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Police arrest parents who slate school on class WhatsApp

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noblegiraffe · 29/03/2025 09:29

A primary school sought advice from the police after '“a high volume of direct correspondence and public social media posts” that had become upsetting for staff, parents and governors.' and the police response was to send 6 officers to their house to arrest the couple making the posts and put them in a cell all day.

Although the couple sound like an absolute pain in the arse who should pack it in, 6 police officers seems like a teensy bit of overkill, particularly with the amount of crime currently going uninvestigated. But with schools faced with spiralling numbers of vexatious parental complaints, something needs to happen. I think some unions are starting to offer legal advice and template solicitor letters for this situation.

https://www.thetimes.com/article/d8c8566b-99b1-45c6-814b-008042d74a3a?shareToken=6deab807d148cf7695ed4d9d3664c51e

Police arrest parents who complained in school WhatsApp group

The couple were detained in front of their daughter and kept in a cell for eight hours over their messages on the app as well as emails sent to the school

https://www.thetimes.com/article/d8c8566b-99b1-45c6-814b-008042d74a3a?shareToken=6deab807d148cf7695ed4d9d3664c51e

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TheCastleDoesNotReply · 29/03/2025 22:55

LastTrainsEast · 29/03/2025 22:45

Since it turned out that they committed no crime and it was so obvious that they hadn't that it didn't even have to go to court you might question the basis for your supposition there.

They did teach them a lesson in keeping their mouths shut so not a wasted day.

They won't answer back in a hurry.

Or you may find that publicising this appalling behaviour - similar to that which goes on in many schools - may lead to a proper regulator which enforces the law being put in place like in every other profession and then teachers like these will have a very nasty shock.

Mistyglade · 30/03/2025 00:25

lolly792 · 29/03/2025 10:05

Good. The culture of making vile, malicious comments on social media needs stamping down on. These fucking idiots will have a taste of being exposed for what they are.

hear hear.

noblegiraffe · 30/03/2025 00:45

lostintherainyday · 29/03/2025 22:09

I probably have seen threads you have created, but not linked them to your user name.

Right, so now you hopefully see that whatever you thought you were reading into my posts, isn't there.

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saraclara · 30/03/2025 00:50

Why has SEND become the focus of this thread? The harassment was regarding a recruitment decision. It seems to have been that that got the patent banned in the first place. The child's epilepsy only became the issue (he claims) when he was banned from the premises.

This isn't a SEND parent against the teacher issue. This is a previous governor sounding off aggressively about a recruiting decision he didn't like. There are no excuses for that.

noblegiraffe · 30/03/2025 00:51

TheCastleDoesNotReply · 29/03/2025 22:39

I’m just bored of your whataboutery.

You tried to start an inflammatory thread about parents based on this article, when the facts reported in the article indicate multiple legal and regulatory breaches by the school and no evidence of any such illegal behaviour by the parents.

When that didn’t go how you hoped you stated posting other articles and surveys of teachers’ opinions that have nothing to do with this case, then deliberately attempting to misrepresent comments about this issue as being some kind of endorsement of people hitting Head Teachers which has nothing to do with the situation being discussed because the school has not alleged that the parents in question were ever violent, aggressive or even verbally abusive to them. If you wish to start a separate thread about whether people should hit Head Teachers I’m sure everyone will agree that that is terrible, but it has no relevance to this case and this thread that you started and trying to conflate these two issues to attempt to imply that anybody who criticises or challenges schools on their behaviour is intimidating/ threating/ hitting staff is despicable.

I notice that you didn't answer my question. Do you think that there are headteachers out there that are genuinely subjected to hate campaigns and harassment?

It's also unclear why you have decided to make this couple a martyr to your cause, insisting that they were unfairly demonised by the school for legitimate concerns about the education of their child with SEND when the article is clear that their main beef with the school was about the lack of transparency around the recruitment process for an acting headteacher.

