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Any primary school teachers willing to give some feedback on DC school report

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Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 17:09

Hello,

We've just received our DD's (Y2) half year school report (she's in a private prep). I'm a bit underwhelmed by it considering that the teacher always says she's doing amazing and does not need to work on anything, just carry on doing great work.

I grew up in a different country and our schooling system is very different. Would someone with teaching experience be willing to read the report (it's not long) and give some feedback on whether this is standard/good and how to address different things on parents meeting. Nothing will be outed, but I'd like to send it in private.

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echt · 14/02/2025 19:41

A report should not have any surprises in it. The week by week teacher commentary and advice is what you need to be looking at.

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 19:43

echt · 14/02/2025 19:41

A report should not have any surprises in it. The week by week teacher commentary and advice is what you need to be looking at.

Thank you, that's how I feel.

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MumonabikeE5 · 14/02/2025 19:46

HabitHoarder · 14/02/2025 17:18

what’s up with the politeness police on MN today?! No one ever says “please” - it’s a forum, if you don’t want to comment just move on to the next thread.

OP I’m not a teacher.

I thought the message was pretty polite .
I’m not a teacher,
but the ones I know were focused on getting to 5/6pm today knowing it was half term and they are knackered, so I can’t imagine many would be enthusiastic to answer this tonight, maybe by Thursday someone would be more agreeable.
but I think you should just post the report sections you are querying rather than expecting DMs etc .

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

Jesusisking23 · 14/02/2025 19:48

calimali · 14/02/2025 17:13

Please?

Nope sorry - I put in enough hours to be doing free consultations

Why reply then 🙄

saraclara · 14/02/2025 19:54

It's not like Uber, where any kids doing a decent job will get a 5.

If you have specific concerns (the spelling one is the only one I'd want to follow up to see how I could help at home) then contact the teacher. But a 4 is fine. I'd wait for a parents evening to ask for what she needs to do to achieve a 5.

salamithumbs · 14/02/2025 19:57

I wouldn't be concerned at all, that sounds like a very good report. I were told by the principal not to give top scores in younger classes unless the child was absolutely outstanding in that area, as 'there was nowhere to go but down' and some children (parents really) would be discouraged if the score fell from an 'excellent' one year to 'good' the next as the work got more difficult. I'm in Ireland so different system/scoring system but maybe it's the same sort of approach in the UK?

salamithumbs · 14/02/2025 19:58

salamithumbs · 14/02/2025 19:57

I wouldn't be concerned at all, that sounds like a very good report. I were told by the principal not to give top scores in younger classes unless the child was absolutely outstanding in that area, as 'there was nowhere to go but down' and some children (parents really) would be discouraged if the score fell from an 'excellent' one year to 'good' the next as the work got more difficult. I'm in Ireland so different system/scoring system but maybe it's the same sort of approach in the UK?

*we were told, I meant to say!

polinkhausive · 14/02/2025 19:59

Are your expectations top marks for everything for her entire school career?

Those are really big expectations

Youcanttakeanelephantonthebus · 14/02/2025 20:02

If you're paying for private school then surely you can ask for them to discuss?

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 20:02

polinkhausive · 14/02/2025 19:59

Are your expectations top marks for everything for her entire school career?

Those are really big expectations

Absolutely not, but spelling is important! Plus I would have expected the school to address a slight regression or lack of progression, not put it in a report 1.5 terms later.

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Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 20:02

Youcanttakeanelephantonthebus · 14/02/2025 20:02

If you're paying for private school then surely you can ask for them to discuss?

Yes of course, I'll email the teacher after half term. Got the report late afternoon today.

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LizzieBananas · 14/02/2025 20:03

When I was a teacher, “pleasing progress” was a phrase used of excellent children.

4/5 on a mid year report is also to be expected. It gives them somewhere to go to show they have improved in the rest of the year.

AnxiouslyAwaitingSpring · 14/02/2025 20:05

HabitHoarder · 14/02/2025 17:18

what’s up with the politeness police on MN today?! No one ever says “please” - it’s a forum, if you don’t want to comment just move on to the next thread.

OP I’m not a teacher.

No one ever says “please”

Maybe not in your impolite world but the rest of us usually do! (Most of) The rest of us were raised with good manners

polinkhausive · 14/02/2025 20:07

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 20:02

Absolutely not, but spelling is important! Plus I would have expected the school to address a slight regression or lack of progression, not put it in a report 1.5 terms later.

Then why did you describe a 4 - still an above average score as an issue? It's normal for kids to fluctuate a bit sometimes, teachers manage those without a running commentary to parents.

It's only really a concern if they make really sudden dips in performance which this really isn't.

