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Naughty gift for husband - risky ?

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Annaannaannab · 28/02/2025 22:05

I have seen those necklaces / bracelets where you peer into it and can see a photo , or shine a light into it and it projects it.

I would like to get my husband one - but I would like it to have a bit of a naughty photo of myself in . I think it would be funny and he would love to wear it knowing he can take a peek and see it 😂 and also knowing that’s what is in it when it just looks like a normal bracelet .

But - this would obviously mean me sending that photo to a company , and that scares me!

Has anyone done anything like it ? Is there a safe site that does that ?

It wouldn’t have my face in - I am not putting that out there …

Or is this a really silly idea ?!

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Annaannaannab · 28/02/2025 23:50

Pinkdreams · 28/02/2025 22:52

I would do it, ok some company has your photo, firstly they aren't allowed to use it/share it, secondly they wouldn't want to, people who do that care about high profile/celebrities, not any old Larry

True . I’m pretty certain no one would be really interested in it other than DH 😂

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Everything0Everywhere · 28/02/2025 23:50

Throw caution to the wind & go for it!

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Annaannaannab · 28/02/2025 23:50

strawlight · 28/02/2025 22:51

I thought you wrote “those necklaces / bracelets where you pee into it” and was equally bemused and disgusted.

😂 now that’s an altogether different naughty gift 🤢

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ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 01/03/2025 00:16

AllTheBestUsernamesHaveBeenTaken · 28/02/2025 22:59

@CalicoPusscat My thoughts exactly 😂

I think @TheresaMayBuff is joking.

mjf981 · 01/03/2025 03:22

It would be a no from me, seems very naff and silly. Sorry OP.

But, to each their own - if it turns you both on then go for it. Life's too short.

Neverenoughbiscuits · 01/03/2025 04:07

So I read the OP as you "pee" into it. Thought the responses were quite tame until I realised.

Just realised someone else did too!

CalicoPusscat · 01/03/2025 04:16

Could you perhaps try a gorgeous silk nightdress instead? Babydoll? Or corset and shorts? I think I'd be unhappy with images in my bra and pants.

BraverThanTheyThink · 01/03/2025 04:19

If there's no face showing, why would the company receiving the photo assume it was a photo of the person requesting it to be made into a bracelet?
The image potentially could be anybody.

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 07:45

Are you old enough to be married OP?

Why would any one think this is any thing other than absolutely naff is beyond me.

StarlightLady · 01/03/2025 07:46

lt depends how concerned you would be if others saw it. We are not just talking about trust, but about a potential hacking risk.

l’ve been photographed nude and had pictures painted nude, but l would hesitate with this. Purely because they have your personal data including bank details and your picture.

Willow12345 · 01/03/2025 07:54

Absolutely do it OP.
It sounds like a sexy, fun surprise for your DH and the company really won't care - like a PP said, they'll have seen many similar.

And I have enjoyed some of the responses on this thread ... 😊

NaturalBlondeYeahRight · 01/03/2025 07:58

I'm going to come from a different angle, I got one for a friend after she lost her DM. None of us could see a bloody thing! Potentially we had used a rubbish company online but we couldn't see the image.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 08:58

Annaannaannab · 28/02/2025 23:49

Everything would definitely be covered … just not too much 😂

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Oh, I thought it was a nude shot.

In that case, go for it, especially as your face won't be shown either.

The person/machine processing the photo won't have your bank details.

And if they do, there's data protection.

Could be someone who's ordered it for a friend and sent it to their address, could be a random pic not necessarily yours, could be a joke, could be a secret shopper testing their systems etc.

Address it to Anna Anna ir such at your address if it makes you feel better, but honestly they won't care or look too much even.
They want to process all orders as quickly as possible and go home.

No face, everything covered, no problem.

I'd do it OP. Throw caution to the wind.

OrlandointheWilderness · 01/03/2025 09:03

Oh do it OP! It's such a lovely idea I'd definitely consider it for my DP, I've never even heard of this type of jewellery.

Fawn87 · 01/03/2025 09:06

What are these called? I can't picture what they would be like. I googled it and this thread was all that came up.

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 01/03/2025 09:09

It's the bracelet/necklace part I'd question. Is he a jewellery kind of a man? I can't imagine what they look like, but they must have some kind of charm or locket which makes me think they're probably not to every man's taste.

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 10:26

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 07:45

Are you old enough to be married OP?

