lowest level we would consider is year 3 level. Where we have taken children at this level, due to parental preference, they have struggled and haven’t made the progress we would want for them. I really would recommend looking at specialist provision for your son as this sounds like it would suit his needs better.

Thank you. Its a madness that senco have told me that he will be ok in mainstream. They dont actually care do they . 😔

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perpetualplatespinning · 22/06/2025 21:02

You will get the right of appeal, so when the LA finalise the phase transfer appeal, you can appeal.

taeglas · 22/06/2025 21:19

Have you looked at your local authority and the local offer to see what help they offer with transition to Secondary. In my local authority there are various transition events for parents and autistic young people both online and in person. I watched an online event this year where local schools both mainstream and special, explained what provision they offered. There was also input from parents who had been through the process.

In the Autism Education Trust resources section there is information on transition, questions to ask, what school should be putting in place to support with transition etc. (school transition guide part 1-3)

https://www.autismeducationtrust.org.uk/resources

Autism Education Trust

Helping you support autistic children and young people since 2007

https://www.autismeducationtrust.org.uk/resources

Imagoodperson999 · 24/06/2025 11:35

I spoke to sos!sen this morning. She was really helpful. She laughed in disbelief. That DS would manage in mainstream. She basically echoed what otgers said on here. I have sent a copy of ds ehcp. So they will look at that . Im not sure how long it will take.

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Violinist64 · 24/06/2025 14:38

Well done @Imagoodperson999. You have set the right ball rolling, which is the main thing. It helps to call in every so often so that your son's name is kept in mind.
My first thought when you said that he was working at a year one level is just how far behind he is. Transpose the scenario to mainstream secondary school and he will still be doing simple number bonds or telling the time while everyone else will be starting simple algebra and working on more complex fractions. Later on, they will be studying Shakespeare while he will still be reading at the level of Biff, Chip and Kipper. As for history, geography and chemistry..... It is completely unfair to him and everyone else involved. My own ASD son went to a special school and it was the best thing for him. He thrived there as all the work was tailored towards each individual child, the adult/child ratio was very high and even the smallest achievement was praised and celebrated. He had far more opportunities than he would have had elsewhere. Good luck.

Imagoodperson999 · 25/06/2025 12:44

I spoke to senco at primary again. I told her I dont think ds is not suited to mainstream. She asked what's worrying me so I bluntly told her.

I gave her an example of my dd school.
The whole year group are made to suvavd abd hold their pencil case in the air until all pencil cases have been checked.. its not so much the checking. Its the holding your arm up in the air for a period of time.

Home work due in on friday BUT if it's not handed in by Wednesday . Children are kept behinde Thursday and made to do it at after school homework club.

If the maths homework isn't 100%correct they get detention.

Example: if ds was given say a math and teacher said they be back on a bit. If ds doesn't understand he wont communicate that he will just sit there . And then probably get into trouble for just sitting there.

I said how ds can't follow instructions he forgets within seconds.

She said that they will be talking to the school and talking about the type of person max is. So they will know hoe he is as a person.

She said about looking at the schools I said obviously I will look. But I said I feel the tours are fake . You don't really get to know what the schools are like and the things that go on until your child actually starts.

I also said if he was to go to a mainstream as soon as something happens whete he gets punished die to his autism I will deregister him.

The reasons shes saying sen school is not suitable is because ds is OK socially/with peers. Alot of the children in the sen schools have complex needs and a much deeper need than ds and he would get held back socially with could effect him mentally and emotionally.

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Harrysmummy246 · 25/06/2025 12:58

Imagoodperson999 · 25/06/2025 12:44

I spoke to senco at primary again. I told her I dont think ds is not suited to mainstream. She asked what's worrying me so I bluntly told her.

I gave her an example of my dd school.
The whole year group are made to suvavd abd hold their pencil case in the air until all pencil cases have been checked.. its not so much the checking. Its the holding your arm up in the air for a period of time.

Home work due in on friday BUT if it's not handed in by Wednesday . Children are kept behinde Thursday and made to do it at after school homework club.

If the maths homework isn't 100%correct they get detention.

Example: if ds was given say a math and teacher said they be back on a bit. If ds doesn't understand he wont communicate that he will just sit there . And then probably get into trouble for just sitting there.

I said how ds can't follow instructions he forgets within seconds.

She said that they will be talking to the school and talking about the type of person max is. So they will know hoe he is as a person.

