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It turns out that quick sand, burglars and house fires are far less of a risk in adult life than I'd anticipated. Phew!

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Limth · 28/02/2025 15:13

As a child, I felt certain I'd witness at least one untimely death in quick sand. Possibly my own.

I also felt certain I'd be burgled in the middle of the night on multiple occasions by a duo of tiptoeing men, one of whom would be wearing a stripy top.

And I felt sure that, at least once in my life, I'd wake in the night to a room filled with smoke as my house burned down around me. I still won't let my dog sleep downstairs just in case of fire.

These eventualities were so ubiquitous in children's media - I was born mid-80s - that I was sure they were just eventualities. In fact, almost obligations - these things were so ubiquitous to be almost legal mandates - that everyone had to experience a house fire, burglary and a brush with quick sand death at some point.

What things from your childhood turned out to actually be far less of a risk than you'd thought?

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Echobelly · 01/03/2025 16:37

I used to worry about floods, the kid that overwhelm a whole floor of your house, and didn't realise that not everywhere can get flooded. I've mostly lived in places that could never have a serious flood

PreciousRighteousTeacher · 01/03/2025 17:17

Well @Dontlletmedownbruce funny you should mention the rat thing. Years ago I went on holiday to Greece. An horrendous storm and torrential rain started during the night which somehow resulted in a rat sitting in the toilet bowl of the hotel bathroom. It was nearly 40 years ago and I still look down any toilet before seating myself upon it. I also like toilet lids down when toilets not in use.

Bohemond23 · 01/03/2025 17:51

Quicksand from various episodes of Lassie, Bonanza etc.
My worst fear was actually being compelled to become a glue sniffer and dying in a pool of vomit. This was after watching an episode of Juliet Bravo on the subject.
And Threads made me fear nuclear war (mainly because it made you vomit)

Bohemond23 · 01/03/2025 17:56

Just read the thread and OMFG wells!
There was a very unfortunate news story in the late 70s about a child that had fallen down a well and the strategies to rescue him. I can very clearly remember the graphics on Newsround.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 01/03/2025 17:59

Echobelly · 01/03/2025 16:37

I used to worry about floods, the kid that overwhelm a whole floor of your house, and didn't realise that not everywhere can get flooded. I've mostly lived in places that could never have a serious flood

My Ds had a recurring nightmare about a flood that could go uphill. terrifying.

Bohemond23 · 01/03/2025 18:03

And another per PP - toxic shock syndrome, also an issue on Juliet Bravo. I seem to remember a female officer nearly dying in a skip due to not changing a tampon!

MargaretThursday · 01/03/2025 18:08

tanstaafl · 28/02/2025 18:25

Maybe I’ve imagined this but weren’t we told not to use our mobile phones at petrol stations?

Anyone know why?

There was a (since discredited) theory that the mobile phone signals could set off a fire.

I pointed out to Sainsbury's not very long ago that they had a big sign saying:
"Warning: Danger of fire: Do not use your mobile phone"
Then underneath it:
"If disabled please call <phone number> for assistance."

I asked them if they believed it was dangerous, was it less dangerous if you were disabled or were they trying to get rid of anyone asking for assistance. The assistant fell about laughing and removed the top signs.

Goandygo · 01/03/2025 18:49

Bohemond23 · 01/03/2025 17:56

Just read the thread and OMFG wells!
There was a very unfortunate news story in the late 70s about a child that had fallen down a well and the strategies to rescue him. I can very clearly remember the graphics on Newsround.

I remember baby Jessica. Just googled and that was 1987. She was just 18 months old.
Happy ending thank god.

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 01/03/2025 20:31

Dontlletmedownbruce · 01/03/2025 16:11

Oh yes acid rain! Where did it go? We were taught about how awful it was in school now it's not mentioned.

Edited

Sulphur dioxide 'traps' were added to most factory chimneys.
Most coal fired power stations closed down (coal has the most sulphur in it of all the fossil fuels).
Catalytic converters on vehicle exhausts.

Basically, sulphur in fossil fuels burns to make sulphur dioxide. If that dissolves in the clouds, it makes acid rain.

Europe/Russia have much less acid rain now than the '80s, although some areas of China still have a lot.

AnnoyinglyOptimistic · 02/03/2025 00:06

MidnightPatrol · 28/02/2025 15:21

Huge amount of warning in primary school about the risks of being electrocuted.

By touching a pylon, or entering some kind of exchange (if that’s what it’s called? Sub Station?).

Definitely was overly concerned about this threat for a lot of years.

