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I have the feeling I’m going to lose my job today.

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ThomasShelbysfagend · 09/05/2025 08:23

I’ve never been unemployed.
Had many jobs for over 40 years but always been in a job.
Things have been happening over recent months at my job that have made me paranoid and a gut feeling that something is about to happen. Not good.

Ive a meeting today so will know by the end of the day.

What the fuck do you do when “let go”?
Ive been scouring jobs on every jobs board there is and.. nothing. Nothing at all suitable anywhere.

I’ve got professional qualifications, I’m senior enough in my role, but there isn’t anything.

Tips from anyone who has been in this position are very welcome.

OP posts:
Gahdammit · 09/05/2025 15:41

JaneDoe72 · 09/05/2025 13:49

So I'm finding myself in a similar position to OP. I am not currently a member of a union (though have been in the past) - would the union still help me if I needed them to help me in a redundancy situation within a fairly short time of joining? I'm perhaps too used to insurance companies which don't pay out if your claim was foreseeable when you took out the insurance but perhaps Unions aren't like that?

If the issue started before joining then probably not (but some unions do have some discretion with this). Eg if someone were told they were being made redundant and then joined the union.

If you joined, then something happened after that then yes they would. Eg soneone joins on Tuesday in good faith but then finds out on Friday that they are going to be made redundant.

The only exception would be that if it affected union members as well, then they would pick it up. Eg if a non-member tells a rep that they are being made redundant but that their redundancy would have a major impact on union members. Then the non-member would possibly be supported because doing that would support the members.

Speak with your local rep. Most are very approachable and knowledgeable.

There is always ACAS and some employers have an assistance programme which can offer legal advise. Similarly your home insurance may include legal advise.

Good luck.

Gahdammit · 09/05/2025 15:43

Advise means Advice obviously!

EuclidianGeometryFan · 09/05/2025 15:56

Claim JSA immediately after your contract is terminated.

It is not universal credit - it is based on your national insurance contributions. It doesn't matter how much your partner earns, or how much you have in savings.
You get about £90 a week, for a maximum of 6 months.

You have to go and 'sign-on' in the local office every fortnight and show them you have been properly looking for work, but they sometimes tend to be 'light touch' if you are not on UC so you won't get a grilling.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/05/2025 16:12

@Mexcitedfam congrats on the litany of deleted posts. Quite an achievement for one thread!!

Rosscameasdoody · 09/05/2025 16:17

EuclidianGeometryFan · 09/05/2025 15:56

Claim JSA immediately after your contract is terminated.

It is not universal credit - it is based on your national insurance contributions. It doesn't matter how much your partner earns, or how much you have in savings.
You get about £90 a week, for a maximum of 6 months.

You have to go and 'sign-on' in the local office every fortnight and show them you have been properly looking for work, but they sometimes tend to be 'light touch' if you are not on UC so you won't get a grilling.

The exception is a notice period. If OP is paid any wages in lieu of notice she won’t be able to claim JSA until the period has ended.

Waterweight · 09/05/2025 17:06

Let us know how you get on & remember if it is redundancy that you can just say "I'll take some time to work out what I'm willing to settle for (payment wise)" or "thanks for letting me know, I'll take some time to think it over" don't feel obligated to respond to anything they say straight away.

HomeTheatreSystem · 09/05/2025 17:19

If you have ~ 40 yrs of work history, you will be roughly in your late 50s/60s. You might find it very hard in this economic climate to secure a replacement job to see you through to retirement. You are in the very fortunate position of having saved for a rainy day which, if nothing else, means you have a bit of time to think about next steps. Is there anything within a self employed/contract basis you think you could turn your hand to which would meet your outgoings and provide job satisfaction? All I'm saying is think outside the box whilst you can, as well as continuing to keep an eye out for job openings in your field.

Doggymummar · 09/05/2025 17:21

I hope you are ok

AgnesX · 09/05/2025 17:37

It's a really crappy position to be in. However on the plus side it's not coming out of a clear blue sky and you have some funds to keep the wolf from the door. Redundancy is better on your CV too.

I know that's of no comfort so fingers crossed 🤞

ThomasShelbysfagend · 09/05/2025 18:01

Hello.
Thank you everyone for your lovely kind words and sympathies.

Turned out ok.

The 1:1 was positive, very encouraging with lots of explanations about what has been going on in recent weeks.
Acknowledgment that things have been “ unsettling “ but when it was explained to me it kind of made sense.
Plus I just knew that something was going on. I had talked myself into my conclusion.

No redundancy, no performance plan, no sackings.

I’m an upbeat cheerful person usually but because it’s been going on for about 6 weeks I’ve been assuming. It’s got to me.

Phew!

OP posts:
BeNiceWhenItsFinished · 09/05/2025 18:04

Glad to hear it, you must be so relieved.

Gonners · 09/05/2025 18:05

Yippee! I hope you picked up a bottle of something celebratory on the way home.

NImumconfused · 09/05/2025 18:11

Very glad to hear it, now relax and enjoy a sunny weekend.

Washingupdone · 09/05/2025 18:14

Congratulations. However, keep looking at jobs, update CV and maybe get some interviews for practice as it seems a bit weird how they are treating staff. Could you upgrade your qualifications somehow and would your office pay for the cost?

Guineapiggiesmalls · 09/05/2025 18:15

Great news, what a weight off your shoulders.

2JFDIYOLO · 09/05/2025 18:40

Brilliant end to the week!!!

Now ...

All those things I recommended earlier you do if you were made redundant etc?

Do them anyway. Seriously. Be ready for if it ever does happen.

Greenglades · 09/05/2025 18:42

Great news! Enjoy the weekend and rest.

Ramblethroughthebrambles · 09/05/2025 18:45

Great news! Once you've had a bit of a breather, perhaps see it as a nudge to review your options, including checking your pension as well as alternative jobs. But for the moment, the sun is shining!

BotDranning · 09/05/2025 18:48

ThomasShelbysfagend · 09/05/2025 18:01

Hello.
Thank you everyone for your lovely kind words and sympathies.

Turned out ok.

The 1:1 was positive, very encouraging with lots of explanations about what has been going on in recent weeks.
Acknowledgment that things have been “ unsettling “ but when it was explained to me it kind of made sense.
Plus I just knew that something was going on. I had talked myself into my conclusion.

No redundancy, no performance plan, no sackings.

I’m an upbeat cheerful person usually but because it’s been going on for about 6 weeks I’ve been assuming. It’s got to me.

Phew!

So very happy for you x

EveryOtherNameTaken · 09/05/2025 18:58

And breathe out.... excellent news!

Enjoy your weekend as you're back to work on Monday 😂

DuckbilledSplatterPuff · 09/05/2025 19:23

Good news!
You must be so relieved.
But as everyone said, its always good to have emergency plans up your sleeve. Also. you might well find a company that has a better attitude towards its staff and wants to keep them and develop them.

Enjoy your weekend.
.

HappiestSleeping · 09/05/2025 19:26

For any of you who have been made redundant, if you are in technology, I know a good agent. PM me and I'll connect you.

sevilleorangemarmalade · 09/05/2025 19:46

Relieved on your behalf. Have a lovely weekend.

morningtoncrescent62 · 09/05/2025 19:55

Glad the worst didn't happen! Now relax and enjoy the weekend, hopefully it's sunny where you are so that you can get out and enjoy yourself knowing that you have a job to go back to.

inamarina · 09/05/2025 20:00

Brilliant update OP, that must be such a relief! Now you can enjoy your weekend 😊