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Accent acquisition in young children

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argyllherewecome · 10/03/2025 10:56

I'm a teacher but have been off work sick so I've had loads of time to think (for a change!). Anyway, this is something that has fascinated me for ages and I'm sure there are posters here who know about this.
My school is fairly diverse. Most children with ESL parents come into school either with no English or basic words that have a distinct mother tongue accent. They lose this within several years usually, and by then they have a local accent.

I've noticed though some children do not adopt a local accent.
Irish Travellers: despite being born and raised here they nearly exclusively all have a very thick Irish accent, and this doesn't change over time. There are a few other children that have parents or a mother at least from different parts of the country, and they keep a very strong regional accent from them, which doesn't change much over time. This is an exception rather than a rule though.

Any language experts that can explain how this happens? I'm the embarrassing sort of person that goes somewhere for a few days and I pick up accents!

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argyllherewecome · 10/03/2025 13:17

sarah419 · 10/03/2025 13:15

In the case of Irish Traveller children specifically, their cultural and social framework often creates a sort of ‘linguistic bubble.’ Even if they attend school with children who have different accents, their social networks outside school — family gatherings, community events, etc. — heavily reinforce the Traveller accent, outweighing the influence of local peers.

I completely understand this, but I suppose I would expect the accent to soften slightly over time as they progress through school, but it really doesn't.

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niadainud · 10/03/2025 13:18

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:32

No, it’s highly subjective. Someone else’s accent is ‘thick’ to you. Your accent is equally ‘thick’ to other people. The late queen’s RP in her 21st birthday broadcast is more likely to be described as ‘cut glass’, but in fact is a ‘thick’ accent (all that yod -dropping, and non-rhotic pronunciation meaning ‘father’ and ‘farther’, ‘formerly’ and ‘formally’ are homonyms etc etc ), just a privileged one.

Subjective is not synonymous with "judgemental" used in a derogatory sense.

Scottishskifun · 10/03/2025 13:20

For us we have noticed with our DS's that it depends on where they are learning words to how it sounds. Both DH and I have Southern English accents and both DS's mostly sound like us despite being born and bred in Scotland. But DS1 reads out loud with a Scottish accent as hes learning to read in School. As soon as he stops reading out loud his accent switches back to sounding English.

I have no idea what his eventual accent will be. DS2 also sounds completely English.

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Rawnotblended · 10/03/2025 13:21

Theres A certain degree of how good the child is at “fitting in.” My observation is that the more socially agile the child, the more they can flip their accent/dialect.

One of my own does this - swaps to my and my parents’ dialect when he’s after something. The rest of the time he’s like Danny Dyer.

niadainud · 10/03/2025 13:22

I knew a girl whose accent completely changed when she spoke to her mother (rather than speaking to me).

Also two brothers who lived in France for several years. The older one had a French accent when speaking English but the younger one didn't, because of their respective ages when they moved to the UK.

Thursday5pmisginoclock · 10/03/2025 13:22

It’s funny and I am totally intrigued too. My son is in reception and learns the “a” phonic as “ah” sound (as in “c-a-t” ) but despite my northern accent (reading books to him every night and talking to him since birth etc) the local dialect is a lot posher and his accent has developed as per his peers and school teachers, so he pronounces words like “giraffe” with an “ar” not “ah” - I persistently correct that giraffe in phonics should be pronounced like an “ah” and that northern English is in fact phonetically correct but I am fighting a losing battle 😂

Sleepeazie · 10/03/2025 13:22

Sleepeazie · 10/03/2025 13:12

I’m not an ‘expert’ but did read English Language at uni, with modules on language acquisition and sociolinguistics.

There’s a few reasons:

  • There’s a critical period to become a native sounding speaker in a new language. It’s around pubery. So if someone’s 10 and had early puberty they’ll never pick up all the nuances, but someone who’s 12 and hasn’t - might
  • Some languages have features that we don’t (and vice versa) e.g Germans’ pronounce words like wine as vine. This is because their language doesn’t permit the ‘w’ sound either in word initial position or at all - I can’t remember which. Thai means some languages restrict perfect acquisition of English features and some support it
  • some Grammatical constructs are difficult to learn for some primary languages where they don’t exist and therefore get forgotten in the second language. This could be the tenses or with English articles etc
  • some countries prioritise English as a second language at school or as a language for social modality. Hence exposure already existed.
  • language is influenced most by family up until school age, then your peers’ throughout school followed by your work choices. Often meaning retirees will revert to a more colloquial form of speech. I haven’t studied this specifically, but in communities within communities (e.g Chinese in china town areas/travellers etc) it would make sense that the exposure to the mother tongue would hold more influence as the communities are so tight knit
HTH.

I apologise for my terrible grammar but it’s a quick brain dump on my lunch break, and I hope still reads okay.

Language can also be used to signify identity or membership of a group.

argyllherewecome · 10/03/2025 13:24

If it's normal/typical for a child to acquire the local accent (which from what I've seen it is) then surely it must be hard to keep up an accent that 1) others you from your peers and 2) your peer majority don't have

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tipsandtoes · 10/03/2025 13:24

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:08

‘Thick’ is an incredibly judgemental term. Perhaps your local accent sounds just as ‘thick’ to the Travellers? And, as a widely stigmatised ethnic group, I can’t imagine the children are mingling all that much with settled people out of school hours, so they’re less likely to be peer-influenced in terms of speech.

I think you've interpreted the word 'thick' incorrectly. Generally when people refer to a thick accent they mean a very strong accent.

A thick Scottish brogue or accent means it's very strong

Crackanut · 10/03/2025 13:25

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:45

Sigh. ‘Strong’ is subjective. And yes, I think ‘thick’ implies a kind of othering. No one describes the old-fashioned kind of RP as ‘thick’, despite it being a very strong accent indeed, because it was considered prestigious.