She said about looking at the schools I said obviously I will look. But I said I feel the tours are fake . You don't really get to know what the schools are like and the things that go on until your child actually starts.

I also said if he was to go to a mainstream as soon as something happens whete he gets punished die to his autism I will deregister him.

The reasons shes saying sen school is not suitable is because ds is OK socially/with peers. Alot of the children in the sen schools have complex needs and a much deeper need than ds and he would get held back socially with could effect him mentally and emotionally.

But she thinks he'll be ok mentally and emotionally in mainstream????

LauraMipsum · 25/06/2025 13:10

Is he okay socially and with peers in reality though? You said in your OP that he's very sensitive, can withdraw and close down and not communicate. He will also be noticeably less able than his peers - because if he is working at Y1 level as he moves into Y6 (so Y2 level by secondary?) then he won't have the ability to keep up with quick back-and-forth chat, or to understand the difference between banter / teasing and nastiness, or to be sauntering out to buy chips at lunchtime and understand how much change he's getting (or whether too much has been taken off his card), etc. That doesn't sound like a child who's going to fit right in with typically achieving teenage boys to me.

BlueDusky · 25/06/2025 13:13

Yeah, that’s crazy. My DS was bullied horribly in the half a term he lasted in mainstream secondary but had a great friendship group in his special school. There was no bullying at that school - DS said everyone was kind to each other because they’d all been through it. It was much better for him socially and emotionally.

Sadly school SENCOs often don’t know what they are talking about, my DS primary school SENCO told me there was no chance of DS getting an EHCP as there was kids in wheelchairs that didn’t have one - I trusted him at the time because I didn’t understand the process and knew no better.

You have to push and keep pushing. Even after we got DS EHCP (very easily I might add) the LEA recommendation was he stayed in mainstream but part-time!! I requested they consult with a specialist school I had identified, they told me I had no chance but again actually got accepted in the special school easily.

If the worst happens de-register though - it’ll be much harder then to get a place somewhere I think.

perpetualplatespinning · 25/06/2025 15:33

Don’t let the SENCO put you off. In the right SS, DS wouldn’t need to be held back socially.

Mainstream secondary may well do that, anyway.

Imagoodperson999 · 25/06/2025 16:13

The staff member who does the transions asked to have a word when I got to the school. She told me to stop worrying and stop over thinking stuff. That all the things im worrying about will be sorted. Then she added he will have a 121 anyway as he has an EHCP. I told her im told they dont have 121 and she said they have to because of the ehcp. I know that's not true. So it undo the other stuff she said to me. I don't believe a word.

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perpetualplatespinning · 25/06/2025 16:17

That member of staff is right. If 1:1 is detailed, specified and quantified in F of the EHCP, it must be provided regardless of what the school normally provides. It would need to be detailed, specified and quantified in F though. Not woolly and vague.

However, I still think you should consider SS.

Imagoodperson999 · 25/06/2025 16:27

perpetualplatespinning · 25/06/2025 16:17

That member of staff is right. If 1:1 is detailed, specified and quantified in F of the EHCP, it must be provided regardless of what the school normally provides. It would need to be detailed, specified and quantified in F though. Not woolly and vague.

However, I still think you should consider SS.

Im gonna look . Because I think i got mixed up. I think on here i put the review of the ehcp . But I think its the original that matters the most im gonbavlook now. I will post it here

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perpetualplatespinning · 25/06/2025 16:31

That’s right. The first set of photographs were from the AR paperwork. You need to look at the actual EHCP.

Imagoodperson999 · 25/06/2025 16:35

perpetualplatespinning · 25/06/2025 16:31

That’s right. The first set of photographs were from the AR paperwork. You need to look at the actual EHCP.

(F) Special Educational Provision above quality first teaching.
Provision

• Max will join a speech and language group run by the speech and language therapist for a block of therapy to work on language, speech and communication skills. Outcomes and recommendations should also be implemented by school.
• Lego therapy would be a good way to help Max in his communication with peers in a structured session. This builds on his love of Lego.

Strategies

Max needs an appropriately differentiated curriculum. Present and give information at a language level he can understand. For example:
• Break down instructions into small, manageable parts or chunks.
• Before giving instructions to Max, call his name, and make sure you have his full attention and that he is looking at you.
• Model/demonstrate what Max has to do before he starts a task.
• Use short, simple instructions, and slow down when talking to Max. Try to break down instructions into short, manageable chunks (rather than “Do x, then do y”, just give one part at a time).
• Allow processing time. Then repeat instructions to Max if needed, making sure you repeat the instruction the same each time
• Use visual support (e.g. natural gesture, facial expression, pictures, symbols, written word) alongside instructions and conversations.

