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OneAmberFinch · 11/03/2025 15:13

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 15:06

If you are right, how come so many EHCP refusals are overturned on appeal?

Because for political reasons we've chosen, so far, to have an administrative/judicial system that takes these Articles extremely literally.

That is a political choice we have made and not a law of the universe.

It's quite an expensive political choice.

Bumpitybumper · 11/03/2025 15:14

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 14:59

Even taking your statistics at face value then 24% (i.e a QUARTER) of 'control' boys overlap with 17% of diagnosed boys.

17%? You assumed you could add those two figures together and get any kind of useful figure? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Tell me that you don't understand how statistics work without telling me.

I'm not being lectured about "bad science" by someone with such a poor grasp of basic stats.

Edited

I do not have access to the original study so could not see how the data has been split. As the graph showed a combined line for all diagnoses, I assumed that you had just split out that total into the different components of Asperger's and Autism and hence it could be totalled. I now understand from your post that they were shown as percentages related to each separate diagnosis. That absolutely wasn't clear from your post.

You keep believing though that this makes your little graph and stats more valid.

Bumpitybumper · 11/03/2025 15:19

OneAmberFinch · 11/03/2025 15:13

Because for political reasons we've chosen, so far, to have an administrative/judicial system that takes these Articles extremely literally.

That is a political choice we have made and not a law of the universe.

It's quite an expensive political choice.

Exactly this!
Look at how other countries and you will see that there is very strong precedent for the Articles being interpreted and applied very differently depending on political will and societal expectations. If these things change in the UK (and it looks like things are going that way) then we will see a very different system emergency and providing the reform isn't too extreme, then international law will not be used to stop the reform.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 15:37

OneAmberFinch · 11/03/2025 15:11

@selffellatingouroborosofhate I do agree with you about the triple lock. The pension system is unaffordable.

Removing the triple lock and letting the state pension slowly inflate away over time rather than removing it abruptly is actually probably one of the best things we can do.

I would definitely not throw the savings at funding the current EHCP education model though!

I would definitely not throw the savings at funding the current EHCP education model though!

The current model of mainstreaming kids who should never have been mainstreamed (thanks Blair) into schools that increasingly treat their kids as robots, punish neurodivergent behaviours such as failing to make eye contact, and punish the basic human kindness of helping a lost kid get to class, is absolutely broken and is guaranteed to result in more EHCPs as ND kids who could have coped in mainstream nineties schools struggle to cope in the modern military-like school environment.

The whole education system is broken.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 15:38

Bumpitybumper · 11/03/2025 15:14

I do not have access to the original study so could not see how the data has been split. As the graph showed a combined line for all diagnoses, I assumed that you had just split out that total into the different components of Asperger's and Autism and hence it could be totalled. I now understand from your post that they were shown as percentages related to each separate diagnosis. That absolutely wasn't clear from your post.

You keep believing though that this makes your little graph and stats more valid.

You have access. I linked it. It's a free PDF, you don't need institutional sign-on to see it.

Bumpitybumper · 11/03/2025 15:44

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 15:38

You have access. I linked it. It's a free PDF, you don't need institutional sign-on to see it.

I only have access to the preview. I have to sign in or pay for the full pdf.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 11/03/2025 16:00

BIossomtoes · 09/03/2025 16:32

This is a really appalling statistic.

This evidence includes statistics that 20 per cent of clinical work in the UK is thought to have no effect on outcomes, but costs the NHS billions.

I expect much of that is elderly and end of life care.

Bleeky · 11/03/2025 16:04

Shelby2010 · 09/03/2025 19:43

Part of the problem is the long, long wait for a child to be seen by an NHS ADHD diagnostic team. Especially if they are not causing too many problems at school.

My DD has recently had a private ADHD diagnosis after her previous teacher advised that it was likely that she had it. I have to say that it did feel like I was buying a diagnosis, especially with the invitation to pay significantly more money if we wanted medication.

I agree with an issue that a previous poster mentioned; I am concerned that the lack of thoroughness means that the possibility of another diagnosis (eg anxiety or personality disorder) have been missed. I’m not going to go into her symptoms, but there is obviously something going on and at least her (new) teacher will realise that she needs extra help not that she’s deliberately not paying attention. What else can I do? The ADHD assessment was a big stretch for us financially, we haven’t got infinite resources.

Do you, daughter or school notice any difference with medication? “True” adhd diagnosis often confirmed after trial of medication.

OneAmberFinch · 11/03/2025 16:17

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 15:37

I would definitely not throw the savings at funding the current EHCP education model though!

The current model of mainstreaming kids who should never have been mainstreamed (thanks Blair) into schools that increasingly treat their kids as robots, punish neurodivergent behaviours such as failing to make eye contact, and punish the basic human kindness of helping a lost kid get to class, is absolutely broken and is guaranteed to result in more EHCPs as ND kids who could have coped in mainstream nineties schools struggle to cope in the modern military-like school environment.

The whole education system is broken.

