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Why does Oxbridge do this? Do you know any Students like this?

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janeeire244 · 15/03/2025 01:15

Why are there so many students at Oxbridge who study competitive degrees like law with relatively low A-level grades such as anything below 3A*s but also including AAA or even AAB? Most of these people applied with inflated predicted grades but are let in when they get lower grades than they were predicted either because they still met the really low entry requirements (shockingly Oxford Law is at AAA) or if they miss it and get AAB, they are reprieved?

I don’t even think it’s fair to say that they shone at some other stage of the application process because I know of some students who got relatively low admissions test scores or mediocre GCSEs and got in as well.

This is all the while they reject people with much high admissions test scores or much better grades.

That being said I’ve never heard of anyone who did poorly on the interviews get an offer (poorly by Oxbridge standards not just them thinking they did badly).

Do you know anyone at Oxbridge studying a degree (especially a competitive one like law) with an average admissions test score or below average; or less than 3A*s at A-level?

OP posts:
titchy · 15/03/2025 11:31

janeeire244 · 15/03/2025 07:46

The British government could pass a law to force Oxbridge to act accordingly. Even Liz Truss (when vying for office in 2022) suggested forcing Oxford and Cambridge to interview all students who had achieved 3As (so applying post A-levels) and to give preference to those with 3As over lesser grades.

Well that comment alone proves you don’t have the depth of thinking Oxbridge require.

user1456045638 · 15/03/2025 11:32

janeeire244 · 15/03/2025 08:39

I understand your post but you seem not to have caught the jist of my issue.

I was on course to get the higher grades but didn’t because I was disadvantaged due to the lack of extra time. Furthermore, I also come from a disadvantaged background, socio-economically speaking and was in care, so the analogy of your son does not really work with me.

Finally, Liz Truss, herself, came from humble roots so it’s impressive that she actually got top grades to get in Oxford and did well.

Liz Truss father was a professor of pure mathematics - not that humble

Goldenbear · 15/03/2025 11:38

cheeseallthroughthebitch · 15/03/2025 11:15

They take the best of the best. You know this. You failed to make the cut. It’s as simple as that.

Do they or is it more down to luck and structural reasons that certain young people roam the Oxbridge plains!

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

Cappuccino5 · 15/03/2025 11:45

Walkaround · 15/03/2025 07:21

You don’t come across as one of these “more intelligent people.” Maybe that’s the problem?

Exactly! 🤣 This thread is really quite embarrassing for you, OP.

Donotgogentle · 15/03/2025 11:58

PreFabBroadBean · 15/03/2025 10:53

I know this thread is ostensibly about Oxbridge, but really it's about obsessions. This is perhaps the first time that something you really want hasn't gone your way. But really as we get older, life is full of things not going our way, and to succeed, we learn to dust ourselves down and get on with it.

If your personality is obsessive, perhaps this event is teaching you an important lesson that will serve you in good stead further down the line. You need to work out how to get over this, then use that lesson later in life. You need to be kind to yourself, and accept what's happened, and when you have another setback in life, reflect on this to give you insight into your personality - and you'll definitely have more setbacks, because that's the human condition.

This is such good advice. And kinder than some of the posts.

mateysmum · 15/03/2025 12:07

TeenToTwenties · 15/03/2025 06:54

Unis that only select on grades want the best grades they can get.

Unis that selects on grades, additional tests and interviews, select on a balance of all 3.

Back in the day if you did '4th term Oxbridge exams' you could get an EE offer. That didn't mean they took normal E grades students though!

That was me! An EE offer landed on the mat just before Christmas 1979.

cheeseallthroughthebitch · 15/03/2025 12:18

PreFabBroadBean · 15/03/2025 11:30

They take the best of the best. You know this. You failed to make the cut. It’s as simple as that.
That's a bit harsh. Much of it is down to luck, as there are so many young people who would do well there. And in the OP's case, she was offered a place, if she got her grades, so it must have seemed tantalisingly close. Worse than not having a place after the interview.

