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HELP! How can I get this mussel out?

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JDM625 · 08/06/2025 12:34

Ok, this is the most ridiculous thing! I was scrubbing mussels for dinner lastnight, and one slippery fsucker flew out of my hand and went down the overflow pipe!

I've tried chopsticks, tongs, a knife, bottle brush but due to the angle, nothing is working. I can unscrew the S bend/trap underneath, but the hole within the overflow isn't wide enough to push the mussel through. Maybe I could push it up though?

Any other ideas to get it out before it stinks?

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Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 13:51

Yogic · 12/06/2025 09:32

I think 'All things bright and beautiful, all creatures great and small' would be an appropriate hymn for Maurice's send off [sobs]

We're all crying too! What a beautiful suggestion. Froggy and Dory would like to put their own suggestions forward for a few secular pieces:

From Froggy:

The Frog Chorus featuring Paul McCartney. "We All Stand Together." Practically the anthem of his Special Boat Service Top Secret Undercover Amphibious Unit. It was a bit over popular with the Ruperts at regimental dinners but still a very stirring tune:

Here's Dory's pick. The Robbie Williams version of, "No More Sailing." Here's a version with lyrics. Which helps Dory out because her memory is terrible:

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LittleBitofBread · 12/06/2025 14:00

anything recorded in Muscle Shoals would seem appropriate.

PlumpAndDeliciousFatcat · 12/06/2025 14:12

OakleyStreetisnotinChelsea · 08/06/2025 14:41

Lube and a fish slice is the traditional MN method of unsticking things isn't it?

It specifically has to be sex lube though. No other common-or-garden lube will do.

Interested in this thread?

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Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 14:21

Boiledbeetle · 11/06/2025 17:50

Oh no! My worst fears have come true. Thoughts and prayers at this incredibly difficult and solemn time @JDM625 . Thoughts and prayers.

Will there be a funeral?

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I hope somebody here works in events management. How are we as amateurs going to get permission for the big screens in Hyde Park? This is a national event!

What about the media rights for the live streaming?

Should we be trying to set up a foundation?

ScottBakula · 12/06/2025 14:27

Boiledbeetle · 11/06/2025 20:58

Roll up, roll up. Get your Maurice souvenir jar of pickled mussels here.

Too soon?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 14:53

@Boiledbeetle I've been looking around to book a choir for the funeral/memorial service. My first thought was the Wells Cathedral School choir but then I went off them.

What do you think to these excellent choristers from the Liverpool Institute of Performing arts doing Paul McCartney's Frog Chorus?

Maybe it's just an association* *of ideas but your name made me think of them in a lightbulb moment. Beetle...beetle...BEATLE!

Here's a demo with karaoke lyrics:

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Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 15:47

Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 14:53

@Boiledbeetle I've been looking around to book a choir for the funeral/memorial service. My first thought was the Wells Cathedral School choir but then I went off them.

What do you think to these excellent choristers from the Liverpool Institute of Performing arts doing Paul McCartney's Frog Chorus?

Maybe it's just an association* *of ideas but your name made me think of them in a lightbulb moment. Beetle...beetle...BEATLE!

Here's a demo with karaoke lyrics:

That was really good 😍

I've been moved so much by Maurice's journey and subsequent death I've produced my own song for the funeral.

https://suno.com/s/twJJhi39xnxr51ki

HELP! How can I get this mussel out?
Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 17:01

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 15:47

That was really good 😍

I've been moved so much by Maurice's journey and subsequent death I've produced my own song for the funeral.

https://suno.com/s/twJJhi39xnxr51ki

That's great! I never expected a Country Music tribute to Maurice but it works! It's so fitting. I looked at who were the top ranking Country artists on Spotify and somebody called Zach Bryan - who's vocal range and general attitude fits your composition perfectly - is ranked at number four. (I didn't care for number two or three anyway, they mixed up their style too much with R&B and the number one, Morgan Wallace is all over the place musically.)

As chance would have it, Zach Bryan - much more a Country purist - is playing Hyde Park on 28th and 29th June!

www.bst-hydepark.com/events/zach-bryan-sun-29-june/

If your people could talk to his people at the very least Zach could play a tribute to Maurice as a request!

Here's his last song, "Dear Miss." (Dear Mussel?)

Can you hear how your songwriting and his vocals just partner beautifully? I really think he's our man and he's obviously keen to break into the UK market.

