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Does the vastness/ science of the universe scare you?

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CrazyOldMe · 06/03/2025 19:56

Black holes, comets, galaxies... it all makes my lil head hurt! The vastness of everything surrounding us is terrifying though!

At the same time, I love it! I want to know as much as my limits will allow me.

Does anyone understand how it all works? Or how a lay person can start to understand it?

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DappledThings · 06/03/2025 19:56

It doesn't scare me but it does fry my brain to try and comprehend it.

SabreIsMyFave · 06/03/2025 19:59

No, not at all. But it does fascinate me! Smile

MaryGreenhill · 06/03/2025 20:01

No l am oblivious to it tbh. I think my life has been so full with so many troubles that l have no time to think about things like that .

Ferrazzuoli · 06/03/2025 20:02

I find it kind of reassuring. To think of how minuscule all our stresses and worries are in the grand scheme of things.

JamesGetIn · 06/03/2025 20:05

Yes it does 😱

I started a book recently, basically a "space for dummies" type thing and although I'm fascinated, I kind of wish I could un-know the stuff I read.
It properly hurts my head and gives me proper jitters in my stomach when I think about it for too long. And I think about it a lot! As in daily, and many times a day.
It's just the not knowing what the hell it all actually is, and that I'll definitely, and mankind, possibly will never know.

JamesGetIn · 06/03/2025 20:06

Ferrazzuoli · 06/03/2025 20:02

I find it kind of reassuring. To think of how minuscule all our stresses and worries are in the grand scheme of things.

Yes despite it scaring me as per my post, I also resonate with this.

SilverGlitterBaubles · 06/03/2025 20:07

DappledThings · 06/03/2025 19:56

It doesn't scare me but it does fry my brain to try and comprehend it.

This 💯 my DH is fascinated by it all but for me it is just too much.

ladymalfoy45 · 06/03/2025 20:13

I love it. I don't understand a lot of it but The Infinite Monkey Cage helps a bit.
I love the way my brain just says ' hang on ,let's try to understand ' .
I say to my brain 'Impulse power only ' before it's goes to warp speed. And the it goes to warp speed and I'm thinking of the glorious vast distances and stars and planets and pulsars and plasma clouds.

Burgerqueenbee · 06/03/2025 20:15

OP I would recommend watching the TV series Cosmos with Carl Sagan, it is a bit old now but still worth watching and will explain it all in an easy but non patronising way. They remade it more recently but I still prefer the old version.

escapefortheday · 06/03/2025 20:15

I find it frightening.

tarheelbaby · 06/03/2025 20:17

Not as much as the power of the sea. The force of water is tremedous. Waves slam down and crush all kinds of things. The current/tide will drag you out and you will drown. Compared to dry land, the sea is terrifyingly immense.

The seas are huge and full of dangerous intelligent and unusual creatures: whales, sharks, dolphins, jelly fish, electric eels to name a few.

The universe is so far out there (yeah, I know, pun alert) that it's interesting but so far away it's not a worry and no little green men have appeared so far.

Mischance · 06/03/2025 20:19

To be honest I found it bizarrely comforting when my husband died. I felt that his atoms had returned to this wonderful cosmic soup.

It is daunting to contemplate. But I think there are lots of aspects of life where we need to "embrace the not knowing" - and that is OK by me.

NotVeryFunny · 06/03/2025 20:24

Yes and yes. I find it fascinating, can't comprehend the vastness of it, but also a bit terrifying that we seem to be a very small habitable dot floating in a vast very inhospitable and uninhabitable universe.

Saz12 · 06/03/2025 20:37

I find it frightening. Can't explain why, but proper, sicky-and-shaky, breathless fear.

pourthegin · 06/03/2025 20:40

Yes, absolutely. Where does it end? And what's at the end? If I think about it at night it can keep me awake for hours.

GretchenWienersHair · 06/03/2025 20:42

No, it intrigues me.