I’m sure it’s hard. But OP needs to accept that they didn’t make the cut instead of obsessively posting on Mumsnet about it.

mateysmum · 15/03/2025 12:30

OP You have been told again and again that grades aren't everything. Believe me, the difference between ticking the A* boxes to a mark scheme and defending your research and writing to a don who is the world expert, are night and day. Oxford knows this too which is why grades are only one part of an in depth process.
My son is a fairly recent graduate from a good Russell group uni and I cannot believe how little work he had to produce and had absolutely minimal direct teaching contact. The pace of work at Oxford is intense and again, A level grades are not a good predictor of how a student will cope with this. Oxford has a lower drop out rate than most other unis which shows that their admissions are working well. My old college makes massive efforts at out reach and financial support for those who need it so that anyone regardless of background can attend.
The daughter of a good friend of mine was rejected from Oxbridge, is now in her final year at UCL studying law and has got a job with a magic circle firm.
Either reapply or move on OP. This bitterness will suck the joy out of your life.

CruCru · 15/03/2025 12:48

This is from a while ago but is fairly interesting. I would be surprised if the admissions process had changed very much over the last decade or so.

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2012/jan/10/how-cambridge-admissions-really-work

Some of the responses on here have been rather unkind. If the OP is who they claim to be (never a given) then they are a really young adult who is extremely disappointed. Perhaps they have been told to aim for Oxford / Cambridge from a young age. Having said that, I have not seen any other threads from them.

One post did jump out at me - the idea that a law would be put in place to govern top universities’ admissions processes. I think I say this rather often but how involved do you want the government to be in your life? Governments are short term beasts and the law is such a blunt tool - I have no faith that the government (Labour or Tory) will be better at choosing candidates than admissions tutors.

So who is good enough to get into Cambridge?

Cambridge University says it wants more students from state schools. But how does it really decide who deserves a place amid intense competition? Jeevan Vasagar gained unprecedented access to the admissions process to find out

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2012/jan/10/how-cambridge-admissions-really-work

Goldenbear · 15/03/2025 12:49

Is the OP only a teen so 19, if so I think people are being incredibly harsh and irresponsible.

OutwiththeOutCrowd · 15/03/2025 13:11

I am not sure it helps the OP to double down on the idea that Oxbridge can infallibly separate the wheat from the chaff.

What I would like to mention is Malcolm Gladwell's take on elite institutions and the way human beings gravitate towards such places like moths to a flame. He calls it Elite Institution Cognitive Disorder and says that we place a higher significance and value on them than they truly deserve - and more than that ignore the potential cost of getting there and feeling outsmarted by peers.

TitusMoan · 15/03/2025 13:16

HelmholtzWatson · 15/03/2025 05:23

Put simply, an AAA student with no outside interests is inferior to an AAB student who is captain of the rugby team, and it's not even close.

I don’t agree, and I have an Oxbridge degree. Some of the most brilliant scientists (including medics) had very few outside interests as their chief interest in life was their subject. They have gone on to achieve great things in their field. Of course if you’re talking about getting an Oxbridge degree while being captain of the rugby team, you are probably thinking about what the Big Four firms think is more important for recruitment 🙄

poetryandwine · 15/03/2025 13:22

Yes, @CruCru and @Goldenbear the candidate is only 19 and they have had some unlucky breaks. I do feel a lot of sympathy.

But they have a concurrent thread asking whether Oxford could detect an applicant applying from another university, against regulations. This is unethical. And in a candidate who proposes to read Law, a bit troubling.

We may charitably treat that thread as a flight of fancy but it reveals a worrying level of desperation.

There are other threads as well, not all under this name. The candidate seems to care more about the Oxbridge brand than any particular subject. That is the opposite of what Oxbridge want.

The candidate already has an outstanding LNAT mark. They will be admitted to a good law programme if they just pull themselves together. Look how far Sir Keir Starmer has come from his start at Leeds (an excellent law programme, btw).

Most well qualified Oxbridge applicants are rejected. It can be difficult but you do need to pick yourself up and move on.

By no means am I writing off the possibility of Oxford for this candidate, if they follow the rules (not least because I don’t think any plans for dping otherwise will work). However I think it’s far from a sure bet.

User14March · 15/03/2025 13:26

Upthread Scottish ‘unfair’ postcode admissions system mentioned. How is this different from rest of UK?

XelaM · 15/03/2025 13:30

TitusMoan · 15/03/2025 13:16

I don’t agree, and I have an Oxbridge degree. Some of the most brilliant scientists (including medics) had very few outside interests as their chief interest in life was their subject. They have gone on to achieve great things in their field. Of course if you’re talking about getting an Oxbridge degree while being captain of the rugby team, you are probably thinking about what the Big Four firms think is more important for recruitment 🙄

This. My grandfather was a well-known scientist and Physics professor. His main interest was his subject (and everything around it). He certainly never excelled in Rugby or swam the Atlantic, but I've never met anyone with a more in-depth knowledge of science.