Failing that his back up artist is Dermot Kennedy, who's last single was called, "Let Me In." and quite easily modified lyrically to, "Let Me Out" to make it into a Maurice tribute song.

Get back in the studio, put the cans on, slide the mixers up and down a bit and get back to me.

We'll get a charity single organised if it kills us. Bloody Band Aid was only a thinly disguised version of Z Cars with a few sleighbells over the top after all.

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Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 17:07

Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 17:01

That's great! I never expected a Country Music tribute to Maurice but it works! It's so fitting. I looked at who were the top ranking Country artists on Spotify and somebody called Zach Bryan - who's vocal range and general attitude fits your composition perfectly - is ranked at number four. (I didn't care for number two or three anyway, they mixed up their style too much with R&B and the number one, Morgan Wallace is all over the place musically.)

As chance would have it, Zach Bryan - much more a Country purist - is playing Hyde Park on 28th and 29th June!

www.bst-hydepark.com/events/zach-bryan-sun-29-june/

If your people could talk to his people at the very least Zach could play a tribute to Maurice as a request!

Here's his last song, "Dear Miss." (Dear Mussel?)

Can you hear how your songwriting and his vocals just partner beautifully? I really think he's our man and he's obviously keen to break into the UK market.

Failing that his back up artist is Dermot Kennedy, who's last single was called, "Let Me In." and quite easily modified lyrically to, "Let Me Out" to make it into a Maurice tribute song.

Get back in the studio, put the cans on, slide the mixers up and down a bit and get back to me.

We'll get a charity single organised if it kills us. Bloody Band Aid was only a thinly disguised version of Z Cars with a few sleighbells over the top after all.

I think Dermot would do a magnificent rendition of it.

JDM625 · 12/06/2025 17:09

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 15:47

That was really good 😍

I've been moved so much by Maurice's journey and subsequent death I've produced my own song for the funeral.

https://suno.com/s/twJJhi39xnxr51ki

Boiledbeetle, that song is so poignant, along with all your other wonderful posts. ❤️

DH and I are sat here in tears of laughter and we will be playing the song at the funeral. We are in discussions about a state funeral and a celebration of his life at Wembley next month. Thank you everyone for your support during a very difficult time. You shall all be invited along x

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Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 17:14

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 17:07

I think Dermot would do a magnificent rendition of it.

You're right. Maurice could well have had Celtic/Gaelic ancestry, considering where he was most likely caught.

DaisyChain505 · 12/06/2025 17:17

If you could post dates of the memorial service asap so I can get it booked off work it would be appreciated.

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 17:20

Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 17:14

You're right. Maurice could well have had Celtic/Gaelic ancestry, considering where he was most likely caught.

I'm looking forward to Froggy and Dory's 3 part Netflix series on the life of Maurice.

A look back at his family tree, then how his parents met. A bit about his father's heroic death saving the family from a three year old with a fishing net and bucket. The girlfriend he met in highschool, who later became Maurice's wife. How he left the wife and kids to serve with the Mussel Army only to end up dead in a Belfast sink. Maybe some close up shots of the children crying?

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 17:22

JDM625 · 12/06/2025 17:09

Boiledbeetle, that song is so poignant, along with all your other wonderful posts. ❤️

DH and I are sat here in tears of laughter and we will be playing the song at the funeral. We are in discussions about a state funeral and a celebration of his life at Wembley next month. Thank you everyone for your support during a very difficult time. You shall all be invited along x

It's going to be beautiful. Just beautiful. And now I'm in tears again.

Poor Maurice.

Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 17:39

JDM625 · 12/06/2025 17:09

Boiledbeetle, that song is so poignant, along with all your other wonderful posts. ❤️

DH and I are sat here in tears of laughter and we will be playing the song at the funeral. We are in discussions about a state funeral and a celebration of his life at Wembley next month. Thank you everyone for your support during a very difficult time. You shall all be invited along x

Now. Listen to me. I know neither of you are daft but I feel I have to say this:

If you start getting any funny unsolicited e-mails, messages, letters, phone calls...even PMs here on Mumsnet...from something or somebody calling themselves, Club Nook Ltd, Maytrix Group, Whittaker Global or who knows what other name by now...

It's Hannah Ingrams-Moore. Captain Tom's daughter, trying to take advantage.

Here's her companies house listing:

Be aware.