JackJarvisEsq · 06/03/2025 20:45

pourthegin · 06/03/2025 20:40

Yes, absolutely. Where does it end? And what's at the end? If I think about it at night it can keep me awake for hours.

This is what gets me. How can there be an end? Is there a wall up? If so then surely there must be something behind that “wall”

mind boggles

cakeorwine · 06/03/2025 20:46

You need to get some perspective

“The Total Perspective Vortex derives its picture of the whole Universe on the principle of extrapolated matter analyses.

To explain — since every piece of matter in the Universe is in some way affected by every other piece of matter in the Universe, it is in theory possible to extrapolate the whole of creation — every sun, every planet, their orbits, their composition and their economic and social history from, say, one small piece of fairy cake.

The man who invented the Total Perspective Vortex did so basically in order to annoy his wife.

Trin Tragula — for that was his name — was a dreamer, a thinker, a speculative philosopher or, as his wife would have it, an idiot.

And she would nag him incessantly about the utterly inordinate amount of time he spent staring out into space, or mulling over the mechanics of safety pins, or doing spectrographic analyses of pieces of fairy cake.

“Have some sense of proportion!” she would say, sometimes as often as thirty-eight times in a single day.

And so he built the Total Perspective Vortex — just to show her.

And into one end he plugged the whole of reality as extrapolated from a piece of fairy cake, and into the other end he plugged his wife: so that when he turned it on she saw in one instant the whole infinity of creation and herself in relation to it.

To Trin Tragula’s horror, the shock completely annihilated her brain; but to his satisfaction he realized that he had proved conclusively that if life is going to exist in a Universe of this size, then the one thing it cannot afford to have is a sense of proportion.”

*From the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy

The universe is massive. And we are only here for a small amount of that time.

banhmi · 06/03/2025 20:49

Space doesn't scare me. Knowing we're completely trashing our only habitable home scares me (and no Musk I don't want to move to Mars).

Sinkintotheswamp · 06/03/2025 20:50

Yes. Almost to wanting to gasp with fear.

I watched the sun rise the other week. Then I went all peculiar realising it wasn't rising, we are spinning. Got back into bed with a cup of tea after that.

waltzingparrot · 06/03/2025 21:00

Yes it frightens the life out of me. If I think about it too long, I get shaky so I try and slap myself down quickly now if Space stuff starts spinning in my brain. I switch off Brian Cox if he pops up too.

Laiste · 06/03/2025 21:04

I find 'size' amazing.
We have things so tiny we can't see them with our naked eye.
And we have planets out there which dwarf our sun (and our sun dwarfs us).

The coldness of space is frightening. Nothing to breathe and no sound.

The fact that for an outside observer we are a water planet. A planet mostly of water with lovely water creatures. It also has bits of land with hundreds of ape things living on it at the moment.

Twice now i have tried to properly read and understand Steven Hawking's book A Brief History of Time. You need to absorb each chapter before moving on otherwise you won't understand the next one. Both times now my brain has begun to close down at event horizons and then shrivelled up somewhere in the middle of the string theory bit. Talking about how the universe could be donut shaped ... I'll probably give it a 3rd go because i'd LOVE to understand more, but don't hold out much hope for myself 😂

Pedallleur · 06/03/2025 21:05

Whenever I watch Star Trek I think about how they travel the vastness at up to 8x light speed and meet new life/civilisations. It would be amazing to live that life and see everything in the cosmos and how the science works or doesn't!! Do the laws of physics and science remain the same? But then we supposedly know more about space than our ocean depths soaybe that's more scary

lostintherainyday · 06/03/2025 21:07

I love it!

Try Kurzgesagt on YouTube. Intended for kids but really interesting and well done.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 06/03/2025 21:08

I remember watching the start of Moonraker as a kid where the astronauts tether gets cut by the bigger space ship swallowing the little one up. And just thinking he'll just die and float in the cold dark vastness of space all alone forever.

Still scares the fucking shit out of me now Confused

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