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Any primary school teachers willing to give some feedback on DC school report

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Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 17:09

Hello,

We've just received our DD's (Y2) half year school report (she's in a private prep). I'm a bit underwhelmed by it considering that the teacher always says she's doing amazing and does not need to work on anything, just carry on doing great work.

I grew up in a different country and our schooling system is very different. Would someone with teaching experience be willing to read the report (it's not long) and give some feedback on whether this is standard/good and how to address different things on parents meeting. Nothing will be outed, but I'd like to send it in private.

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surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 21:44

crankytoes · 15/02/2025 12:58

The message was perfectly polite. Adding please is always necessary. Most people can tell when a message is polite without the superficial addition of please all the time. There are many ways of showing gratitude beyond the use of the word please.

Also the UK is weird in its insistence of using the word please. The op is not from the uk. Perhaps you could try expanding both your vocabulary and your knowledge of other cultures. So parochial.

Isn't this a UK site? 🤨

Calling people 'parochial' because they like politeness (ie the word 'please' being used when asking for a favour) is kind of hilarious.

Finally... you do realise you said: Adding please is always necessary. ? 😉

RadStag · 15/02/2025 21:48

Sheyllablum · 15/02/2025 13:10

Thank you so much all for your advice! It's all been hugely helpful.

I agree with a PP that reports should not be sent on last day, at the end of the day. Also I do think that the teacher could have done a bit more in terms of addressing the issue earlier rather than letting it slip considering it's a private school with 15 kids in the class.

Of course they should. When else would they go out?

It gives you time to ruminate and put things in perspective.

Give the teacher a bit of breathing room to read and respond, because presumably they aren't expected to even check their emails, let alone respond until the next term.

If they were sent out a week before the end of term, you'd have dozens of parents moaning and expecting responses whilst they're trying to teach.

surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 21:48

A report should not have any surprises in it

I've always found this attitude so strange. So weird that parents only expect a report to contain what they already know. What's the point of a report in that case...?

(My children are in a private prep school too, each in a class of fewer than 15, but I'd never expect week by week updates!)

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surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 21:49

RadStag · 15/02/2025 21:48

Of course they should. When else would they go out?

It gives you time to ruminate and put things in perspective.

Give the teacher a bit of breathing room to read and respond, because presumably they aren't expected to even check their emails, let alone respond until the next term.

If they were sent out a week before the end of term, you'd have dozens of parents moaning and expecting responses whilst they're trying to teach.

This. My sons' reports come out at the end of term too, presumably for the same reason. It stops reactive parents firing off emails without thinking.

RadStag · 15/02/2025 21:49

surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 21:48

A report should not have any surprises in it

I've always found this attitude so strange. So weird that parents only expect a report to contain what they already know. What's the point of a report in that case...?

(My children are in a private prep school too, each in a class of fewer than 15, but I'd never expect week by week updates!)

To have a formal record. That's all.

Not to spring a piece of news on you.

surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 21:53

RadStag · 15/02/2025 21:49

To have a formal record. That's all.

Not to spring a piece of news on you.

You believe the school report is purely to generate a formal record of what parents already know?! Wow! 🤦🏼‍♀️

I'm a teacher by the way and I assure you that, at least in my school (well known HMC private school) this is NOT the purpose of a report. The purpose of a report in my setting is actually to inform parents of their child's progress and update them, offering feedback and often advice on next steps. Otherwise we wouldn't be able to justify the MANY hours of work entailed on writing individual reports for every student.

This thread is hilarious.

RoundoffFlick · 15/02/2025 22:09

surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 21:53

You believe the school report is purely to generate a formal record of what parents already know?! Wow! 🤦🏼‍♀️

I'm a teacher by the way and I assure you that, at least in my school (well known HMC private school) this is NOT the purpose of a report. The purpose of a report in my setting is actually to inform parents of their child's progress and update them, offering feedback and often advice on next steps. Otherwise we wouldn't be able to justify the MANY hours of work entailed on writing individual reports for every student.

This thread is hilarious.

I agree completely. Same as 'there shouldn't be any surprises at parents' evening'. Not massive bombshells obviously but they are there to pass over information. If it's all already known, what's the point?

RadStag · 15/02/2025 22:11

surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 21:53

You believe the school report is purely to generate a formal record of what parents already know?! Wow! 🤦🏼‍♀️

I'm a teacher by the way and I assure you that, at least in my school (well known HMC private school) this is NOT the purpose of a report. The purpose of a report in my setting is actually to inform parents of their child's progress and update them, offering feedback and often advice on next steps. Otherwise we wouldn't be able to justify the MANY hours of work entailed on writing individual reports for every student.

This thread is hilarious.

It's a formal record, I. That it's a written record.

And there is no need for a surprise.

RoundoffFlick · 15/02/2025 22:27

RadStag · 15/02/2025 22:11

It's a formal record, I. That it's a written record.

And there is no need for a surprise.

But who says it is? I've never been advised I am writing reports for that purpose.

surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 22:37

RoundoffFlick · 15/02/2025 22:27

But who says it is? I've never been advised I am writing reports for that purpose.

Me neither. I have, however, been advised I am writing reports to update parents on their children's progress and inform them of how they are doing...

surreygirl1987 · 15/02/2025 22:38

RoundoffFlick · 15/02/2025 22:09

I agree completely. Same as 'there shouldn't be any surprises at parents' evening'. Not massive bombshells obviously but they are there to pass over information. If it's all already known, what's the point?

Yep exactly this. It's truly bizarre.

Hollyhedge · 15/02/2025 22:42

It all sounds very standard. There is no issue.

ScabbyHorse · 15/02/2025 22:52

The best way to improve spelling is by reading, I recommend getting her to read you a story every evening before bed.

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