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JDM625 · 12/06/2025 17:56

@Redheadedstepchild Thank you for the warning. I shall be on the lookout.

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Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 18:48

JDM625 · 12/06/2025 17:56

@Redheadedstepchild Thank you for the warning. I shall be on the lookout.

Yeah. Froggy was utterly outraged by the Captain Tom scandal. Or at least he pretended to be. You never can tell with the wily old rogue.

Sometimes he and Dory would be watching the news coverage of it all unfolding and he'd pat her fin and say, "Bloody fools. We'd do it and get away with it, wouldn't we Dory old sea cucumber."

They were both particularly jealous of the garden spa.

Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 19:58

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 17:20

I'm looking forward to Froggy and Dory's 3 part Netflix series on the life of Maurice.

A look back at his family tree, then how his parents met. A bit about his father's heroic death saving the family from a three year old with a fishing net and bucket. The girlfriend he met in highschool, who later became Maurice's wife. How he left the wife and kids to serve with the Mussel Army only to end up dead in a Belfast sink. Maybe some close up shots of the children crying?

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Don't encourage them. They've already been on, "Love Don't Judge" as an inter species couple.

Damnloginpopup · 12/06/2025 20:01

Mr Mussel

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 20:01

Redheadedstepchild · 12/06/2025 19:58

Don't encourage them. They've already been on, "Love Don't Judge" as an inter species couple.

I'm not judging! After all I, a mere beetle, was, briefly, married to an android on a different thread. But their past TV work will surely stand them in good stead!

MrsMoastyToasty · 12/06/2025 20:43

May I suggest "For those in peril in the sink" as a reworked version of "for those in peril on the sea" for the funeral?

HiddenInCubeOfCheese · 12/06/2025 20:54

I’ve name changed in his honour. The flame will never go out.

ETA: I can’t change names within a thread, but rest assured. MauriceTheMussel rides again!

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 20:55

HiddenInCubeOfCheese · 12/06/2025 20:54

I’ve name changed in his honour. The flame will never go out.

ETA: I can’t change names within a thread, but rest assured. MauriceTheMussel rides again!

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Don't you just hate it when that happens!

Thelostjewels · 12/06/2025 20:57

Bring back the bloody laugh emoji who cares if it was used passively aggressively people respond with tons of passive aggressive words all the time, a pa smiley emoji saves that however mostly it was used for it's purpose!!
@mnhq

Redheadedstepchild · 13/06/2025 21:05

Boiledbeetle · 12/06/2025 17:20

I'm looking forward to Froggy and Dory's 3 part Netflix series on the life of Maurice.

A look back at his family tree, then how his parents met. A bit about his father's heroic death saving the family from a three year old with a fishing net and bucket. The girlfriend he met in highschool, who later became Maurice's wife. How he left the wife and kids to serve with the Mussel Army only to end up dead in a Belfast sink. Maybe some close up shots of the children crying?

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Froggy and Dory. The Warts And All True Story:

Captain Froggy had retired. He pottered about quietly in the same Lake Discrict tied cottage he'd grown up in with his single mother, owned by some mysterious absentee landlord back in the day but now taken over by the National Trust.

He was once approached by them to be a living tourist attraction, dressing up as Mr Jeremy Fisher for coach parties to photograph in return for reduced rent but he declined.

He savoured his hermit like existance. Nobody to please but himself. Sometimes in the fading sunlight of a late April afternoon he would wander, lonely as a cloud, o'er vales and hills. Picking daffodils, irises, even the occasional gladiolus from somebody's front garden. All flowers were beautiful to Froggy.

He was preparing some fresh water for his latest spring bouquet, rinsing his favourite vase in his Belfast sink, trimming stems and humming a tune when he heard a strange, gutteral noise coming from deep inside the plumbing.

He ignored it at first but then a muscular but slimy arm appeared out of the sink drain, its clammy fingers grasping onto the slippery sides, then another arm, then a head.

Froggy was so surprised, he fell over backwards, and lay strewn with wet flowers on the floor, clutching some gladioli in one hand like an early eighties era Morrissey but without the hearing aid.

A familiar face then swum into view,

"Aye, it's me, Sandy 'Jock' Salamander. Do ye nae recognise an old friend?"

Froggy would not have called Sandy Salamander a friend. They were bitter rivals. Sandy was the complete opposite of Froggy. Salamander changed his appearance to suit the conditions of the times, and always seemed to regenerate and come from bad situations without feeling any pain, whereas Froggy wore his heart under a thin skin. If you were really up close to his chest you could even see it beating.