I think it's the US universities that place a great importance on extra-curricular activities as university sports are so huge in the US and make the universities a lot of money.

TeenToTwenties · 15/03/2025 13:54

User14March · 15/03/2025 13:26

Upthread Scottish ‘unfair’ postcode admissions system mentioned. How is this different from rest of UK?

Not from Scotland: As I understand it, broadly speaking you get the school that is tied to your postcode. (I think class sizes expand or shrink as needed, no class size limit as such??). No parental listing of preferences. You can make 'placement requests' for a different school, but that seems harder to be accepted.
(Is that correct?)

Pandimoanymum · 15/03/2025 14:01

Goldenbear · 15/03/2025 09:48

What's 'Saltburn'?

It's a 2023 black comedy/drama about a boy from an 'ordinary' family who gets into Oxford in the 1990s and befriends a student from a wealthy family who invites him to stay at the family estate, "Saltburn" during the holidays. The parts of the film that take place at the uni make it seem as if it's full of snobby Hooray Henrys who are there because of their money and who belittle the main character.
It's a good film and obviously there's much more to it than that, but it makes Oxford Uni look like an awful place to be if you're not from money. I cringed watching those bits when my son was applying for uni and I always want to tell people that Oxford's not like that at all, because I honestly do worry a bit that it will put off kids like mine, from ordinary state school. It's a bit of a bugbear of mine!
Oxford have put a lot of effort into widening participation in an effort to encourage bright kids from more disadvantaged backgrounds to apply, it's just a shame that the film perpetuates the stereotype that it's only for 'posh' people. I know it has to portray it like that for the story to work, but still.

CruCru · 15/03/2025 14:01

User14March · 15/03/2025 13:26

Upthread Scottish ‘unfair’ postcode admissions system mentioned. How is this different from rest of UK?

I think it might be this: www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-64247475.amp

Walkaround · 15/03/2025 14:02

Goldenbear · 15/03/2025 10:41

I would say some of those measurements of suitability sound subjective and could definitely involve personal bias, e.g observations on who would gel and fit into the culture of Oxford. That said, I don't think the OP should stress about it, ultimately, the kudos is one thing but it shouldn't be the main motivation for a university choice.

My eldest is in the last year of a state 6th form college and he doesn't know anybody that has being interested in pursuing a place at Oxbridge, despite being approached by the college as they run a programme for students they think would be suitable, this is because of the stuffy/elitist reputation associated with these universities. One of his friends is a maths genius but ultimately has not interest at all. They all have offers from other high ranking universities, my son has all five offers but coming from state school backgrounds they don't think it looks 'fun'.

Well, that just sounds like the other side of the same coin as the OP - one who only wants Oxbridge and the other who won’t even consider applying, both down to rather silly-sounding beliefs about the sorts of candidates Oxford and Cambridge are really, or should be, looking for and what student life might be like if a person actually applied and got in.

Crummles · 15/03/2025 14:35

@cassandre It may vary between colleges but my dc1 had the option to request feedback about aptitude test and interview scores.

And fwiw, did not have 3 A* (just one in fact, and not even in their degree subject)

Pandimoanymum · 15/03/2025 14:35

Walkaround · 15/03/2025 14:02

Well, that just sounds like the other side of the same coin as the OP - one who only wants Oxbridge and the other who won’t even consider applying, both down to rather silly-sounding beliefs about the sorts of candidates Oxford and Cambridge are really, or should be, looking for and what student life might be like if a person actually applied and got in.

Edited

Exactly. It's not stuffy/ elitest any more but that outdated stereotype still persists, despite all the work Oxbridge have done, and still do to encourage kids from all backgrounds to apply. Yeah, there's still room for improvement; whilst only about 8% of children in the UK are privately educated they still make up about 30% of students at Oxbridge. But that's partly down to not enough kids from ordinary state school or disadvantaged backgrounds actually applying, and that in itself is partly because of these outdated ideas that it's not for them/too intense/no fun/ etc.
The terms are shorter than most other uni's, so yes it's 'intense' in the sense that they're cramming in the same amount of work into a shorter space of time. But it's not unrealistic, my son's expected to spend about 40 hours per week on his uni work- that's like a normal full time job and a lot less than some jobs! He seems to have a decent work/life balance and says as long as he organises his work time effectively, its fine, it's not like you have no time to relax or socialise.
It's the teaching style that can feel intense as Oxford's system involves a lot of tutorials that are one-to-one discussions with your tutor,or tutor and one other student. That style certainly doesn't suit everyone as that's when you'll discuss your written work, the ideas you've expressed, maybe get your thinking challenged, and you ll need to be able to think on your feet, be flexible and willing to take on other peoples' points of view. My son absolutely adores discussing his subject (he has bored me to death with it on numerous occasions over the years!) but it doesn't mean he's any more intelligent than the vast majority of very bright students that don't go to Oxbridge. He just happens to be academic and is the type of student that they know will thrive under their system.

