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Have you got a problem you are ignoring at the moment?

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OllyGibbs · 04/03/2025 20:37

My car has an intermittent light that keeps coming on. I know I should take it to the garage but the car itself was a very big indulgence and has been nothing but trouble since I got it.
Anyone else turning a blind eye?

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YourSnugHazelTraybake · 05/03/2025 00:36

Several. Having to look for a new job unexpectedly, am completely skint, got two children's birthdays this month, behind on all bills due to son who lives with me being made redundant right before Christmas. Can't get a dentist and have lost several teeth, can't afford private. And that's just the surface. Life's just a bit shit right now and I'm ignoring most of it because there's nothing I can do about it.

myusernamewastakenbyme · 05/03/2025 06:12

I ignored a leak on my extension roof for a few weeks but finally got it looked at yesterday...£600 or £700 ouch..
I also have a wobbly tooth im ignoring as i dont have a dentist.
I also should have made a will when i got divorced years ago...I finally got round to that last December.
I get there in the end lol.

RickiRaccoon · 05/03/2025 06:18

Pain in back tooth. I just can't afford it right now.

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menopausalfart · 04/03/2025 23:00

My garden. I can't stand the thought of going out there.

Ditto

I feel very 'proud' that yesterday I went into said garden and made a start on the brambles and basically filled the green wheelie bin. Now if I could just keep that up every 2 weeks till October...

Also need to tackle creeping buttercup - urgh

Scirocco · 05/03/2025 06:26

I can't even begin to face unpacking how I'm affected by recent events, so I'm just shoving it all in a box in my brain and trying to suppress it enough to get through the days, while drinking tons of caffeine.

Also, my en suite needs re-decorating. It's embarrassingly old now - the walls need re-doing and realistically the entire shower unit needs ripped out and replaced.

HelenWheels · 05/03/2025 06:28

my car has a light also
my hair needs sorting before a family wedding

HelenWheels · 05/03/2025 06:29

i have a shrub to plant, i have dug a hole

Onemoret1me · 05/03/2025 06:31

Too many to list!

I can no longer log onto my email account. I don’t know how to fix it. I’ve had this email account t for approx 35 years. I can’t even think where to start with contacting people to inform them of my new email address. I really must tell the schools as a start

MyJoyousKoala · 05/03/2025 07:04

Odd mole that appeared about 6 months ago and sometimes bleeds, work and life are so busy that I haven’t done anything about it. Hoping that writing this will finally make me take some action!

Lillygolightly · 05/03/2025 07:13

Moved home the day before lockdown. The gas and electricity supplier was literally unreachable, needed to set up an account/do meter readings etc. Twice I managed to speak to a human but each time they were in the wrong department but couldn’t transfer me!!! But would promise a call back from the right department, that would never happen! This went on for over a year! I put in a complaint to the energy ombudsman and got offered a pitiful £50 compensation. They then did set up the account but in the wrong details (given to them numerous times by that point) so they then wouldn’t speak to me on the phone as I wasn’t passing security so I STILL couldn’t sort anything out! What a shit show!!

I then lost my little boy during pregnancy and completely lost the ability to deal with it any longer. I was in the depths of grief and loss.

It is still ongoing and they say we owe tens of thousands at this point. It’s so stressful I seem to have developed some kind of PTSD around it now. I just cannot deal with it or sort it, and of course I’m completely trapped as can’t leave the provider due to the debt. It literally keeps me awake at night and I worry about it so much. It’s become such a huge problem I don’t know what to do anymore and I know it’s not going away and only getting worse.

I feel so aggrieved that I tried very hard to sort this out, I rang, emailed, tweeted them you name it, I did it. Now I have this huge debt because they wouldn’t set up the account, so couldn’t choose a tariff etc have been charged all this energy at the highest rate on estimated readings. Just seems so unfair and they were so utterly shit, and I am paying the price literally, emotionally, mentally. I have cried on the phone to them multiple times, they have bloody broken me!

Another one is a cracked or failed crown, it’s not painful but I know I’ll need to get it sorted at some point, but am dreading how hideously expensive that will be.

Neededa · 05/03/2025 07:22

Onemoret1me · 05/03/2025 06:31

Too many to list!

I can no longer log onto my email account. I don’t know how to fix it. I’ve had this email account t for approx 35 years. I can’t even think where to start with contacting people to inform them of my new email address. I really must tell the schools as a start

If this is a Hotmail/Outlook address there was an outage at the weekend and even when patched many of us couldn’t reset for a couple of days. You might find it ok now.

Thesnoozingsighthound · 05/03/2025 07:25

My pension.
My gutters.
The sharp pains in my hand and arm.