I think you made a mistake and thought OP meant thick as in stupid but you won't admit it.

MargolyesofBeelzebub · 10/03/2025 13:25

Kendodd · 10/03/2025 13:00

God has somebody been offered by the use of 'thick' to describe accents!
That really is scraping the bottom of the professionally offered barrel.

Quite - I wonder if the PP found pancake day triggering - after all, American pancake batter is often described as thicker than European. Or should I say more viscous lest I offend our neighbours from across the pond. 😂

Tootjaskoot · 10/03/2025 13:26

Do you mean Irish travellers with a first language other than English OP? Because if not, surely they don’t acquire an accented English in the same way that children who don’t have English in the home do…

greypillow · 10/03/2025 13:26

My DH and I have neutral English accents. Our DC were born in Wales. Our DC (10 and 12) have our accents; they haven’t taken on the accent of their school friends/ teachers etc at all!

Cluborange666 · 10/03/2025 13:27

‘Thick Irish accent’? And you call yourself a teacher? Shame on you.

DoYouReally · 10/03/2025 13:27

I think accents come down to three main things:

(1) Emersion - who you do the majority of talking with. It stands to reason that you will echo a lot of what you hear
(2) Musical Ear - sone people pick up accents easier than others
(3) Choice- some people deliberately alter their accent for a variety of reasons.

It really isn't that complex.

Tootjaskoot · 10/03/2025 13:28

greypillow · 10/03/2025 13:26

My DH and I have neutral English accents. Our DC were born in Wales. Our DC (10 and 12) have our accents; they haven’t taken on the accent of their school friends/ teachers etc at all!

Edited

No such thing as a neutral accent 😍

Kucinghitam · 10/03/2025 13:28

Interesting, OP. I'm from Malaysia, where in addition to various native languages, we have our own (thickly accented Grin) form of spoken English, a sort of creole. I moved to the UK at age 20 and quickly realised I had to "standardise" my English speech in order to be understood.

Several decades on, I am told that I sound almost fully RP but with a slight American twang and/or a tiny bit Scottish Confused I can sort of understand the American thing because we watched plenty of US TV as kids. The Scottish thing I have no idea.

When I speak to people from SE Asia, I fully revert to my original accent as if I'd never moved away.

greypillow · 10/03/2025 13:28

Tootjaskoot · 10/03/2025 13:28

No such thing as a neutral accent 😍

Well, not quite RP but ‘well spoken’, and people can’t place where we’re from.

Cluborange666 · 10/03/2025 13:29

MargolyesofBeelzebub · 10/03/2025 13:25

Quite - I wonder if the PP found pancake day triggering - after all, American pancake batter is often described as thicker than European. Or should I say more viscous lest I offend our neighbours from across the pond. 😂

Except it’s only used in connection to Irish accents and, considering that Ireland still has a smaller population than in Victorian times due to the English genocide, I would think that it requires a bit of sensitivity.

tipsandtoes · 10/03/2025 13:29

OP, there is an interesting conversation going about Asian American accents. Many Asian Americans, and I'm referring to the American usage of 'Asian', have a distinct American accent. Korean, Chinese and Japanese in particular. Not talking about immigrants. We are talking about first and second generation Americans. Studies have shown that people can usually identify Asian Americans by voice alone in the same way people can often identify black Americans by accent alone even if they are born and bred in the US

Cluborange666 · 10/03/2025 13:31

tipsandtoes · 10/03/2025 13:24

I think you've interpreted the word 'thick' incorrectly. Generally when people refer to a thick accent they mean a very strong accent.

A thick Scottish brogue or accent means it's very strong

Except we never hear of people saying ‘a thick RP accent’ or ‘a thick Surrey accent ‘, do we? Words come with baggage.

Rawnotblended · 10/03/2025 13:31

Cluborange666 · 10/03/2025 13:29

Except it’s only used in connection to Irish accents and, considering that Ireland still has a smaller population than in Victorian times due to the English genocide, I would think that it requires a bit of sensitivity.

Oh cop on. That’s simply not true. I have a) an Irish accent, and b) a first degree in language and linguistics. (TCD, as it happens.) And you’re talking out yer hole.

Polkadotbikinininii · 10/03/2025 13:31

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:08

‘Thick’ is an incredibly judgemental term. Perhaps your local accent sounds just as ‘thick’ to the Travellers? And, as a widely stigmatised ethnic group, I can’t imagine the children are mingling all that much with settled people out of school hours, so they’re less likely to be peer-influenced in terms of speech.

ETA for some reason, only the first page of comments was showing and I can see the discussion has moved on! 🤣 so I've not added anything worthwhile here.

In this context "thick" doesn't mean stupid. It means strong.
So OP is saying that they have a strong Irish accent.
It's a fairly common description of an accent and I'm sure no offence was meant.

Cluborange666 · 10/03/2025 13:33

Rawnotblended · 10/03/2025 13:31

Oh cop on. That’s simply not true. I have a) an Irish accent, and b) a first degree in language and linguistics. (TCD, as it happens.) And you’re talking out yer hole.

Oh? Actually I’m an English teacher, N.Irish, living in England, and with an MA in linguistics… Tell me the last time you heard someone refer to Camilla’s ‘thick’ RP accent. Or do you want to deny the Irish genocide?

MissyGirlie · 10/03/2025 13:33

Cluborange666 · 10/03/2025 13:29

Except it’s only used in connection to Irish accents and, considering that Ireland still has a smaller population than in Victorian times due to the English genocide, I would think that it requires a bit of sensitivity.

No it is not.
'Thick' is used of many accents.

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