Taylor Swift, All Too Well
Was having the shittest year ever, bereavements, tough time at uni and feeling very isolated, MH struggles and got into a dodgy relationship with an older guy who was emotionally abusive/love bombed me and then kept trying to make out I’d made it all up. I got a summer job in an estate agents and used to belt the song out loud in my car in between viewings.
Ended up with golden circle tickets to see the Red Tour and was in the front row as she say at the piano and cried her way through an extended version of All Too Well. I also sobbed. From that moment on, I knew it was going to be okay and that I would get over it. It was so validating that I wasn’t going crazy, there are men out there who do that kind of shit- Taylor knew it and so did thousands of other women in the room!
10 years on, saw Era’s with my best friends and lovely DH. Sobbed again for the young woman who was so so lost and alone and how far she’s come- every time I hear that song, I remember how that year felt and am proud that I get to sing it without that pain!