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Let's talk about gen X because no other bugger does.

352 replies

Mach3 · 14/03/2025 21:12

Hail fellow X'ers.

We are never mentioned. It's always Boomers, Millennials or gen Z.

Why the fuck not?

We definitely exist, we were very cool people.

I have such good memories of my 70's childhood and teenage years in the 80's.

And all the goodness of the late 80s and early 90s.

It did happen didn't it?

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Woollyguru · 14/03/2025 23:44

socialdilemmawhattodo · 14/03/2025 22:46

My childhood in a paragraph.

Yep

boredwithfoodprob · 14/03/2025 23:51

Unpaidviewer · 14/03/2025 22:07

I'm an older millennial and I was always jealous of the gen Xers. I wanted to dress like Kelly in saved by the bell college years or Winona ryder in reality bites. I didn't get to fully appreciate the music at the time. And the atmosphere of the 90s just seemed different, maybe more optimistic, especially when Labour came into power.

Yes! There was definitely an amazing positivity and optimism in the nineties. First time I voted and Labour won - it felt so…. easy! I was 18 in 1995 - fuuuuuun times 🤩

BigHeadBertha · 14/03/2025 23:52

I don't like the boasting and bleating about what generation someone belongs to. We're all born sometime and it's stupid to think that alone makes you (general "you" there, not callling anyone out) or others any better or worse than anyone else.

Many of us think everything was great when we were young but it's most likely just because when you're young, everything around at the time is new and exciting to you, not because it actually was "the best" anything.

And of course, when you're talking about a zillion people, there's not much you can generalize about factually. People vary.

MaeDaymon · 14/03/2025 23:53

Good times!

The music. The clothes. The freedom.

Jabtastic · 14/03/2025 23:55

I'm glad people are mentioning Xennials! Analogue childhood, digital adulthood, cool af 😎

Mach3 · 14/03/2025 23:59

BigHeadBertha · 14/03/2025 23:52

I don't like the boasting and bleating about what generation someone belongs to. We're all born sometime and it's stupid to think that alone makes you (general "you" there, not callling anyone out) or others any better or worse than anyone else.

Many of us think everything was great when we were young but it's most likely just because when you're young, everything around at the time is new and exciting to you, not because it actually was "the best" anything.

And of course, when you're talking about a zillion people, there's not much you can generalize about factually. People vary.

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Gen Z then?

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Stirabout · 15/03/2025 00:03

Mach3 · 14/03/2025 23:36

It's ok isn't it?

I feel fine about my 52 years.

I think.

Agree
I really don’t feel any different to my younger years
Except I suppose we are all on here reminiscing which may be a sign of forthcoming
” in my day” 😳 at the beginning of every sentence 😆

Mach3 · 15/03/2025 00:05

Jabtastic · 14/03/2025 23:55

I'm glad people are mentioning Xennials! Analogue childhood, digital adulthood, cool af 😎

Xennials can get in the bin.

Start your own thread youth!!

(I Josh. Slightly).

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Shoezembagsforever · 15/03/2025 00:05

I’m baffled too. We were definitely the Luckiest Generation, and the lifestyle we had in our 20s is literally another world from the equivalent now - I actually feel utterly terrible for them in comparison.

Where I grew up everyone was from comfortable backgrounds, but in our early 20s we all signed on and got benefits while working cash-in-hand waitressing jobs (back when the tips were amazing).

My then boyfriend lived in the coolest place, but his rent was just £30 a month so he never asked me to contribute. We were out four nights a week - pub Wednesday and Thursday night, restaurant and club Friday night and pub and club Saturday night.

I was gently teasing a young estate agent earlier this year (who was selling our second home) after he said he was usually in bed by 10pm and at his office by 8am, before I realised from the conversation, that sadly, he probably couldn’t actually afford to go out in the evening.

amipretnant · 15/03/2025 00:07

Millennial here. Love gen x. Best humour

GenXCoasterFan · 15/03/2025 00:08

Ahh, Gen X. I hope this thread continues for the nostalgia.

I guess I’m a young-ish Gen X-er, born in 1976, a child in the 1980s and felt like I had my formative teen years in the 1990s. The music (my favourites were US alternative rock, metal and grunge, with a little bit of indie and of course also Guns n Roses, who were in none of those categories) was the best.

I really enjoyed Stranger Things for the nostalgia.

We had so much fun.

MaeDaymon · 15/03/2025 00:10

I often wonder if I'll wear a ra-ra skirt again!

Mach3 · 15/03/2025 00:19

Shoezembagsforever · 15/03/2025 00:05

I’m baffled too. We were definitely the Luckiest Generation, and the lifestyle we had in our 20s is literally another world from the equivalent now - I actually feel utterly terrible for them in comparison.