Vocabulary
• Develop a basic communication board with the words he needs to ask for items in class, e.g. pencil sharpener, rubber, toilet, drink, help, finished, break. Have it on the desk and point to it when communicating with Max to encourage him to use it too.

• Pre-teach key or topic vocabulary before Max comes across the words in the lesson.
• Use a consistent structure to explore word meanings and sounds. Think about the first sound of the word, how many syllables, a word it rhymes with, an action for the word, a picture or drawing for the word, use it in a sentence, and give some information about its meaning. For example, a mind map or “Word Wizard” (Word Aware programme).
• When Max has difficulties retrieving a word, prompt him using these categories that he has already covered, e.g. give him the first sound of the word, or ask him to act it out.
• Review the words that have been provided by putting them in a “word pot” or “word bank” on Max’s table, on a word wall in the classroom, or in a vocabulary book.
• Where possible present vocabulary to Max using a multi- sensory approach. Using pictures, symbols, demonstrations.
• Have Max think about words in categories. Play word association games in a small group (e.g. each person has to name something that relates to cars or has to identify the ‘odd one out’ for a list of three).
• Encourage Max to say when he does not understand a word. He can tell the teaching assistant, who can note the word down. Max can collect words that he has ‘captured’ to help expand his vocabulary knowledge.

Asking for help
Encourage Max to ask for help if he does not know what to do. Max could be provided with a visual to help him know how to make specific requests for help. Encourage and praise asking for help in the whole class.

Access to small group work to practise Max’s social communication and conversation skills.
• Encourage small group work or naturally occurring small groups when possible in lessons, or in the playground of no more than 3 children in a group, where Max has to engage with his peers to complete the task, e.g. with opportunities to engage in “role specific” play, for example Lego Therapy, where children are either an “architect”, “engineer” or “builder”. The use of roles encourages children to interact with each other to achieve a shared goal.
• Play games at home that encourage interaction such as passing on objects, exploring together, snap or lotto.
• Give Max visual cues of good conversational skills and refer to them during 1:1 conversation, e.g. “eye contact”, or “talk about the same thing”, asking a question, saying something about what the person he is talking with has said, taking turns in conversation.
• Talkabout” or a social skills intervention may be helpful.
• Play games or activities which develop Max’s abilities to stay on topic during conversation, e.g. category games where you take it in turns to pick an object in the same category (“we are talking about our favourite: toys, fruit, clothes).
• Give Max a visual prompt you can use to show him when he goes “off topic” when answering a question. For example, a picture of a train and a track. The train can move along the track whilst you are talking or playing a game, and when Max gives an irrelevant answer or goes off topic, use the visual support to take the train off the track.
• For Max to use visual support (e.g. a narrative or talking prompt) to help him structure his news clearly e.g. to explain what he has done at the weekend or in the holidays. A talking prompt could also be used in talk partner work in class to help Max talk with a peer about a question the class is discussing

Beginning to develop Max’s explaining skills

• Read lots of stories with Max – these can be both with or without visuals and ask him questions based on the story after this, such as ‘who’ ‘what happened’ ’where’ ‘how’ and ‘what can the characters do? what is going to happen next?’ and ‘why’.
• Encourage Max to expand on his answers in conversation, by using open-ended questions, such as “tell me more”, or by giving him more time to add information.
• Use sets of pictures of familiar sequences (e.g. getting ready for school, growing a flower): put the pictures in order and talk about what happens ‘first, next, last’. Support Max work towards using this structure and vocabulary to talk about real events or to share his news and ask him what he thinks might happen next in the story.
• Try using visual support such as Black sheep press ‘Why, because’ cards to help Max explain his reasoning when answering simple ‘why?’ questions.
• Discuss different real-life scenarios using pictures and objects in a 1:1 or small group setting. Think about what might happen, why and what if. Max may benefit from structured intervention to target this, for example “Mr Goodguess” or Talkabout School/Home ( Black Sheep Press resources).
• School will give Max a piece of work/picture/item to take home to talk about with his Mum. This will help Max to generate ideas and remember an event in school.