Natsku · 05/03/2025 07:27

I have to send my yearly update to the authorities to prove I'm keeping my DD's inheritance safe (she inherited 50k when her dad died a few years ago and in my country that means I have to keep it safe until she's of age, and submit yearly reports to show that I'm keeping it safe) and I'm putting it off because it's just a hassle filling out the forms and getting bank statements. I have until the end of the month so I can ignore it a little longer.

Also been ignoring the mole on my back that I think may have changed lately so probably need to get it checked by a doctor but yesterday I got a text telling me I have an occupational health check up soon so maybe I can deal with it there.

HelpMeGetThrough · 05/03/2025 07:33

I've got to rebuild at least half our fence that storm Christ knows what blew down. It's basically a build it from scratch job.

I've been putting it off because the weather has been crap. It's better now, so I've got to get my arse in gear and get the wood and build it.

After that, the joys if decorating bedrooms and then re-paper the lounge and dining room.

theressomanytinafeysicouldbe · 05/03/2025 07:34

My whole life is a head in the sand moment for me at the moment, struggling to put one foot in front of the other to be perfectly honest, keep thinking of the phrase 'run the dishwasher twice' but i am the dishwasher 😭

HelpMeGetThrough · 05/03/2025 07:36

Oh and also forgot to add, new internal door's between hallway and lounge and dining room and kitchen.

Feels like I'm rebuilding the bloody house!!

In fairness, I'm going to get someone in to hang the doors.

Singleaftermarriage · 05/03/2025 07:37

My bedroom window won't open....

GrandHighPoohbah · 05/03/2025 07:53

One of our toilets has a broken flush. We've made a workaround but it's only a matter of time before it breaks completely. I am pretending it still works fine.

TheDogsMother · 05/03/2025 07:57

Booking a smart meter installation as they now contacting me with increasing regularity. Booking a blood test at the GPs.

TheDork · 05/03/2025 08:02

FlatWhite5 · 04/03/2025 21:18

Yep - had a filling in a tooth a few months ago but it’s started niggling. Turning a blind eye and just avoiding chewing on that side as the dentist said that the only other options would be root canal or extraction - no thanks!!

I'm here 2 weeks after going for the extraction option. My dentist said it was the only certain way to stop the problem recurring because the pain was due to the nerve dying and she'd filled it all she could.

In 6 months I can have a false tooth screwed in so I have an option left. But for £2000 I'm going to see how I feel at that point as it's a back tooth and doesn't show.
Extraction was totally painless but I'm still being very careful about what I'm eating because it's not fully healed yet.

Joterrin · 05/03/2025 08:43

Dealing with my blood tests results which show I have chronic anaemia.
Phoning my dad to ask to borrow more money as my car is in the garage & I’ve not been back at work long enough.
Need to finish the housing application so we have somewhere to live when we’re evicted.

Start packing up the house & taking a desk off the wall.

Do some meal planning.

YourSnugHazelTraybake · 05/03/2025 09:05

Onemoret1me · 05/03/2025 06:31

Too many to list!

I can no longer log onto my email account. I don’t know how to fix it. I’ve had this email account t for approx 35 years. I can’t even think where to start with contacting people to inform them of my new email address. I really must tell the schools as a start

Is this a long term issue or was it just over last weekend? Hotmail had a major issue over the weekend and many people couldn't access their emails, it is now sorted so if you were one of those affected you might now be able to access it. Hotmail also includes live and outlook among others.

Haemagoblin · 05/03/2025 09:13

I have decided to ignore the fact me and DP have fallen out.

It's not the first time and it's ALWAYS me who initiates The Talk and does all the emotional heavy lifting to sort out the issues and get us back to normal. I am SICK of it and this time I'm just going to ignore it. If he is bothered by me pleasing myself and doing what makes me happy of an evening rather than pandering to him, he can bloody pander to me for a change, be the one to ask me what's wrong and spend hours trying to reach reconciliation while I sit there scowling and saying 'dunno'.

I am concentrating on being light, and civil, and utterly practical when we communicate, and not even slightly trying to seek him out or draw him out or 'sort it out'. I am utterly blanking his sulking, stroppiness and hangdog expression. I am DONE being the emotional interpreter. If he has a problem he can use his bloody words.

CrushingOnRubies · 05/03/2025 09:34

CrushingOnRubies · 04/03/2025 22:22

Phone contract is up. Don't whether to stick - keep phone getting ropey condom only. Stay - stay with mobile company get new phone and contact. Twist get new phone outright and sim only

Oh bloody hell 😂 contract only

Stupid phone

Simplegazette · 05/03/2025 10:51

After many years of putting it off... today I will pay for incomplete national insurance years to get my state pension up - luckily I saw the announcement that in about a months time some gaps won't be able to be filled as the government is cutting down the time limit on when you can do this - so it's now or never for me.