Where I grew up everyone was from comfortable backgrounds, but in our early 20s we all signed on and got benefits while working cash-in-hand waitressing jobs (back when the tips were amazing).

My then boyfriend lived in the coolest place, but his rent was just £30 a month so he never asked me to contribute. We were out four nights a week - pub Wednesday and Thursday night, restaurant and club Friday night and pub and club Saturday night.

I was gently teasing a young estate agent earlier this year (who was selling our second home) after he said he was usually in bed by 10pm and at his office by 8am, before I realised from the conversation, that sadly, he probably couldn’t actually afford to go out in the evening.

Gosh yes.

Middle class mucking about.

You got money from the government for pissing around.

It was a Conservative government that paid for my absolute indolence for years.

It was so easy to get money from the government then.

I was an independent school girl that decided to live with my boyfriend at 16, I did my A levels, got into Imperial college, and then got more cash because I was an;

'Independent student'.

Larks.

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EricTheGardener · 15/03/2025 00:24

Space hoppers in the garden, Findus crispy pancakes for tea, Danger Mouse on the telly. Going to school in leg warmers, watching Fame and singing along to 'Starmaker'. Simon Le Bon or John Taylor? Ditching pop for The Smiths and The Cure, then being totally torn when it all went aciiiiiiied as how can you be in two 'tribes' at once? Fortunately Primal Scream and the Happy Mondays and the Stone Roses made it all ok, and indie/dance-y club nights became the melting pots that meshed us all together, along with a bag of mushrooms, some LSD and a few Es... are good, he's Ebeneezer Goode..

Uni days, full grant. Student bedrooms with tie-dye wall hangings, the floor littered with club flyers, rizlas, last week's Melody Maker and empty cans of Special Brew. Getting ready to go out... Nirvana, Suede, Dinosaur Jr, Verve, New Order, Saint Etienne on the stereo... piling into a bar and necking back endless bottles of Two Dogs, quick scan of the room to see who you might try and pull, make eye contact with the one who looked a bit like Bernard Butler, ask him for a light while looking up at him from beneath heavily mascara'd eyes. A few more rounds, then you're snogging in the club, the lights come on and you realise you may have had your beer goggles on, but in for a penny in for a pound - the night bus home to one-night-stand-central is leaving in 5 minutes so you might as well. Key in the door, make a face at your flatmates before heading to your room and lighting some incense, rolling a joint, and hoping he has a condom.

Uni is done, it's real life, get a job time now. Crappy houseshares for a good few years, but it's the middle of the 90s and life is a-mazing. Pay £6.50 to go and see Oasis at the New Cross Venue, £32.50 for the 3-day Reading Festival. Britpop is in full swing, the Thatcher/Major era is finally on its last legs, there is something in the air. Feels a bit like optimism? The middle-decade passes in a haze of hedonism.

How the hell are we now in our late 20s? The century (the millennium, even) is drawing to a close and we're not sure if the world's about to spontaneously combust at the stroke of midnight. Feeling a bit tired of rooms in shared houses now, could do with my own space. Can't really afford it living in London, but what if I moved a bit further away and commuted in? Maybe by the sea? I mean I only earn £16k per year, but there are flats for less than £50k down there and I can get a mortgage for 3.5x my salary so I'm laughing. I'm in the new pad by the end of the decade, with enough left over for a Habitat sofa and one of those CD players where you can burn your own CD. Am I finally grown up now? I don't want to be, but it's the 2000s, I'm pushing 30, and - what the hell - some of my friends are talking babies. Definitely the end of an era. Sob.

Tworedgeraniums · 15/03/2025 00:25

PollyCreo · 14/03/2025 21:40

Yeah there was none of this "anxiety" or tracking shit. We just lied to our parents about where we were going, they were none the wiser 😉

Omg that made me laugh out loud.

my friend lived in a bungalow two doors up from our bungalow and we’d take turns climbing out our windows after bedtime in 1980’s meeting up in each others bedrooms. We nearly got caught after about six months so stopped but we’d leave a note on our pillows saying where we were.

BigHeadBertha · 15/03/2025 00:26

Mach3 · 14/03/2025 23:59

Gen Z then?

No, actually I'm at the tail end of the boomers. I'd just rather judge people on their individual merits and be treated the same way myself.

Kennobi · 15/03/2025 00:29

I really had no idea so many people were Cud fans. Hope you all saw them at Glastonbury.

Think we should enjoy being ignored while it lasts - they'll come for us once we've all retired and are blocking the housing market or whatever. Time was when boomers were the cool kids and everyone wanted to have been around in the 60s.

