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It turns out that quick sand, burglars and house fires are far less of a risk in adult life than I'd anticipated. Phew!

231 replies

Limth · 28/02/2025 15:13

As a child, I felt certain I'd witness at least one untimely death in quick sand. Possibly my own.

I also felt certain I'd be burgled in the middle of the night on multiple occasions by a duo of tiptoeing men, one of whom would be wearing a stripy top.

And I felt sure that, at least once in my life, I'd wake in the night to a room filled with smoke as my house burned down around me. I still won't let my dog sleep downstairs just in case of fire.

These eventualities were so ubiquitous in children's media - I was born mid-80s - that I was sure they were just eventualities. In fact, almost obligations - these things were so ubiquitous to be almost legal mandates - that everyone had to experience a house fire, burglary and a brush with quick sand death at some point.

What things from your childhood turned out to actually be far less of a risk than you'd thought?

OP posts:
Limth · 28/02/2025 15:29

lunar1 · 28/02/2025 15:28

Does this mean I no longer need to practice STOP DROP AND ROLL???

No, you should definitely keep doing this. Just in case.

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DollopOfFun · 28/02/2025 15:30

Yes I'm 50 now, and have finally conceded I'm probably not going to die by drowning in a silo of grain.

Goandygo · 28/02/2025 15:30

The chip pan has yet to catch fire. Although we did throw it out circa 1980 and even if it did, we watched enough adverts to be fully equipped ( a wet tea towel).

lunar1 · 28/02/2025 15:30

DollopOfFun · 28/02/2025 15:30

Yes I'm 50 now, and have finally conceded I'm probably not going to die by drowning in a silo of grain.

Are you absolutely sure, you just never know.

bookwormcrazy · 28/02/2025 15:31

My fear of quicksand came from The neverending story. Even now when I go to the beach, I always have a slight thought...

QueSyrahSyrah · 28/02/2025 15:32

CanOfMangoTango · 28/02/2025 15:26

Being killed by a train

Saw so many safety videos as a child at school of people walking along railway lines

Oh yes, this too. I remember being rigid with fear whenever we had to use a level crossing on foot, convinced my foot would become stuck in the wooden slats (I now live in a part of the world with no trains so I'm free from the torture).

My mind was blown when I went to DH's Scandinavian home town and the train lines just run through the town with no fences or gates or designated crossing points with lights and bells. Apparently they just grew up knowing not to cross when a train was coming. Wild.

turkeyboots · 28/02/2025 15:32

My Irish childhood tv taught me to fear water butt's. However I did get my long skirt ripped off by an escalator in London once, so I'm keeping that fear!

Lentilweaver · 28/02/2025 15:34

The Bermuda triangle. How have I not been sucked into it?

BarnacleBeasley · 28/02/2025 15:35

Mine is accidentally going near a naked flame while wearing a shell suit (that my mum wouldn't let me have)

coxesorangepippin · 28/02/2025 15:36

Sharks

In swimming pools

Obviously

coxesorangepippin · 28/02/2025 15:36

One of Jerry Seinfeld's, but no, you can't ruin your appetite

Three another one, believe me

MidnightPatrol · 28/02/2025 15:37

Goandygo · 28/02/2025 15:30

The chip pan has yet to catch fire. Although we did throw it out circa 1980 and even if it did, we watched enough adverts to be fully equipped ( a wet tea towel).

Apparently the chip pan thing was people coming home pissed and then smoking or falling asleep.

Which would explain why it was so confusing for school children.

Of eras past that one now!

DollopOfFun · 28/02/2025 15:38

Piranhas.

And rabies.

And I can't remember reading of a kite-related electrocution for ages now.

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 28/02/2025 15:38

MrsMoastyToasty · 28/02/2025 15:19

I've always been scared of quicksand, but then again I live near enough to Weston-super-Mare for a day trip to know the dangers.
My fear as a child was volcanoes. However there aren't any in Bristol.

Bath is a caldera though, so it could happen I mean, it's incredibly unlikely, but the mechanism does exist

EmmaMaria · 28/02/2025 15:43

BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 28/02/2025 15:25

I also haven't recently been in danger of drowning in a disused quarry.

Unfortunately that one is real. There are some every year; and my childhood friends brother drowned in a quarry.

ShagratandGorbag4ever · 28/02/2025 15:43

Asteroids are suddenly back in the news........

PinkArt · 28/02/2025 15:44

CanOfMangoTango · 28/02/2025 15:26

Being killed by a train

Saw so many safety videos as a child at school of people walking along railway lines

This! I am still deeply, DEEPLY uncomfortable having to walk across tram lines knowing that we are all in mortal peril doing so.

olderbutwiser · 28/02/2025 15:44

It turned out that washing my hair or - god forbid - having a bath during That Time wasn’t going to result in pneumonia (double punishment there - I’d be really ill, and everyone would guess why).

But I was pretty sure God was not going to strike me down, despite the dire warnings of the nuns at school, as I didn’t know anyone who had been struck down even once.

UnbeatenMum · 28/02/2025 15:45

We actually were burgled when I was a child. But it seems paranormal activity has been less of a risk for me! I watched a lot of Ghostbusters and Scooby Doo.

Kbroughton · 28/02/2025 15:46

Being trapped in an empty freezer on a building site. Glue sniffing. We had stickers in my primary school (!) about glue sniffing. I was more worried about rabies that I needed to be as well.

MrsMoastyToasty · 28/02/2025 15:47

@WeMeetInFairIthilien Yikes! I now live nearer to Bath than Bristol.

Mugcake · 28/02/2025 15:47

Oh my god yes! I was terrified of quicksand after seeing laurence of Arabia

Also the Bermuda triangle hasn't been nearly as much of a problem as I thought it would be. As a child I genuinely didn't understand why nobody was DOING anything about it.

Ohapal · 28/02/2025 15:48

I am a little older than you OP, born in the 70s, however...

these things unfortunately are very real and not that uncommon. We had a burglar break into the house in the middle of the night (yes, I am traumatised for life - it was 30 years ago and every night I am pedantic about precautions). And a school mum acquaintance accidentally burned her house down - just because she put something down momentarily and forgot. And I am not a million miles from WSM - the sinking mud/quick sand is dangerous.

BourbonsAreOverated · 28/02/2025 15:50

I blame Michael Burke

It turns out that quick sand, burglars and house fires are far less of a risk in adult life than I'd anticipated. Phew!
It turns out that quick sand, burglars and house fires are far less of a risk in adult life than I'd anticipated. Phew!
stargirl1701 · 28/02/2025 15:50

The fear came from the Public Info Films! I was definitely shown them at school on the 'big telly'. These 3 stand out in my memory!

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