Indeed.
I gave up trying for children when my disability progressed, not that I judge those who do otherwise. It does blow my mind that someone I know can do nothing without two support staff, but his neighbour travels the world with his kids, yet they get the same benefit rate with very different individual expenses.
I have no doubt both groups have a disability & struggle in their own way. Everyone is different & I try not to judge, but at times like this, when even the basics are at threat it's hard not to feel frustrated.
There are people with a disability worse than mine, if I'm worrying, what about them?
If someone can give me a job I can do for a few hours each week, at any hour of the day or night & won't mind if I'm unable to do it for months at a time, fabulous, I'm available. Sadly, those jobs don't exist & I fully understand why.
Few businesses wish to employ someone who needs help to role over, shocker, I know :)
Equality is a pipe dream, all we can do is try to level the playing field a bit. That is what the benefit system should do.
I just want enough to live. I've gone without a holiday for 20+, I just need to be able to pay the bills in my EPC B home.
I already bulk buy supplies, sometimes a year in advance if it's cheap enough. I can cut no more.
I can't even afford to use my PIP for a motorbility wheelchair accessible vehicle as I need it for other costs.
Those groups annoyed at disabled people existing on £1700 a month would have a heart attack if I announced that my care package is £4,500 a week. Nursing care for me is more like £7,000 pw.
We disabled people are either supported by society or give us a legal way to end things comfortably.
That is where some are heading.