Mind, it'll be Gen Z on at us and therefore easy to deal with - just pronoun shame them and tell them to fuck off.

Mach3 · 15/03/2025 00:29

BigHeadBertha · 15/03/2025 00:26

No, actually I'm at the tail end of the boomers. I'd just rather judge people on their individual merits and be treated the same way myself.

Understand.

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Mumrun25 · 15/03/2025 00:31

I'm the youngest possible gen X. I'm right on the cusp. But I had a walkie talkie with the boy next door and every day in the holidays we were out on our bikes - so I think I qualify.

Mach3 · 15/03/2025 00:35

Mumrun25 · 15/03/2025 00:31

I'm the youngest possible gen X. I'm right on the cusp. But I had a walkie talkie with the boy next door and every day in the holidays we were out on our bikes - so I think I qualify.

'81?

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Mach3 · 15/03/2025 00:46

All the most sensible women I know where born between '68 & '74.

Small window of opportunity.

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Ruebolive · 15/03/2025 00:46

I was born in 1963 and sister 1965 ,we had the same upbringing and have massively great memories. We have childhood friends now and laugh about our un PC upbringing,we had fun and laughter and our parents gave us freedom!!

Mach3 · 15/03/2025 00:48

Ruebolive · 15/03/2025 00:46

I was born in 1963 and sister 1965 ,we had the same upbringing and have massively great memories. We have childhood friends now and laugh about our un PC upbringing,we had fun and laughter and our parents gave us freedom!!

I'll let you in!

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anon666 · 15/03/2025 00:48

I'm really happy to go below the radar tbh. I consider it a compliment, as it means we're not perceived negatively.

Unlike all the other gens. 🤣 They've got nothing on us because we're so cool.

Or so I thought. I asked my Gen Z daughter why we'd escaped negative attention, and she retorted "Because you never did anything, you don't matter" 😲

Honestly I think we're the "don't give a f*ck generation", the coolest of all time. 😎

Stirabout · 15/03/2025 00:49

EricTheGardener · 15/03/2025 00:24

Space hoppers in the garden, Findus crispy pancakes for tea, Danger Mouse on the telly. Going to school in leg warmers, watching Fame and singing along to 'Starmaker'. Simon Le Bon or John Taylor? Ditching pop for The Smiths and The Cure, then being totally torn when it all went aciiiiiiied as how can you be in two 'tribes' at once? Fortunately Primal Scream and the Happy Mondays and the Stone Roses made it all ok, and indie/dance-y club nights became the melting pots that meshed us all together, along with a bag of mushrooms, some LSD and a few Es... are good, he's Ebeneezer Goode..

Uni days, full grant. Student bedrooms with tie-dye wall hangings, the floor littered with club flyers, rizlas, last week's Melody Maker and empty cans of Special Brew. Getting ready to go out... Nirvana, Suede, Dinosaur Jr, Verve, New Order, Saint Etienne on the stereo... piling into a bar and necking back endless bottles of Two Dogs, quick scan of the room to see who you might try and pull, make eye contact with the one who looked a bit like Bernard Butler, ask him for a light while looking up at him from beneath heavily mascara'd eyes. A few more rounds, then you're snogging in the club, the lights come on and you realise you may have had your beer goggles on, but in for a penny in for a pound - the night bus home to one-night-stand-central is leaving in 5 minutes so you might as well. Key in the door, make a face at your flatmates before heading to your room and lighting some incense, rolling a joint, and hoping he has a condom.

Uni is done, it's real life, get a job time now. Crappy houseshares for a good few years, but it's the middle of the 90s and life is a-mazing. Pay £6.50 to go and see Oasis at the New Cross Venue, £32.50 for the 3-day Reading Festival. Britpop is in full swing, the Thatcher/Major era is finally on its last legs, there is something in the air. Feels a bit like optimism? The middle-decade passes in a haze of hedonism.

How the hell are we now in our late 20s? The century (the millennium, even) is drawing to a close and we're not sure if the world's about to spontaneously combust at the stroke of midnight. Feeling a bit tired of rooms in shared houses now, could do with my own space. Can't really afford it living in London, but what if I moved a bit further away and commuted in? Maybe by the sea? I mean I only earn £16k per year, but there are flats for less than £50k down there and I can get a mortgage for 3.5x my salary so I'm laughing. I'm in the new pad by the end of the decade, with enough left over for a Habitat sofa and one of those CD players where you can burn your own CD. Am I finally grown up now? I don't want to be, but it's the 2000s, I'm pushing 30, and - what the hell - some of my friends are talking babies. Definitely the end of an era. Sob.

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Amazing write up.
This is my life I just couldn’t have written it up so well !