Why would any one think this is any thing other than absolutely naff is beyond me.

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What a weird reaction. You don’t like the idea, therefore I must be young and naive ?

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 10:27

Fawn87 · 01/03/2025 09:06

What are these called? I can't picture what they would be like. I googled it and this thread was all that came up.

One website is love jewellery I think . You can get different ones and you have to really peer into them by the looks of it to be able to see the image

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Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 10:27

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 01/03/2025 09:09

It's the bracelet/necklace part I'd question. Is he a jewellery kind of a man? I can't imagine what they look like, but they must have some kind of charm or locket which makes me think they're probably not to every man's taste.

Yes he would wear it x

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Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 10:42

Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 10:26

What a weird reaction. You don’t like the idea, therefore I must be young and naive ?

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The very idea of a " naughty" gift is just absolutely cringeworthy and it's hard to imagine someone who considers themselves old enough to take marriage vows would be talking like a headline from The Sun or Daily Star .
I presume your DH married you because he loves the whole you: personality and physical. Why would having an image of your headless torso in some sort of sexual pose presented in a piece of jewellry enhance your relationship with him?

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 10:48

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 10:42

The very idea of a " naughty" gift is just absolutely cringeworthy and it's hard to imagine someone who considers themselves old enough to take marriage vows would be talking like a headline from The Sun or Daily Star .
I presume your DH married you because he loves the whole you: personality and physical. Why would having an image of your headless torso in some sort of sexual pose presented in a piece of jewellry enhance your relationship with him?

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It's in the title, why click on it if its not your thing?

People are different, surely you know that.
Who says we all have to think or feel the same way.

Never heard of role play, spicing things up or whatever rocks peoples boats?

You don't like it, don't do it, doesn't mean no one else should.

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 11:05

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 10:48

It's in the title, why click on it if its not your thing?

People are different, surely you know that.
Who says we all have to think or feel the same way.

Never heard of role play, spicing things up or whatever rocks peoples boats?

You don't like it, don't do it, doesn't mean no one else should.

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I clicked on the title because I didn't know what the thread was about.: it could have been some OW giving a gift to OP's H and calling it a " naughty" gift and she was upset. It could have been someone also thinking that the idea of " naughty " gifts are naff.
You don't know until you read the thread.

But here it is yet another woman playing into the male viewpoint that their bodies are all that women are useful for. In this case even her face doesn't even matter. No doubt he can fantasise imagining whatever face he likes.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 11:19

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 11:05

I clicked on the title because I didn't know what the thread was about.: it could have been some OW giving a gift to OP's H and calling it a " naughty" gift and she was upset. It could have been someone also thinking that the idea of " naughty " gifts are naff.
You don't know until you read the thread.

But here it is yet another woman playing into the male viewpoint that their bodies are all that women are useful for. In this case even her face doesn't even matter. No doubt he can fantasise imagining whatever face he likes.

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When you realised the thread wasn't your cup of tea, you could have left it, instead of trying to chastise OP.
Asking if she's old enough to be married was rude too.

Why would any one think this is any thing other than absolutely naff is beyond me

Is it really beyond you that in a world of ove 8 billion people, some think differently to you?

What OP does with her body and marriage is her choice.

Pleaseshowmehow · 01/03/2025 11:30

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 01/03/2025 11:19

When you realised the thread wasn't your cup of tea, you could have left it, instead of trying to chastise OP.
Asking if she's old enough to be married was rude too.

Why would any one think this is any thing other than absolutely naff is beyond me

Is it really beyond you that in a world of ove 8 billion people, some think differently to you?

What OP does with her body and marriage is her choice.

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She put a ? in the title of her thread. So she was asking for an opinion.
If she is looking for like minded people who also want to " role olay" "spice up" their sex life, or send " naughty " pictures why didn't she put this in the Sex topic.
She will get lots of enthusiastic advice and encouragement ther from.like minded people.
As it is she posted this in Chat. Note it's not "Sex Chat".
And I have a right to post my opinion on a public forum.

Maitri108 · 01/03/2025 11:57

Annaannaannab · 01/03/2025 10:26

What a weird reaction. You don’t like the idea, therefore I must be young and naive ?

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You seem to have made your mind up OP. Nothing seems to deter you from this idea, even the risk of strangers seeing you naked in a sexual pose.

Why don't you hire a billboard near your house and he can see you on his way to and from work? It would save him straining his eyes and it won't have your head on it so that's nice.