I agree actually - I would be happy to see quite a lot of reforms to the school system. I was educated overseas somewhere where there was a lot more variation and school choice and I find a lot of aspects of the system here quite odd. School ethos has a huge huge impact on the overall school experience, and different children will thrive in different settings, but here it seems that you only get that choice if you are very wealthy and can afford private school...

Shelby2010 · 11/03/2025 17:08

Bleeky · 11/03/2025 16:04

Do you, daughter or school notice any difference with medication? “True” adhd diagnosis often confirmed after trial of medication.

We haven’t got that far yet, the diagnosis was very recent. Also it’s next to impossible to get DD to take medication anyway, so I’m not sure what to do.

But I agree that it would also be useful diagnostically.

POSTC123 · 11/03/2025 17:14

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 14:26

The threshold is 26, which is in the middle of the graph and not where your yellow lines are!

Yes I think that’s point I’m trying to make. We are both talking about the same thing. Just you think it’s right that labelling that is ND. I’m saying I don’t think that’s necessarily correct.

But then I’m not a stats expert.

But then equally I could tell you day 1 they stopped trials for incidences of guillian barres on Covid vax that it was a bad idea to get Oxford if younger. Took the stats scientists a few years to figure that one out.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 18:30

Bumpitybumper · 11/03/2025 15:44

I only have access to the preview. I have to sign in or pay for the full pdf.

I must have a saved institutional sign-in. I'm sorry about that.

Bleeky · 11/03/2025 18:34

Shelby2010 · 11/03/2025 17:08

We haven’t got that far yet, the diagnosis was very recent. Also it’s next to impossible to get DD to take medication anyway, so I’m not sure what to do.

But I agree that it would also be useful diagnostically.

If you are in UK, you might be able to get GP to prescribe if you have a consultant prescribing. The wait is impossible on nhs for assessments and some areas are having to use private for assessment.

soupyspoon · 11/03/2025 18:36

AlertCat · 11/03/2025 08:25

Autism does exist. But are you saying that there is absolutely not a problem of over-diagnosing health issues including autism? Because that’s the point that’s arguable. There are vastly more kids (and adults) with diagnoses now than ever before- if each and every one of them is in need of a diagnosis and adjustments, is it not reasonable to ask (a) what is neurotypical and where does it become neurodivergence? and (b) why are there so many more people now who either have more difficulty with the world than people in previous generations did, or have more severe levels of need?

Those are questions that should be looked at simply so that we can (dream of) have a mainstream system that actually works for the maximum number of children and a specialist provision system that those who need it can access without the current years of trauma and struggle.

Exactly this and I posted somewhere earlier in the thread 'what is autism'.

Another poster completely misunderstood this and posted the criteria!

What we need to do as a society is consider whether that definition and criteria, which is simply put together by theory, its not tested by blood, DNA, x ray, brain scans, any other tangible test, is actually valid for the vast majority of what used to be called Aspergers or high functioning

Someone else put it more succinctly 'scatterbrained geminis'. The concept of a descriptor which could include all of us, all of our traits and personality quirks.

soupyspoon · 11/03/2025 18:42

Wildflowers99 · 11/03/2025 09:43

LAs can and do provide further funding when faced with enforcement action because LAs know lack funding/resources/staffing/other DC having EHCPs is not a lawful defence for breach of section 42 of the Children and Families Act 2014.

And as such they go bankrupt, leaving them less able to provide than ever.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/mar/03/a-ticking-time-bomb-the-neglected-crisis-of-send-education-in-england

And funding schmunding - where are the staff. We cant get teachers, doctors, social workers, care workers

The people just arent there. We cant magic them up.

StrivingForSleep · 11/03/2025 18:56

The people just arent there. We cant magic them up.

LAs often cite lack of funding, resources or staff as a reason why SEP in F of an EHCP can’t be provided. When enforcement action is pursued, it isn’t an actual barrier to the provision being provided. For example, with 1:1 detailed, specified and quantified in EHCPs, which is what was being discussed, with the right funding, potentially substantially more (higher wages, potentially much higher wages in line with the teaching MPS, attracts more applicants), and effort (LAs often only start taking parents seriously when they see parents know the law and will advocate and enforce DC’s rights) an appropriate appointment can and is made. That is because LAs know lack of funding, resources or staff is not a lawful excuse for breach of s42 of the CFA 2014 and JR will remedy the situation.

soupyspoon · 11/03/2025 19:01

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 10:20

I haven't said anywhere that every penny should go on SEND. I have said that cutting SEND hurts kids and suggested other places to make cuts.

Lying about what a poster has said is a form of personal attack.

Which kids though, because an argument is that mainsteam pupils are being let down by money pouring into SEN that isnt being poured into mainstream.

We could have more specialist school placement which I would argue for, but I cant tell you how many specialist schools have also come to the end with children placed with them and cant meet need either. Hugely costly bespoke arrangements are not benefiting 'kids', they are benefiting one child and I think the outcomes for those educational placements are not great.

Wildflowers99 · 11/03/2025 19:04

StrivingForSleep · 11/03/2025 18:56

The people just arent there. We cant magic them up.