Speech
• Provide Max with clear production of words he finds it hard to say, ensuring that he is able to see the mouth of the speaker to help him produce the sounds correctly and with slight emphasis on the word e.g. “I want soo” yes “you want two”. Can you hear that ”t” sound? Praise Max if he tries to copy the correct production or correct himself.

Arrangements for review and evaluation

Max can be re-referred to the Speech & Language service for review once these outcomes have been achieved.

The above is copy and paste from section f

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perpetualplatespinning · 25/06/2025 16:50

Unfortunately, that is too vague any woolly.

Not an exhaustive list, but to give you some examples:
What size speech and language group? How many sessions? How frequently will the sessions be? How long will each session last?
‘Would be a good way’ doesn’t mean it will be provided. And what size group, how frequently, length of session, by who..
‘Needs an appropriately differentiated curriculum.’ doesn’t mean it will be provided,
‘Try to break down…’ doesn’t mean they defintely will.
Why will do the pre-teaching? Lots of provision you mention doesn’t say who will do it, the ratio, frequency, length of time… and the pre-teaching provision is an example of this.
‘Where possible’ and ‘when possible’ means it might never or rarely happen.
What is a ‘small group’? Who will carry this out?
‘could be provided’, ‘may be helfpul’, ‘try using’, ‘may benefit from’ doesn’t mean it will be provided.
‘Access to’ is too vague. It might not be provided.
What is ‘lots of stories’? Who is doing it, where, frequency, length of session, ratio…
The EHCP can’t mandate you provide provision - is the LA going to fund someone at home?

It needs amending to make it detailed, specified and quantified.

Violinist64 · 25/06/2025 17:14

Imagoodperson999 · 25/06/2025 16:35

(F) Special Educational Provision above quality first teaching.
Provision

• Max will join a speech and language group run by the speech and language therapist for a block of therapy to work on language, speech and communication skills. Outcomes and recommendations should also be implemented by school.
• Lego therapy would be a good way to help Max in his communication with peers in a structured session. This builds on his love of Lego.

Strategies

Max needs an appropriately differentiated curriculum. Present and give information at a language level he can understand. For example:
• Break down instructions into small, manageable parts or chunks.
• Before giving instructions to Max, call his name, and make sure you have his full attention and that he is looking at you.
• Model/demonstrate what Max has to do before he starts a task.
• Use short, simple instructions, and slow down when talking to Max. Try to break down instructions into short, manageable chunks (rather than “Do x, then do y”, just give one part at a time).
• Allow processing time. Then repeat instructions to Max if needed, making sure you repeat the instruction the same each time
• Use visual support (e.g. natural gesture, facial expression, pictures, symbols, written word) alongside instructions and conversations.

Vocabulary
• Develop a basic communication board with the words he needs to ask for items in class, e.g. pencil sharpener, rubber, toilet, drink, help, finished, break. Have it on the desk and point to it when communicating with Max to encourage him to use it too.

• Pre-teach key or topic vocabulary before Max comes across the words in the lesson.
• Use a consistent structure to explore word meanings and sounds. Think about the first sound of the word, how many syllables, a word it rhymes with, an action for the word, a picture or drawing for the word, use it in a sentence, and give some information about its meaning. For example, a mind map or “Word Wizard” (Word Aware programme).
• When Max has difficulties retrieving a word, prompt him using these categories that he has already covered, e.g. give him the first sound of the word, or ask him to act it out.
• Review the words that have been provided by putting them in a “word pot” or “word bank” on Max’s table, on a word wall in the classroom, or in a vocabulary book.
• Where possible present vocabulary to Max using a multi- sensory approach. Using pictures, symbols, demonstrations.
• Have Max think about words in categories. Play word association games in a small group (e.g. each person has to name something that relates to cars or has to identify the ‘odd one out’ for a list of three).
• Encourage Max to say when he does not understand a word. He can tell the teaching assistant, who can note the word down. Max can collect words that he has ‘captured’ to help expand his vocabulary knowledge.

Asking for help
Encourage Max to ask for help if he does not know what to do. Max could be provided with a visual to help him know how to make specific requests for help. Encourage and praise asking for help in the whole class.

