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Let's talk about gen X because no other bugger does.

352 replies

Mach3 · 14/03/2025 21:12

Hail fellow X'ers.

We are never mentioned. It's always Boomers, Millennials or gen Z.

Why the fuck not?

We definitely exist, we were very cool people.

I have such good memories of my 70's childhood and teenage years in the 80's.

And all the goodness of the late 80s and early 90s.

It did happen didn't it?

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Giggorata · 15/03/2025 12:27

My DC are Generation X and they are awesome.
signed, a Baby Boomer.

menopausalfart · 15/03/2025 12:36

@GeorgeOrwellsTurningGrave My Mum was so worried!
I remember the crowd surge. I was down the front but on the edge so had room to move. There were way too many people there that year.

Stirabout · 15/03/2025 12:39

GeorgeOrwellsTurningGrave · 15/03/2025 07:20

That was my point, really. Although not a point that was meant to be taken seriously. I'm 55. I don't feel 55 etc.

Not born in 1984 then 🤣

Breakitdownplease · 15/03/2025 13:16

We have the most patience, because >

Let's talk about gen X because no other bugger does.
EricTheGardener · 15/03/2025 13:21

Alabamasunset · 15/03/2025 03:29

You will have profited massively from your flat purchase, lucky you. You just about got in there in time.
I'm the same age as you and my biggest, bitterest regret in life is not buying a flat when they were this price and I could have afforded to buy one, because at the time I thought they were always going to be this affordable so I went off travelling round the world for 2 years feeling young and carefree with the plan to get home, back to work and buy my own flat. But when I returned home, property prices had risen exponentially and I was suddenly priced out of the market. I had to rent instead. I've never recovered from that and I'm 51 now. That decision to travel the world and delay buying a place has ultimately shaped the rest of my financial life for the worse. I kick myself every single day for it, knowing that I could be living in a nice house now if only I'd bought a flat in Brighton when I could afford to in the mid to late 90s before the almighty explosion in property prices happened.

I'm sorry to read that. You're right, I was very lucky, even though the two prior years saving for my (£5k!) deposit felt like a real slog at the time. But I had no idea then how fortuitous it was to buy in that very small window of opportunity before prices went crazy. A year later, and I couldn't have done it, and had no partner to do it with either. It really was the last time that an average, single person with no family money could do that, and I am incredibly grateful for the stability it provided.

Gundogday · 15/03/2025 13:38

Breakitdownplease · 15/03/2025 13:16

We have the most patience, because >

Made me smile.

Tworedgeraniums · 15/03/2025 14:06

Middlechild3 · 15/03/2025 07:27

I always forget what I am and have to look it up. Isn't it a marketing tool for target marketing, like the A1 B stuff? I don't like to label myself and can be slightly age fluid depending on circumstances 😃

Me too. In fact I didn’t even know Gen ?? Was such a thing until recently

SoScarletItWas · 15/03/2025 15:12

Cakebird · 14/03/2025 22:36

That period of time really was the best to be 'going out' age. I have such good memories of seeing Cud (several times). Went to see them again last year. Still an excellent live band.

I went too! Love finding other Space Cudets in the wild x

Alabamasunset · 15/03/2025 15:25

EricTheGardener · 15/03/2025 13:21

I'm sorry to read that. You're right, I was very lucky, even though the two prior years saving for my (£5k!) deposit felt like a real slog at the time. But I had no idea then how fortuitous it was to buy in that very small window of opportunity before prices went crazy. A year later, and I couldn't have done it, and had no partner to do it with either. It really was the last time that an average, single person with no family money could do that, and I am incredibly grateful for the stability it provided.

I'm happy for you, genuinely.
I'm very, very jealous though!!! Because you're right - 2 years later I had no hope of buying a place. Yet 2 years earlier I could have done. It took me years to get my head around how my fate changed in such a life changing way within 24 months. There was me backpacking around Asia on a shoestring, after working hard and saving up for years, naively thinking I'd go back home and buy one of those £50,000 flats, not knowing that acrually I was wasting time destroying any future chance I ever had to buy/own my own home. I'm very angry about it even at the age of 51. I don't think I have ever learnt to accept how stupid and naive I was, to be honest. At the time I thought I was being bohemian and free spirited. In actual fact I was being an idiot.
No family money for me either. It would have been my only chance to financially secure a future for myself.

Turmerictolly · 15/03/2025 16:25

I think we are an even luckier generation than the Boomers really as we had loads of fun, carefree childhoods and adolescence, able to buy property on average salaries, not really any job shortages.

Now a lot of my friends parents are sadly passing away and they’re inheriting huge amounts due to inflated London and other city property prices so are able to retire early and help their Gen Z kids (who I feel very sorry for).

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 15/03/2025 16:28

I’ve just found out Stedman from Five Star has passed away.
Just about to put ‘Rain or Shine’ on in his honour.
My OH thinks my playlists are batshit.
Listen if I want to play Billy Idol and Dr Dre on the same playlist, deal with it.
He can’t stand the 80’s, plays endless Motown.
(I know Dre isn’t considered 80’s but he started as an artist then so I’m counting him in!)

ethelredonagoodday · 15/03/2025 16:50

Yes please. I just snook in towards the end of the 70s. 🙌🏻

NattyTurtle59 · 15/03/2025 20:13

2021x · 15/03/2025 06:16

Maybe you should go to therapy then you wouldn’t have to be so judgmental and hostile to strangers on the internet to feel good about yourself.

