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Could you watch an execution?

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Soubriquet · 27/05/2025 21:26

Watching a film and there’s an execution and of course there’s people sitting behind the glass watching and it made me think, could I watch it?

I don’t think I could. Even if they murdered someone I loved very much, I’m not sure I could sit there and watch someone else die.

But then others say it can bring a sense of closure to them.

What about you?

OP posts:
henlake7 · 28/05/2025 12:39

OurManyEnds · 28/05/2025 10:50

Yeah I could. I am vehemently opposed to the death penalty but it wouldn’t particularly bother me to watch it happen.

Im a bit weird in that regard though maybe.

This is me as well. Im pretty sure I could watch one but I would never want to.

Blackdow · 28/05/2025 12:40

sashh · 28/05/2025 06:50

Much more recently, in 1972 was the last one that was public I think, there were non public executions until 1977.

https://www.france24.com/en/live-news/20221126-how-one-beheading-50-years-ago-led-france-to-end-the-death-penalty

That wasn’t public. The last public one was 1939.

RaininSummer · 28/05/2025 12:59

Yes if they had killed one of my people.

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 13:16

namechangeGOT · 28/05/2025 10:31

Oh for gods sake! You know exactly what I mean. But ok, I’ll fix it for you ‘yes, if the person who murdered my child was being executed, I would sit quietly like a good little girl with my arms folded while being grateful I had the opportunity to see the person expire’. Better?

Not really, no. Your initial casual, flippant comment is exactly why we should never reconsider the DP again. Trivializing it doesn’t exactly aid sensible discussion.

ConcernedOfClapham · 28/05/2025 13:18

2dogsandabudgie · 27/05/2025 21:38

Large crowds used to go and watch hangings and beheadings hundreds of years ago.

True, it was a day out - but they didn’t have Netflix or karaoke 🤷‍♂️

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 13:19

RedRosesAndGypsophelia · 28/05/2025 10:57

You knew exactly what this poster meant, it is a very common turn of phrase and just means she would be happy to settle in and watch.
Why so many people feel they can say 'no you wouldn't watch' like they are the single authority on the subject is beyond me. Maybe I will start quoting everyone who says they couldn't watch and say 'yes you would watch if it was your loved one they killed' but that would make me as much of a dick as those trying to tell people they wouldn't watch so I won't do that.
For the record, if you killed one of my family I absolutely would happily sit and watch you be executed.

As I have just said to the popcorn poster, trivializing it really does nothing to aid the debate.

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 13:20

Kibble19 · 28/05/2025 11:25

Annoys me too that people think they are more aware of your choices and the limits of what you can handle than you are.

Just because a poster couldn’t handle watching someone die in this way, doesn’t mean another one can’t. All this “it’s just bravado”, “you’ll get PTSD” rubbish. I can absolutely, wholeheartedly say that if some monster killed my boy, I’d go to any execution they arranged and would hope to see the person beg for their life, cry, piss themselves with fear while calling out for their own Mum to help them. If they let me flick the switch or put the needle in, I’d do that too. In a fucking heartbeat with not one ounce of thought for their family or anyone else.

That’s not everyone’s approach, and that’s fine, but it would be mine.

OK 😒

namechangeGOT · 28/05/2025 13:34

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 13:16

Not really, no. Your initial casual, flippant comment is exactly why we should never reconsider the DP again. Trivializing it doesn’t exactly aid sensible discussion.

It wasn’t trivialising anything. You could argue the whole thread is ‘trivialising’ it, as it isn’t law in the UK and so a bunch of posters deciding whether they would or wouldn’t watch is entirely irrelevant.

I, however, would see nothing at all trivial or casual in what would be my enjoyment of watching the murderer of my child suffer horrendously should my child ever be murdered in a United Kingdom that supported the death penalty. Probably, the only enjoyment I’d ever have again in my life.

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 13:35

namechangeGOT · 28/05/2025 13:34

It wasn’t trivialising anything. You could argue the whole thread is ‘trivialising’ it, as it isn’t law in the UK and so a bunch of posters deciding whether they would or wouldn’t watch is entirely irrelevant.

I, however, would see nothing at all trivial or casual in what would be my enjoyment of watching the murderer of my child suffer horrendously should my child ever be murdered in a United Kingdom that supported the death penalty. Probably, the only enjoyment I’d ever have again in my life.

Again, some confusion here with retribution and justice.

hattie43 · 28/05/2025 13:56

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 08:12

So you would be fine if your partner or child was put to death for, say, running someone over and killing them due to carelessness?

