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Annaannaannab · 2025-02-28T22:05:29+00:00

I have seen those necklaces / bracelets where you peer into it and can see a photo , or shine a light into it and it projects it. I would like to get my husband one - but I would like it to have a bit of a naughty photo of myself in . I think it would be funny and he would love to wear it knowing he can take a peek and see it 😂 and also knowing that’s what is in it when it just looks like a normal bracelet . But - this would obviously mean me sending that photo to a company , and that scares me! Has anyone done anything like it ? Is there a safe site that does that ? It wouldn’t have my face in - I am not putting that out there … Or is this a really silly idea ?!

BatchCookBabe · 01/03/2025 12:13

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 07:45

Are you old enough to be married OP?

Why would any one think this is any thing other than absolutely naff is beyond me.

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This. ^ Agree with your posts @Pleaseshowmehow It is incredibly naff. OP reminds me of Lynne, from the comic strip couple 'George and Lynne' from the Sun newspaper (from the 1970s and 1980s.) 😂

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 12:14

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 11:30

She put a ? in the title of her thread. So she was asking for an opinion.
If she is looking for like minded people who also want to " role olay" "spice up" their sex life, or send " naughty " pictures why didn't she put this in the Sex topic.
She will get lots of enthusiastic advice and encouragement ther from.like minded people.
As it is she posted this in Chat. Note it's not "Sex Chat".
And I have a right to post my opinion on a public forum.

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Yes an opinion on whether it was safe . Not an opinion about me for wanting to do it .

Just because it’s not your cup of tea , doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 12:15

BatchCookBabe · 01/03/2025 12:13

This. ^ Agree with your posts @Pleaseshowmehow It is incredibly naff. OP reminds me of Lynne, from the comic strip couple 'George and Lynne' from the Sun newspaper (from the 1970s and 1980s.) 😂

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or maybe it’s your age ?

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JMSA · 01/03/2025 12:16

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 07:45

Are you old enough to be married OP?

Why would any one think this is any thing other than absolutely naff is beyond me.

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Oh, do shut up.

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 12:16

CalicoPusscat · 01/03/2025 04:16

Could you perhaps try a gorgeous silk nightdress instead? Babydoll? Or corset and shorts? I think I'd be unhappy with images in my bra and pants.

This is pretty much what it is …

to be crude I don’t have my vag and my boobs out ! 😂

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Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 12:44

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 11:30

She put a ? in the title of her thread. So she was asking for an opinion.
If she is looking for like minded people who also want to " role olay" "spice up" their sex life, or send " naughty " pictures why didn't she put this in the Sex topic.
She will get lots of enthusiastic advice and encouragement ther from.like minded people.
As it is she posted this in Chat. Note it's not "Sex Chat".
And I have a right to post my opinion on a public forum.

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As much as she has a right to do what she likes with the photo.

She asked about whether it was safe and as there's no face and she isn't naked, if she wants to, why not.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 12:50

Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 12:15

or maybe it’s your age ?

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😂😂, honestly, you'd think you'd asked to put a nude pic on his work lanyard OP.

No face, no nudes, anyone would need to know it's that type of necklace to even be looking.

Surprised no one has said LTB, how dare you want to do something fun for your marriage. 😂.

kittyycatt · 01/03/2025 13:06

They are so difficult to see! I ordered 2 at Christmas for gifts and was so disappointed. The hole is so tiny, my eyelashes kept getting in the way. Also using it as a projection was difficult! Waste of money :(

PansyPolly · 01/03/2025 13:33

But here it is yet another woman playing into the male viewpoint that their bodies are all that women are useful for. In this case even her face doesn't even matter. No doubt he can fantasise imagining whatever face he likes

Say what?!

Clearly OP wants to leave her face out for an additional level of security on a photo she is sending to a third party over the internet. Nothing to do with “bodies being all women are useful for”

And if her DH wants to find a faceless body to fantasise about, they are all over the internet and a bit easier than squinting at some jewellery. This is just a fun secret between a couple, like going commando to the cinema or something.

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 13:44

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 12:50

😂😂, honestly, you'd think you'd asked to put a nude pic on his work lanyard OP.

No face, no nudes, anyone would need to know it's that type of necklace to even be looking.

Surprised no one has said LTB, how dare you want to do something fun for your marriage. 😂.

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I know what a terrible example I am for women everywhere ! 😂

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 13:45

PansyPolly · 01/03/2025 13:33

But here it is yet another woman playing into the male viewpoint that their bodies are all that women are useful for. In this case even her face doesn't even matter. No doubt he can fantasise imagining whatever face he likes

Say what?!

Clearly OP wants to leave her face out for an additional level of security on a photo she is sending to a third party over the internet. Nothing to do with “bodies being all women are useful for”

And if her DH wants to find a faceless body to fantasise about, they are all over the internet and a bit easier than squinting at some jewellery. This is just a fun secret between a couple, like going commando to the cinema or something.

Thank you! This is exactly what it is - a bit of fun ! I’m not leaving my face out because he doesn’t care about it , it’s exactly like you say - security !

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 13:46

kittyycatt · 01/03/2025 13:06

They are so difficult to see! I ordered 2 at Christmas for gifts and was so disappointed. The hole is so tiny, my eyelashes kept getting in the way. Also using it as a projection was difficult! Waste of money :(

You’re not the first to say that so I might end up leaving it for that reason! X

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Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 13:47

Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 12:14

Yes an opinion on whether it was safe . Not an opinion about me for wanting to do it .