AllyMacbealmyarse · 15/03/2025 14:57

janeeire244 · 15/03/2025 07:18

Because it’s not acceptable that less intelligent people as measured by having lesser grades are taking Oxbridge spaces from more intelligent people.

“Acceptable “ - who gets to judge that? Universities are entitlement to set their own admission criteria, you may not think it “fair” but life isn’t and if you can’t get on board with that law is not the career for you. Maybe work on letting this go nd moving on with life. You will certainly be happier and less bitter.

ToWhitToWhoo · 15/03/2025 15:01

Matronic6 · 15/03/2025 08:38

The fact that there is n interview stage as part of the selection process makes it's very clear that whilst grades and achievements do matter, personality and presence at the interview is very important. People who were very successful during interviews can and have been admitted despite lower grades. Basically people interviewed better than you and despite your academic achievements they felt the other candidates had more potential for the course.

At least in most subjects, the interviews are NOT to assess 'personality and presence' but to assess the ability to reflect on a novel question, related to their subject, for which the interviewee has not been prepared as they are for exams. And perhaps their 'teachability' in an individual or small-group setting.

While the cases of Liz Truss and her immediate predecessor do show that Oxbridge has not always been successful in selecting the genuinely thoughtful and intellectually curious student at the expense of the confident 'bullshitter', doing so is certainly the aim. Unfortunately, the mistaken idea that Oxbridge want people with a particular personality has too often deterred shy or awkward students or those from non-traditional backgrounds from applying.

But in any case, Oxbridge is not the be-all and end-all. There are many excellent universities. And when a lawyer is pleading their client's case in court, their success in doing so is not judged on the basis of which university they attended as an undergraduate!

Goldenbear · 15/03/2025 15:05

Walkaround · 15/03/2025 14:02

Well, that just sounds like the other side of the same coin as the OP - one who only wants Oxbridge and the other who won’t even consider applying, both down to rather silly-sounding beliefs about the sorts of candidates Oxford and Cambridge are really, or should be, looking for and what student life might be like if a person actually applied and got in.

Edited

Not really, down to inside intel from one of the friend's older siblings that is studying Maths at Oxford and feels he made a mistake. Equally, the article linked above sketches the Cambridge Admissions panel as oblivious to the structural and cultural issues that prevent many state educated children meeting the mark. The whole article just appears to demonstrate a superiority through the constant display of disengaged disapproval — a joke, a smirk about someone's hair style, t-shirt, childlike appearance, tbh all quite cringe worthy to read!

AllyMacbealmyarse · 15/03/2025 15:06

janeeire244 · 15/03/2025 08:39

I understand your post but you seem not to have caught the jist of my issue.

I was on course to get the higher grades but didn’t because I was disadvantaged due to the lack of extra time. Furthermore, I also come from a disadvantaged background, socio-economically speaking and was in care, so the analogy of your son does not really work with me.

Finally, Liz Truss, herself, came from humble roots so it’s impressive that she actually got top grades to get in Oxford and did well.

@janeeire244 , I’m a lawyer of nearly 20 years standing, a partner of over 10 years standing in city and regional firms, didn’t get into oxbridge, went to a Russel group and didn’t get any of the training contracts I applied for in 3 years. I’ve also recruited trainees nd grads for over a decade. I then got an opportunity that was totally random and have flown from there. If you genuinely have as much potential as you say then it really won’t matter , you can be successful anyway, and all you are doing with this obsession is making things harder for yourself. Trust me, no one in the law will be impressed, or even sympathetic, about whinging like this. They may smile, murmur sympathies and then privately think you a bit sad and pathetic. You need to be incredibly resilient to do this job, if you can’t get past this and use the experience to develop a strong personal narrative you really are on to a loser. Sorry, but that’s the truth.

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