LAs often cite lack of funding, resources or staff as a reason why SEP in F of an EHCP can’t be provided. When enforcement action is pursued, it isn’t an actual barrier to the provision being provided. For example, with 1:1 detailed, specified and quantified in EHCPs, which is what was being discussed, with the right funding, potentially substantially more (higher wages, potentially much higher wages in line with the teaching MPS, attracts more applicants), and effort (LAs often only start taking parents seriously when they see parents know the law and will advocate and enforce DC’s rights) an appropriate appointment can and is made. That is because LAs know lack of funding, resources or staff is not a lawful excuse for breach of s42 of the CFA 2014 and JR will remedy the situation.

The only reason it isn’t a barrier is because LAs will be forced to indebt themselves to provide it as they’ll be ordered to as a statutory duty. And what will this result in? Council tax rises and things like Safety Valve.

StrivingForSleep · 11/03/2025 19:05

None of that is the concern of the individual child, though.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 19:06

soupyspoon · 11/03/2025 18:36

Exactly this and I posted somewhere earlier in the thread 'what is autism'.

Another poster completely misunderstood this and posted the criteria!

What we need to do as a society is consider whether that definition and criteria, which is simply put together by theory, its not tested by blood, DNA, x ray, brain scans, any other tangible test, is actually valid for the vast majority of what used to be called Aspergers or high functioning

Someone else put it more succinctly 'scatterbrained geminis'. The concept of a descriptor which could include all of us, all of our traits and personality quirks.

Many conditions aren't tested by blood or any other falsifiable test. Are you going to claim that migraines, dysmenorrhea, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and deafness are somehow not worthy of being taken as seriously as broken bones and septicaemia? Are you going to cast doubt over their diagnostic criteria? Are you going to cut funding for mental health support services because the symptoms are all either self-reported or behaviours that could be faked? Will you stop free glasses for children because the kid could be lying to the optometrist about his blurred vision?

Wildflowers99 · 11/03/2025 19:07

OneAmberFinch · 11/03/2025 16:17

I agree actually - I would be happy to see quite a lot of reforms to the school system. I was educated overseas somewhere where there was a lot more variation and school choice and I find a lot of aspects of the system here quite odd. School ethos has a huge huge impact on the overall school experience, and different children will thrive in different settings, but here it seems that you only get that choice if you are very wealthy and can afford private school...

That’s because here the one-size-fits-all has been a knee jerk reaction to parents complaining about inequality and pigeonholing.

Think about it, years ago we had grammar schools, technical colleges, and kids could finish school at 16 to work if they chose. So many people complained about this model ‘keeping working class children down’ that they attempted to remedy it by giving all children an ‘equal chance’ by putting them all on the same path. Has it worked? Nope. Yet if they announced tomorrow that kids not suited to the current model of academia and exams would simply be put into colleges to learn how to be electricians or hairdressers, there would be howls of outrage at them ‘writing children off and putting a cap on what they can achieve’. They can’t win.

Wildflowers99 · 11/03/2025 19:09

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 19:06

Many conditions aren't tested by blood or any other falsifiable test. Are you going to claim that migraines, dysmenorrhea, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and deafness are somehow not worthy of being taken as seriously as broken bones and septicaemia? Are you going to cast doubt over their diagnostic criteria? Are you going to cut funding for mental health support services because the symptoms are all either self-reported or behaviours that could be faked? Will you stop free glasses for children because the kid could be lying to the optometrist about his blurred vision?

No but migraine sufferers all have the same
symptoms, unlike the nebulous symptoms of neurodiversity. Every single one has extreme head pain, that’s literally what a migraine is. Whereas ‘if you’ve met one autistic person, you’ve met one autistic person’.

Wildflowers99 · 11/03/2025 19:09

StrivingForSleep · 11/03/2025 19:05

None of that is the concern of the individual child, though.

Sadly it is as they are constrained by constraints.

Wildflowers99 · 11/03/2025 19:11

soupyspoon · 11/03/2025 19:01

Which kids though, because an argument is that mainsteam pupils are being let down by money pouring into SEN that isnt being poured into mainstream.

We could have more specialist school placement which I would argue for, but I cant tell you how many specialist schools have also come to the end with children placed with them and cant meet need either. Hugely costly bespoke arrangements are not benefiting 'kids', they are benefiting one child and I think the outcomes for those educational placements are not great.

So well put.

In my course of work I see the same thing again and again. Child does okay at school until some kind of anxious episode at secondary. They then receive a diagnosis of ASD/ADHD/anxiety and school refuse. They then spend the rest of their education hopping from one costly setting to another, and every time they say it’s unsuitable. These are places costing tens or hundreds of thousands a year for each child. I don’t know what more can be done for them, it seems a lost cause because there is no realistic solution.

The parents say they’ve been failed by the education system but how? They’ve had more than their fair share, have been offered several different places but because none of them offer exactly what they want, they say it’s unsuitable.

StrivingForSleep · 11/03/2025 19:14

It is not the individual child’s concern and thankfully the law disagrees with you.

Not everyone who suffers with migraines has extreme head pain. For example, those with silent migraines/migraine aura without headache.