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noblegiraffe · 30/03/2025 00:52

saraclara · 30/03/2025 00:50

Why has SEND become the focus of this thread? The harassment was regarding a recruitment decision. It seems to have been that that got the patent banned in the first place. The child's epilepsy only became the issue (he claims) when he was banned from the premises.

This isn't a SEND parent against the teacher issue. This is a previous governor sounding off aggressively about a recruiting decision he didn't like. There are no excuses for that.

Indeed.

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Thatcat · 30/03/2025 03:45

LastTrainsEast · 29/03/2025 22:52

So they committed no crime, but you want them scared so they'll keep quiet in future?

Nah. Not sure how arrived there. But also not interested.

FrippEnos · 30/03/2025 05:29

noblegiraffe · 30/03/2025 00:52

Indeed.

True

GrammarTeacher · 30/03/2025 06:23

Arraminta · 29/03/2025 21:41

Yes, I agree. We need to reintroduce the concept of shame and calling out anti-social behaviour. The concept of 'Be Kind' is getting us absolutely nowhere. A helluva lot of people don't deserve to be treated with kindness and will laugh at you if you even try.

When did we stop informing people that they're bloody rude and thick as pig shit (when, you know, they actually are). When did people stop being ashamed of being ignorant? When did they stop fearing other people's condemnation?

Probably round about when Gordon Brown got completely slated for calling a bigot a bigot!

Canterranter · 30/03/2025 09:09

saraclara · 30/03/2025 00:50

Why has SEND become the focus of this thread? The harassment was regarding a recruitment decision. It seems to have been that that got the patent banned in the first place. The child's epilepsy only became the issue (he claims) when he was banned from the premises.

This isn't a SEND parent against the teacher issue. This is a previous governor sounding off aggressively about a recruiting decision he didn't like. There are no excuses for that.

Exactly. People are really de-railing this thread. I listened to the parents being interviewed on LBC. Forget the WhatsApp conversations for a second or two... They didn't dispute sending 80-odd emails to the school. They also made multiple phone calls. They accosted staff in the playground. They made personal approaches to the Chair of Governors, which the father as an ex-governor would have known to be wrong and unfair. Eventually when they were banned from school grounds the father still made his way into the school - Headteachers don't make the decision to ban parents from school premises lightly, but that would indicate that it was a good decision in this case.
The school can't respond publicly in detail to the allegations being made (but I bet they would love to). Not because it would be 'bad form', but because there would be GDPR and confidentiality issues. However we can be sure that they tried to engage with these people and responded to them on multiple occasions before deciding that their complaints were 'vexatious'. Their definition of a vexatious complaint should be in their complaints procedure, but even if it isn't, they can look to DfE and NGA guidance and apply that.
The father, as an ex-governor, would have had some idea of the financial cost of all of this. Ultimately coming from the same pot of money that pays for 'books'. The governance professional would have been working extra hours and billing them. Even a relatively simple complaint can easily cost £3-£4k in clerking. Then there is the cost of staff time, taking them away from educating children.
On LBC the father in particular was bleating on about a 'lack of transparency' around the recruitment of the new headteacher. I'm sure that anyone who has been involved in recruitment knows, there can never be total public transparency in recruitment because candidates have a right to privacy.
The parents didn't like the fact that it took a while to start the recruitment process and meanwhile they weren't satisfied with the deputy headteacher taking the reins. This is not unusual. In some areas headteacher recruitment is very difficult. Before proceeding with headteacher recruitment schools might consider various options such as academy conversion, possible partnerships or federations with other schools. That takes time. Governing board minutes of these discussions could arguably be considered to be confidential, at least for a period of time after the meetings.
If an individual was subject to a prolonged campaign such as this they would be advised by everyone here to seek advice from the police. That is what the school did. What happened after was not their decision.