I've never had therapy and can't imagine I ever will - us boomers are more resilient, and we also don't think the world owes us a great life.

I also don't need to be "hostile" (you really don't know what that means, do you) to feel good about myself, I always feel good about myself. Maybe you should try to stop feeling so sorry for yourself.

nopenotplaying · 15/03/2025 21:07

1978 so just at the tail end, always wondered where my people were!

Almahart · 15/03/2025 21:24

It's an unrecognisable world isn't it. I graduated and got housing benefit straightaway and moved into a shared house 10 minutes away from my family home. Even when we were skint there was always money to go to the pub. I can't remember ever not being able to buy a round or not putting the heating on. House prices were disproportionately low in the mid to late 90s. A friend bought a one bed flat in Brixton for £50k.

medlow · 16/03/2025 02:07

SerafinasGoose · 15/03/2025 12:23

Not forgetting the good old slasher-movie. I think I've just been borne off on a tidal wave of nostalgia ...

Don't tell me I've become one of those older people who lives in the happier aura of the 'good old days', like the blokes from my dad's generation in the Grateful Dead T-shirts?

When/how in the hell did this happen! 😱

OMG. I'd forgotten about slasher movies. They were terrifying but hilarious at the same time. Jason and his helmet, Freddy and that shirt. There were so many. And some idiot girl would always walk outside on her own,in the dark and the fog and the house would be in the middle of nowhere; and you'd know - well that's another one gone. And "have you checked the children?" The original obvs. So many. They were gory but not too gory. Just right for teenagers.

One thing that was terrible and I am glad to be rid of is "dial-up". Gah that was annoying , and the stupid cord from the phone jack to the study and that ring tone/beep. Drove you crazy. And then mum would yell. I need to call Barbara. Get off the computer., after you'd taken 45 minutes to get the bloody thing to work.
Also young ones don't know the joy of frogger and space invaders at a good old sit down proper machine in a milk bar. I'm getting wistful about the whole thing. And the amount of times I jumped out of my window in the middle of the night and went out with my friends was crazy. I had to climb down a ladder , at first I used to put the ladder away in the morning , then I decided I couldn't be arsed and just left it there leaning against my window and my parents never noticed!

JDEE72 · 16/03/2025 17:50

We’re used to being ignored.

WorkingNanna · 16/03/2025 17:52

Kittenswhiskers · 14/03/2025 21:53

Also I’ve noticed gen x don’t really get bored

We don't have time to be bored!! 🤣🤣

StrikeAlways · 16/03/2025 18:30

PollyCreo · 14/03/2025 21:22

Gen X is the best surely - 90s music and drugs? 😉

I’m a boomer and was into 90s music and weed!

Chocolatestain · 16/03/2025 19:25

I often find myself trying to instil GenX values into DS (although I was born in 1969 I was an older mum so he’s only 12). The phrase ‘suck it up and crack on’, which I feel could be the battle cry for our generation, is frequently on my lips.

SpringIsSpringing25 · 16/03/2025 19:29

SantasLargerHelper · 14/03/2025 21:32

We are the best 👌

Love it!!

Gen X all the way. Born 69, and very grateful for it, I don't think I could've grown up at a better time!!

MadeInYorkshire69 · 16/03/2025 19:31

We are the best, because we coped with pre internet life, the early dial up modem years which tied up the landline and the explosion of online life.
We can still look up shit in a library full of books and cope with a power cut.
We are also the first to rage about menopause and might actually change things to ensure the struggle is recognised. I could go on.
We are fucking invincible if we put our minds to it.

Lovelyview · 16/03/2025 19:34

Supersimkin7 · 14/03/2025 23:03

The NHS call us the Copers.

Services are overrun because

  • Boomers - falling to bits and require insane amounts of care and money to be non-productive
  • Zers - ditto

We’re sandwiched by heartsinks and drains.

But we don’t let it get to us. Happy Mondays up to 11 and friends irl fixes most things.

To be fair there'll be an awful lot of gen x alcoholics now cluttering up the NHS. We drank like fish.

Almahart · 16/03/2025 19:38

Lovelyview · 16/03/2025 19:34

To be fair there'll be an awful lot of gen x alcoholics now cluttering up the NHS. We drank like fish.

So true. Also no age checks. Me and my mates could get our southern comfort and cokes in any pub bar one from the age of 15

Lovelyview · 16/03/2025 19:59

Chocolatestain · 16/03/2025 19:25

I often find myself trying to instil GenX values into DS (although I was born in 1969 I was an older mum so he’s only 12). The phrase ‘suck it up and crack on’, which I feel could be the battle cry for our generation, is frequently on my lips.

Me too! 'It's not for ever.' is my sage advice when times are tough. I'm just not sure my gen x values are a match for tik tok.