Access to small group work to practise Max’s social communication and conversation skills.
• Encourage small group work or naturally occurring small groups when possible in lessons, or in the playground of no more than 3 children in a group, where Max has to engage with his peers to complete the task, e.g. with opportunities to engage in “role specific” play, for example Lego Therapy, where children are either an “architect”, “engineer” or “builder”. The use of roles encourages children to interact with each other to achieve a shared goal.
• Play games at home that encourage interaction such as passing on objects, exploring together, snap or lotto.
• Give Max visual cues of good conversational skills and refer to them during 1:1 conversation, e.g. “eye contact”, or “talk about the same thing”, asking a question, saying something about what the person he is talking with has said, taking turns in conversation.
• Talkabout” or a social skills intervention may be helpful.
• Play games or activities which develop Max’s abilities to stay on topic during conversation, e.g. category games where you take it in turns to pick an object in the same category (“we are talking about our favourite: toys, fruit, clothes).
• Give Max a visual prompt you can use to show him when he goes “off topic” when answering a question. For example, a picture of a train and a track. The train can move along the track whilst you are talking or playing a game, and when Max gives an irrelevant answer or goes off topic, use the visual support to take the train off the track.
• For Max to use visual support (e.g. a narrative or talking prompt) to help him structure his news clearly e.g. to explain what he has done at the weekend or in the holidays. A talking prompt could also be used in talk partner work in class to help Max talk with a peer about a question the class is discussing

Beginning to develop Max’s explaining skills

• Read lots of stories with Max – these can be both with or without visuals and ask him questions based on the story after this, such as ‘who’ ‘what happened’ ’where’ ‘how’ and ‘what can the characters do? what is going to happen next?’ and ‘why’.
• Encourage Max to expand on his answers in conversation, by using open-ended questions, such as “tell me more”, or by giving him more time to add information.
• Use sets of pictures of familiar sequences (e.g. getting ready for school, growing a flower): put the pictures in order and talk about what happens ‘first, next, last’. Support Max work towards using this structure and vocabulary to talk about real events or to share his news and ask him what he thinks might happen next in the story.
• Try using visual support such as Black sheep press ‘Why, because’ cards to help Max explain his reasoning when answering simple ‘why?’ questions.
• Discuss different real-life scenarios using pictures and objects in a 1:1 or small group setting. Think about what might happen, why and what if. Max may benefit from structured intervention to target this, for example “Mr Goodguess” or Talkabout School/Home ( Black Sheep Press resources).
• School will give Max a piece of work/picture/item to take home to talk about with his Mum. This will help Max to generate ideas and remember an event in school.

Speech
• Provide Max with clear production of words he finds it hard to say, ensuring that he is able to see the mouth of the speaker to help him produce the sounds correctly and with slight emphasis on the word e.g. “I want soo” yes “you want two”. Can you hear that ”t” sound? Praise Max if he tries to copy the correct production or correct himself.

Arrangements for review and evaluation

Max can be re-referred to the Speech & Language service for review once these outcomes have been achieved.

The above is copy and paste from section f

How would any of this be achievable in a mainstream secondary school? In reality, these are all activities that are more akin to a reception class than a child about to move up to secondary school. The primary school is trying to fob you off. Some primary school SENCOs are brilliant, others not so. Yours sounds like the latter. Special school places cost a lot of money and far too many children are denied places because of this. You are going to need to keep pushing. Have you got input from the health side of things. Also, are IPSEA still around? They were always very helpful. You have the bit between your teeth @Imagoodperson999. Please don't be fobbed off and give up. In fact, if it could be possible for your son to transfer to a special school in year 6, l would go down this route as he will be well established and transfer straight into year 7.

Violinist64 · 25/06/2025 17:19

Just toʻ add, Max very obviously has complex needs. His need for specialist help is just as important as the other children at the special school.

Imagoodperson999 · 25/06/2025 18:36

Violinist64 · 25/06/2025 17:14

How would any of this be achievable in a mainstream secondary school? In reality, these are all activities that are more akin to a reception class than a child about to move up to secondary school. The primary school is trying to fob you off. Some primary school SENCOs are brilliant, others not so. Yours sounds like the latter. Special school places cost a lot of money and far too many children are denied places because of this. You are going to need to keep pushing. Have you got input from the health side of things. Also, are IPSEA still around? They were always very helpful. You have the bit between your teeth @Imagoodperson999. Please don't be fobbed off and give up. In fact, if it could be possible for your son to transfer to a special school in year 6, l would go down this route as he will be well established and transfer straight into year 7.

What's ipsea? Im still going for independent advice regardless of what the school say to me. The sossen said they can get back to me around 7th July. So im waiting on them

A sen school is going to ket me know wheb I can go and look. That wont be till September.

There is a mainstream school that I like the look off and their senco seems OK. I will copy and paste it in a min.

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