I'm sure I've wasted my time typing all of this out, but I thought worth a try. 😁

springintoaction321 · 30/03/2025 09:22

Lovegame · 29/03/2025 09:32

6 officers will be down to the nature of the threats or other intel they have in the parents. If the parents are know to the police to be violent or aggressive towards police then they will need to keep themsleve safe.

you need to read the article.

They didn't warrant having 6 officers. Utter ridiculous waste of public resources.

Canterranter · 30/03/2025 09:22

I'm going to add that the press focus on the WhatsApp group is relevant in relation to the police action - possibly. However it does mean that the prolonged harrassment carried out against the school by these people is being overlooked.
No, I don't work for the school. I'm a recently retired governance professional, ex chair of governors and ex National Leader of Governance.

Canterranter · 30/03/2025 09:23

springintoaction321 · 30/03/2025 09:22

you need to read the article.

They didn't warrant having 6 officers. Utter ridiculous waste of public resources.

3 police cars - 1 for each of the arrested because they aren't allowed to travel together. Plus one to ensure that there were police on site to make sure that the child in the house was cared for. Each police car has to have two police people in it.

TENSsion · 30/03/2025 09:30

noblegiraffe · 29/03/2025 22:20

Ok, so if you didn't mean to respond in a blasé fashion wittering about how teachers need to earn respect to the part of my post that talked about headteachers being assaulted, was it in response to the bit of my post that said "NAHT said the results exposed “widespread reports of trolling on social media and in parent groups on Facebook and WhatsApp – as well as appalling instances of hate campaigns and harassment and intimidation”.

Are you defending parents trolling teachers on social media and appalling instances of hate campaigns, harassment and intimidation?

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Being disturbed by six police officers turning up to arrest some parents who have been slagging off a school online and by a school needing “advice” from the police on how to respond to parents’ complaints does not equal supporting parents “trolling”.
I’m very concerned by the lack of professional judgement in this instance.

Portakalkedi · 30/03/2025 09:36

Obviòusly I, like most people here, don't know the details of what's been said in this case, but the whole point is that 6 police officers attended to arrest them for things they wrote. You would be lucky to get ONE officer to attend a burglary, shoplifting, or most other everyday crimes that affect people much more than 'hurt feelings', which while horrible is surely not something to be prioritised. Still, easier and less threatening to police rather than confronting actual criminals as per their job description.

TENSsion · 30/03/2025 09:37

TENSsion · 30/03/2025 09:30

Being disturbed by six police officers turning up to arrest some parents who have been slagging off a school online and by a school needing “advice” from the police on how to respond to parents’ complaints does not equal supporting parents “trolling”.
I’m very concerned by the lack of professional judgement in this instance.

It was a complete waste of resources and money.

Shops are drowning with the cost of shop lifting and the police rarely respond. Our family member was burgled, no police officer attended. People are being attacked on the streets and the police refuse to intervene.

When the public phone the police for assistance for actual criminal activities and get no assistance, then they see them attending mob handed to some mums being rude online, it affects the public opinion of the police.

We are seeing people being sent to prison for writing threatening things online for longer terms than people actually DOING the things they wrote about doing.

It’s a complete mess.

We’re sleepwalking into a society that is lawless in terms of violence and theft etc. but authoritative over what we are allowed to say in public. It’s disturbing.

saraclara · 30/03/2025 09:44

Thank you for the feedback on that interview with the parents @Canterranter . I hope people will read it and see that it was not unreasonable for the school to seek advice from the police.

Canterranter · 30/03/2025 09:44

So many people concentrating on the school being 'slagged off' online and completely ignoring the campaign that happened before that. We don't know if the school sought advice from the police just because of the WhatsApp messages, that's pretty unlikely.

saraclara · 30/03/2025 09:46

It was a complete waste of resources and money.

If so that needs taking up with the police. It was not the school's decision to send that officers and cars out and have them arrested.