"What the hell are you doing hiding down my sink? How do you know where I live?" said Froggy. hurling the gladioli across the room.

"Nae mind. You'd be needed on one last wee job, Fraggy. Offer ye cannae refuse."

"Oh yes I can!" shouted Froggy, indignant, then he added "What is it anyway?" curiosity getting the better of him.

"Diego Garcia needs you. That's all I can say here, Fraggy."
"Never met such a fellow. Can't the Spaniards sort their own business out?"
"It's nae a person, Fraggy, it's a military base in the Indian Ocean."
Froggy bit his lip. Yet again, Alexander "Sandy" Salamander had made him feel inferior.

Froggy had worked his way up through the ranks through sheer grit and determination. As a child, It was just him and his mother, a poor Westmoreland pond frog who had got work in domestic service north of the border and had quickly fallen victim to the wicked charms of the local Laird. Whereas Salamander had slithered to the top using his family connections as a member of the powerful but notoriously secretive Loch Ness "Nessie" clan.

"I'll do it!" replied Froggy. "Honour of the regiment and all that." he added, which was a calculated dig at Sandy because Salamander was such a well known slimeball.

"There’s a squadron of young Ensign Great Cresteds waiting for ye doon yer lavatory with a wee dinghy to take you through the sewers to your next muster point. I knew you'd say yes."

The pair hopped and slid towards the toilet seat to be greeted by a handsome band of eager and fresh faced young newts in a semi rigid landing craft down the bowl, clearly in awe of seeing the two great warrior rivals snout to snout.

Standing on the edge of the lavatory, Froggy was preparing to dive into the inflatable but then Salamander suddenly grasped his arm and took an envelope out of his breast pocket.

"What's this new fresh hell?" cried Froggy, exasperated.

"You may as well open this noo, Captain." said Salamander. He appeared to be fighting back tears.

Nonplussed, Froggy opened the envelope. Inside was a photograph of a beautiful young Tang fish, smiling shyly but with a playful twinkle in her eye and a revolver in her front fin.

"That's Agent Dory. You'll be working with her in the Indian Ocean. She's the real deal. True blue."

"Oh great!" wailed our gallant Captain. "A flytrap! A honeypot!"

"No, not Dory. She's the last of the good ones. You'll like her. Just professionally, of course."

"I'm never having another woman in my life again, Salamander. You, of all people, should know why."

Everybody gulped into the silence and raw emotion. Froggy, Sandy and all the young Ensign Newts were holding their breath. (Apart from Ensign Norbert Newt who was scrolling through Tiktok.)

"I'm sorry about coming between you and Fionnula. It was all my fault." said Captain Salamander, sotto voce.

Froggy and Sandy looked at each other cold in the eye. Their third eyelids blinked in unison.

They both stared at their feet, then glanced away to the right at the toilet roll holder. "I should have changed that really," thought Froggy, "There's only three sheets left on it, still, never mind, I'm going away now."

At length, they both puffed out their chests and drawing himself up to his full height, Froggy muttered, "It was complicated but we are gentlemen. It is never the lady's fault."

They shook hands.

"I must go." said Froggy, facing the edge of the lavatory seat, his head held high, he leapt effortlessly into the waiting dinghy, Ensign Neville Newt helping him on with his life jacket.

"Wait! Wait!" screamed Salamander, like a spoilt three year old girl who'd spilt Ribena down her party dress.
"There’s something that turned up in the files, Froggy! When I was looking for your address! What's your real name?"

"Ever heard of a little boy called Frasier?" spat Froggy out of the corner of his mouth.
"I detest you, Salamander but you and I may have more in common than you think."

Sandy gasped.

"Now, if you must excuse me, I believe Agent Dory is waiting for me."

Froggy, (Or Frasier as we now know him but this could get confusing later on in the book) then bellowed to the newt standing on top of the toilet cistern,

"ENSIGN, PRESENT FLUSH.
ENSIGN, ENGAGE FLUSH.
ENSIGN, FLUSH!"

The young Great Crested Newt then pushed the lever, plunged down into the swirling maelstrom of the lavatory bowl to join the squadron, Froggy pulling him over the side of the tiny boat himself and the fearless band
hurtled down the sewer pipes to their next adventure.

To be continued...

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