Just because it’s not your cup of tea , doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

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I didn't say it was wrong.
I think it's just so tacky.
And I don't understand why anyone would disrespect themselves by reducing themselves to a faceless body to attempt to titillate a man.

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 13:50

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 10:42

The very idea of a " naughty" gift is just absolutely cringeworthy and it's hard to imagine someone who considers themselves old enough to take marriage vows would be talking like a headline from The Sun or Daily Star .
I presume your DH married you because he loves the whole you: personality and physical. Why would having an image of your headless torso in some sort of sexual pose presented in a piece of jewellry enhance your relationship with him?

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I am not doing it to enhance my relationship , I don’t need to .

why is the idea of a naught gift cringeworthy? He’s my husband - he’s attracted to me .. we have sex ( shock , horror ! ) .. he enjoys seeing me in lingerie.. I think knowing he has a photo of me on a piece of jewellery would be something that would make him smile when he looked at it …. We have a healthy relationship, why on earth is it cringeworthy?

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 14:15

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 13:47

I didn't say it was wrong.
I think it's just so tacky.
And I don't understand why anyone would disrespect themselves by reducing themselves to a faceless body to attempt to titillate a man.

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Your way of looking at it is so distorted .

Why does something that a woman wants to do seen as disrespecting herself ?

I have always suffered with really low self confidence and hated my body - for years and years . My husband changed that and made me actually like myself , enough to take photos of myself and like them enough to want him to have them and look at them whenever he wants . Yet you have reduced that to me disrespecting myself just to please him .

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MissFenellaPrism · 01/03/2025 14:17

TheresaMayBuff · 28/02/2025 22:29

Farage got one of me running nude through some wheat - I say make that wrist Strong and Stable!

😂I saw him in Poundland, he was still wearing it

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 14:21

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 11:05

I clicked on the title because I didn't know what the thread was about.: it could have been some OW giving a gift to OP's H and calling it a " naughty" gift and she was upset. It could have been someone also thinking that the idea of " naughty " gifts are naff.
You don't know until you read the thread.

But here it is yet another woman playing into the male viewpoint that their bodies are all that women are useful for. In this case even her face doesn't even matter. No doubt he can fantasise imagining whatever face he likes.

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If he wants to fantasise about someone else there are plenty of images readily available out there !

I am not playing in to any male viewpoint and I do not believe that my body is all I am good for - I just happen to think it’s normal for my husband to be attracted to me and understand that him being turned on by my body doesn’t automatically mean he doesn’t respect me and think that is all I’m good for .

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Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 14:24

Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 14:15

Your way of looking at it is so distorted .

Why does something that a woman wants to do seen as disrespecting herself ?

I have always suffered with really low self confidence and hated my body - for years and years . My husband changed that and made me actually like myself , enough to take photos of myself and like them enough to want him to have them and look at them whenever he wants . Yet you have reduced that to me disrespecting myself just to please him .

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I'm really pleased you are now happy and confident with your body.

It sounds quite self obsessed though that you now feel the need to keep photographing it.

And why do you need a man's approval of it: isn't it enough that you like your body without having to have male approval ?

And does he not see your body when he is at home with you? Does he need to get photos of your body out when he is at work to remind himself? Or perhaps when he's down the pub with his pals?
Does he have memory problems and can't remember what you look like unless you are stood infront of him or he is looking at a photo of you?

MissFenellaPrism · 01/03/2025 14:32

😂,
😂

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 14:43

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 14:24

I'm really pleased you are now happy and confident with your body.

It sounds quite self obsessed though that you now feel the need to keep photographing it.

And why do you need a man's approval of it: isn't it enough that you like your body without having to have male approval ?

And does he not see your body when he is at home with you? Does he need to get photos of your body out when he is at work to remind himself? Or perhaps when he's down the pub with his pals?
Does he have memory problems and can't remember what you look like unless you are stood infront of him or he is looking at a photo of you?

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Oh wow so first I’m disrespect myself , now I’m self obsessed ?

I do not “ keep photographing it”

I do not need his approval , I wasn’t planning on giving him a feedback form with it .

It really isn’t that deep.

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Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 15:23

keep photographing it.... 🤣🤣🤣

More like being obsessed by a thread that doesn't interest you.

sageforthevibes · 01/03/2025 15:30

I have one of these on a bracelet. "Oh wow, I've seen those advertised online, are they any good?" Said a friend. "Can I have a look?"

"Of course!"

And she had a peek through it at the lovely photo of me and my husband and son.

If you're happy with the risk of someone asking to look at it and him scrabbling to explain why the answer is no....

Go for it.

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 16:05

sageforthevibes · 01/03/2025 15:30

I have one of these on a bracelet. "Oh wow, I've seen those advertised online, are they any good?" Said a friend. "Can I have a look?"

"Of course!"

And she had a peek through it at the lovely photo of me and my husband and son.

If you're happy with the risk of someone asking to look at it and him scrabbling to explain why the answer is no....

Go for it.

Oh he’s not the type to be embarrassed and scrabble for an answer - he would just say no 😂

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Annaannaannab · 02/03/2025 07:49

Well, thanks for all the advice - and entertainment!

I have ordered it !

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ssd · 02/03/2025 08:04

LizTruss · 28/02/2025 22:21

I sort of did this, but I sent a picture of a lettuce with the outer leaves removed...

A lettuce???