This. Irrational fear of electricity since, including plug sockets as a result. The message was strong with that video (I'm 35, and can remember watching it aged 10 vividly). Although to date static shock is the closest I've come to being zapped.

harriettenightingale · 02/03/2025 00:18

Df was a teeny bit obsessed with that to a point when we went away we sometimes used to have a little pantomime of pretending to go and leaving him behind encouraged to do lots of noisy waving, if he thought someone was watching.

I still do this 😂

Bonbon249 · 02/03/2025 00:24

For me it was getting trapped in a discarded fridge or falling down a well! There was a PSA type ad on TV (60's) showing the dangers of playing in discarded domestic appliances and Skippy was constantly getting some child (usually Timmy) rescued from a well!

RafaFan · 02/03/2025 00:44

Getting electrocuted while retrieving a Frisbee from an electrical substation.

RoseLilli · 02/03/2025 01:04

Did you grow up playing the sims by any chance?

Norfolkgal87 · 02/03/2025 07:48

Love this thread- it’s unlocked memories I forgot I had!

Quicksand was definitely a worry, as was spontaneous human combustion after reading all about it.

However I also worried about dying inside a silo with all the grain on top of me after watching something farm related in primary school which kept doing flashbacks to the past and a little girl died in one. Pretty sure it was a drama and not a historical show but it really scared me.

and the last one was a worrying about losing my leg after watching the 90s show 999 where a fisherman got caught on something on his boat, got pulled up and severed his leg on his boat!

Creamteasandbumblebees · 02/03/2025 07:54

Blarn · 28/02/2025 15:18

Yes, I was also talking to dh about this the other day. Why is no one scared of quicksand anymore?

Also, spontaneous human combustion. What happened to that?

Oh my goodness, I laughed at this!

These were my two exact fears!

scalt · 02/03/2025 08:10

My cat paid no heed to warning signs on substations. There was one surrounded by an ordinary wooden fence, and she would lie on the equipment inside, presumably because it was warm. She lived to the grand old age of sixteen.

scalt · 02/03/2025 08:22

I had “The Blue Peter Green Book”, which was full of stuff to frighten children in 1990; acid rain, CFCs in aerosols causing the hole in the ozone layer, the greenhouse effect, evil polluting cars, dogs and cats who reproduced in reckless numbers (advocating neutering), beauty and the beast (testing products on animals).

But no mention of “climate change” - it wasn’t a buzzword yet. It was still “the greenhouse effect”, and some of the Greta Thunbergs of the future probably got angry about the selfishness of our tomato growers, with their evil greenhouses.

EBearhug · 02/03/2025 09:34

Someone on one of the neighbouring farms to us did drown in a grain silo.

My parents were really hot on farm safety, to the point I've only actually been in a tractor about 3 times in my life, despite them being all around me every day until I left home.

Lickityspit · 02/03/2025 09:42

I was just saying to my parents that I expected quicksand to play a bigger part in my life than it has! I used to be terrified of being sucked into it and if I remember rightly there used to be guidance about what to do if you did fall into it! Where did it all go? 😂

scalt · 02/03/2025 09:49

As far as I remember, the guidance for escaping quicksand was: not to struggle, as this makes you go down deeper. Instead, to throw yourself flat, and crawl out.

Enid Blyton's equivalent to quicksand was "marshes", and two of the Famous Five books have scary "marsh" scenes: Five go to Smuggler's Top, where Timmy is nearly sucked in at the end. Also "Five on a Hike Together", where the villains get sucked down as they are chasing the Five.

There was a childhood moment in which a welly and my brother's foot parted company, in very sticky mud. He was quite scared then (aged 5).

KnickerlessParsons · 02/03/2025 10:36

I have never been asked to get in a car with a strange man.
I had my script prepared for years for how I was going to decline the offer.

Kittycat1969 · 02/03/2025 11:49

Redglitter · 28/02/2025 16:29

Falling when ice skating and having my fingers cut off by someone's blades

Never actually been ice skating in my life 🙄

I’ve been ice skating three times and this is all I could think off, in fact it’s the first thing I think of when I’ve skating is mentioned. I doubt I’ll go again 😂

246ohwow · 02/03/2025 12:34

Oh I’d forgotten about most of these! What I have noticed is that my house in no way resembles Blackpool illuminations if I leave an upstairs light on!

Emmz1510 · 02/03/2025 13:55

I’ve never been attacked by all the friends of a money spider after accidentally killing one- I was always told that!

I’ve never caught a chill from sitting on a cold wall or wearing an outdoor jacket indoors and then going outdoors again (was always told ‘you’ll not feel the benefit of that outside!).

Pretty sure I’ve never frowned and had my face stay like that because the wind changed.

My hair is bone straight despite always eating my crusts.

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