I doubt they’d be given the death penalty for that

latetothefisting · 28/05/2025 14:16

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 28/05/2025 07:53

You would all be sat with the persons ….parents,wife/husband….possibly young adult children. Friends

they would be upset. Distraught.
all this mumsnet bravado makes me laugh every time there’s a thread like this

how is it bravado? That's an odd choice of words. Nobody is getting internet cool points for saying they'd be able to witness a hypothetical execution.

What difference would sitting with the family make? The q wasn't 'would you choose to watch' or 'would you enjoy watching' it was just 'could you?'

I wouldn't want to witness an execution but if I had to I'm sure I physically could, for the same reasons others have said, working in a career that desensitises you a bit to death and learning how to switch off for it, and having a personality that can compartmentalise things. I don't consider that "bravado", in fact I'm not sure whether it's a good thing or not, it just is.

Kibble19 · 28/05/2025 14:26

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 13:20

OK 😒

What’s that meant to mean?

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 14:26

hattie43 · 28/05/2025 13:56

I doubt they’d be given the death penalty for that

But Hattie, you clearly stated earlier “take a life you pay with your own”. Now, if it’s as black and white as you say, what’s the problem?

Pinty · 28/05/2025 14:29

No definitely not.
Vengeance never helps in the long term and it won't bring back the person who has been murdered so all I would feel is more sadness.
If it's wrong to take a life it is always wrong even if the state sanctioned it and I don't understand why anyone would want to witness it.

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 14:33

Kibble19 · 28/05/2025 14:26

What’s that meant to mean?

It’s an acknowledgment of your point. No more, no less.

hattie43 · 28/05/2025 14:40

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 14:26

But Hattie, you clearly stated earlier “take a life you pay with your own”. Now, if it’s as black and white as you say, what’s the problem?

You’re being an obtuse idiot on this thread . Purposely derailing it with your misinterpretations when it’s clear what posters have said .

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 14:42

hattie43 · 28/05/2025 14:40

You’re being an obtuse idiot on this thread . Purposely derailing it with your misinterpretations when it’s clear what posters have said .

Not at all. I am quoting exactly what you said and you don’t like it.

Lardychops · 28/05/2025 14:46

Pinty · 28/05/2025 14:29

No definitely not.
Vengeance never helps in the long term and it won't bring back the person who has been murdered so all I would feel is more sadness.
If it's wrong to take a life it is always wrong even if the state sanctioned it and I don't understand why anyone would want to witness it.

Again, I don’t believe in vengeance, revenge, or retribution…
UNTIL it happens to one of my kids or family. Then I want all of above in spades and to administer said justice myself.

Also will add quickly, As this thread is a thought experience and not based in any type of credible reality people are free to say what they want however extreme- someone calling out the popcorn comment was silly as that was being used solely for emphasis and I most of us already understood that!

Lardychops · 28/05/2025 14:47

hattie43 · 28/05/2025 14:40

You’re being an obtuse idiot on this thread . Purposely derailing it with your misinterpretations when it’s clear what posters have said .

A wanky obtuse idiot - I agree.

TomatoSandwiches · 28/05/2025 14:47

I haven't read the thread but I think unfortunately I'd be curious enough to watch one.

hattie43 · 28/05/2025 14:49

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 14:42

Not at all. I am quoting exactly what you said and you don’t like it.

You know exactly what people are saying you just think you’re being clever nit picking . Well you aren’t. People like you are tedious , rather than offer you own thoughts to continue the flow of conversation you just micro analyse and criticise other people’s .

BallerinaFall · 28/05/2025 14:55

a teen in our family was murdered. I am glad the person who did it, has to live every day of his life, and his sentence remembering the reason he's in there. death would be too kind to him.

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 14:58

Lardychops · 28/05/2025 14:47

A wanky obtuse idiot - I agree.

What a mature response. Your opinions are very obviously worth considering.

hattie43 · 28/05/2025 15:00

BallerinaFall · 28/05/2025 14:55

a teen in our family was murdered. I am glad the person who did it, has to live every day of his life, and his sentence remembering the reason he's in there. death would be too kind to him.

But how would you feel if he was out in 15 years carrying on his life , even possibly being violent to others . It’s not the first time murderers have come out only to murder again.

WinterMorn · 28/05/2025 15:00

hattie43 · 28/05/2025 14:49

You know exactly what people are saying you just think you’re being clever nit picking . Well you aren’t. People like you are tedious , rather than offer you own thoughts to continue the flow of conversation you just micro analyse and criticise other people’s .

I don’t think it’s clever to highlight the alternative argument, I think it’s necessary. I have offered my own thoughts. What I haven’t done is result to cheap personal insults.