I've just booked a 5 night all inclusive trip to the Canaries for me and dh at a toltal cost of £850 (that includes insurance, airport transfers in Uk and Spain, flights and car hire). It feels very indulgent as we usually go on self catering family holidays but this is a treat to unwind and relax while ds 17 with autism and severe learning difficulties has repite.
We had a four night family break in January in the UK in a mobile home with a hot tub. DS and DD who is 19 came with us and it cost £260 (late deal)
We had a week in an apartment in Spain for february half term, that was just ds as dd was in uni. That cost £900 in total.
We are having a 12 night family trip to Belgium and The Netherlands at the end of August, we will be self catering and staying in a few locations which includes a few nights at a theme park - cost excluding food and fuel is £1500.
We may do something for October half term but that would be a cheap late deal in the uk.
We will probably spend around £4000 this year but it feels like we are getting a lot for that.
Our net household income is £33,000 we have no debt and have paid off our martgage. We value our holidays and can afford them by driving older cars and being frugal with things like eating out and clothes shopping. DH works full time and I'm a full time carer for DS, life can be challenging but we enjoy taking him away even though it requires a lot of planning.