Canterranter · 30/03/2025 09:46

TENSsion · 30/03/2025 09:30

Being disturbed by six police officers turning up to arrest some parents who have been slagging off a school online and by a school needing “advice” from the police on how to respond to parents’ complaints does not equal supporting parents “trolling”.
I’m very concerned by the lack of professional judgement in this instance.

Given the full context - the 80-odd emails, the abuse of staff and governors, accessing the school after being banned - I would have advised the school to speak to the police for advice. They did the right thing. The police decided on their course of action, not the school.

noblegiraffe · 30/03/2025 09:54

Canterranter · 30/03/2025 09:09

Exactly. People are really de-railing this thread. I listened to the parents being interviewed on LBC. Forget the WhatsApp conversations for a second or two... They didn't dispute sending 80-odd emails to the school. They also made multiple phone calls. They accosted staff in the playground. They made personal approaches to the Chair of Governors, which the father as an ex-governor would have known to be wrong and unfair. Eventually when they were banned from school grounds the father still made his way into the school - Headteachers don't make the decision to ban parents from school premises lightly, but that would indicate that it was a good decision in this case.
The school can't respond publicly in detail to the allegations being made (but I bet they would love to). Not because it would be 'bad form', but because there would be GDPR and confidentiality issues. However we can be sure that they tried to engage with these people and responded to them on multiple occasions before deciding that their complaints were 'vexatious'. Their definition of a vexatious complaint should be in their complaints procedure, but even if it isn't, they can look to DfE and NGA guidance and apply that.
The father, as an ex-governor, would have had some idea of the financial cost of all of this. Ultimately coming from the same pot of money that pays for 'books'. The governance professional would have been working extra hours and billing them. Even a relatively simple complaint can easily cost £3-£4k in clerking. Then there is the cost of staff time, taking them away from educating children.
On LBC the father in particular was bleating on about a 'lack of transparency' around the recruitment of the new headteacher. I'm sure that anyone who has been involved in recruitment knows, there can never be total public transparency in recruitment because candidates have a right to privacy.
The parents didn't like the fact that it took a while to start the recruitment process and meanwhile they weren't satisfied with the deputy headteacher taking the reins. This is not unusual. In some areas headteacher recruitment is very difficult. Before proceeding with headteacher recruitment schools might consider various options such as academy conversion, possible partnerships or federations with other schools. That takes time. Governing board minutes of these discussions could arguably be considered to be confidential, at least for a period of time after the meetings.
If an individual was subject to a prolonged campaign such as this they would be advised by everyone here to seek advice from the police. That is what the school did. What happened after was not their decision.

I'm sure I've wasted my time typing all of this out, but I thought worth a try. 😁

No, not a waste of time at all. Very interesting to hear the details that were left out of the Times piece! And I can see why they did leave it out. Leave out 'going onto the school site and harassing teachers even after being banned' and put in some snarky WhatsApp messages and pretend it's a free speech issue.

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TENSsion · 30/03/2025 10:06

They have a child with specific needs. They’re going to need more frequent contact with that child’s teacher.

That involves numerous emails, speaking on the yard etc.

None of that is unreasonable, never mind illegal.

Wildflowers99 · 30/03/2025 10:07

TENSsion · 30/03/2025 10:06

They have a child with specific needs. They’re going to need more frequent contact with that child’s teacher.

That involves numerous emails, speaking on the yard etc.

None of that is unreasonable, never mind illegal.

And when you have 50% of the school with ‘specific needs’?

TENSsion · 30/03/2025 10:07

saraclara · 30/03/2025 09:46

It was a complete waste of resources and money.

If so that needs taking up with the police. It was not the school's decision to send that officers and cars out and have them arrested.

I do blame the police.

I’m not sure how you’ve not gathered that from the rest of my post/s

Or were you trying not to?

TENSsion · 30/03/2025 10:09

Wildflowers99 · 30/03/2025 10:07

And when you have 50% of the school with ‘specific needs’?

You think the more children with specific needs a school has, the less responsibility of care the teachers have for maintaining contact with the parents?

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