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 20:11

AnxiouslyAwaitingSpring · 14/02/2025 20:05

No one ever says “please”

Maybe not in your impolite world but the rest of us usually do! (Most of) The rest of us were raised with good manners

Have you thought it's a cultural/language issue? In my language we don't really say 'Please' in that context, I thought I was being polite by saying 'Would anyone be willing....' Can't believe some people keep going on about it being 'very rude'. I think I've said thank you enough times and I'm genuinely grateful for any constructive feedback.

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RadStag · 14/02/2025 20:14

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 17:21

The scores are 1 to 5, she got 4 for Collaboration and 4 for Concentration. Never knew these were a slight issue. Also she got Satisfactory/Developing for spelling. Again, we weren't aware of that, although I did see some work books being corrected quite heavily last term but a bit better lately. Excelling at Maths which we sort of expected. But the comments are just luke warm...she's made pleasing progress, good understanding etc...Is this standard? We thought she did better than that based on our last parents meeting and also how she's doing at home.

I should mention she's suspected ASD and finds the class a bit loud.

What's wrong with satisfactory? It's satisfactory! That's... Satisfactory....

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 20:15

polinkhausive · 14/02/2025 20:07

Then why did you describe a 4 - still an above average score as an issue? It's normal for kids to fluctuate a bit sometimes, teachers manage those without a running commentary to parents.

It's only really a concern if they make really sudden dips in performance which this really isn't.

Sorry, 4 and 5 were scores for Learning habits and skills like: Perseverance, Collaboration, Organisation, Growth mindset etc etc.

For Academic Subjects (Maths, Reading, Writing, Science) they have Requires Improvement, Satisfactory, Good & Very Good.

My main concern was Spelling which came under Writing area. Hope this makes sense.

OP posts:
RadStag · 14/02/2025 20:16

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 19:43

Thank you, that's how I feel.

But she's doing fine . ...

RadStag · 14/02/2025 20:17

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 18:42

Thank you. She got 5 in many areas, apart from Concentration and Collaboration which makes sense in the context of her being ND.

I'm more concerned about Satisfactory for spelling which has never been mentioned or addressed. It was Good last year so I would have expected some sort of strategies for improvement. She won't do much at home, it needs to come from school otherwise she's not keen on doing any extra work initiated by us.

So your child won't work independently to improve her score... Doesn't get an improved score. Shock horror.

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 20:19

RadStag · 14/02/2025 20:17

So your child won't work independently to improve her score... Doesn't get an improved score. Shock horror.

I thought the school would address it? If she comes with something from her teacher, she'll do it.

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andyouwillknowusbythetrailofdead · 14/02/2025 20:20

She's doing fine. She's doing better than fine. You're in for a rough ride if you expect the teachers to justify it every time she gets less than full marks.

anothernameanotherplanet · 14/02/2025 20:21

zingally · 14/02/2025 17:28

I'm a primary school teacher. A please costs nothing.

That being said, the scores your child has got sound fine. I'd say a 4 out of 5 means perfectly good, tries hard etc. But perhaps not outstanding? There's nothing wrong with being slightly less than perfect.

Are you Eastern European by any chance? In my own parents evening meetings, it's very often those parents who drill me as to why their child only got a "good" as opposed to an "outstanding". There's literally no reason. They're fine and doing everything I expect. There's no concerns whatsoever.

I'd kindly suggest that if you're reading this much into a Yr2 mid-year report, you might be in for some rude awakenings further down the line.

This and the poster who recommended speaking to the teacher concerned.

Writing generally. A parent usually only knows their child, possibly a few more.

We all love our children and think they are brilliant. We rejoice in their every success and achievement.

A primary school teacher has seen 30 children every year of their career and is in a better position too judge whether a child is a 4 or a 5.

But speak to the teacher, explore how you can help your daughter - and stop worrying, it can be catching.

arcticpandas · 14/02/2025 20:38

AnxiouslyAwaitingSpring · 14/02/2025 20:05

No one ever says “please”

Maybe not in your impolite world but the rest of us usually do! (Most of) The rest of us were raised with good manners

In some countries they don't have a habit of saying please. We might find it rude but the poster doesn't necessarily realises this. But she ought to have gotten the message by now 😄

JimmyGrimble · 14/02/2025 20:44

Sigh. I’m a primary school teacher. We do interim reports. I don’t really give ‘excellent’ grades at this stage of the year because they’ve not covered the curriculum. With spelling, it could be that she is making elementary mistakes in her writing which would show that her understanding of spelling rules isn’t completely embedded? Very common in Y2 as the level of challenge is much greater than Y1. It’s very easy to get hold of the Y1/2 spelling list and check these with her I’d have thought. Spelling needs lots of practice to get right.

polinkhausive · 14/02/2025 21:01

Sheyllablum · 14/02/2025 20:15

Sorry, 4 and 5 were scores for Learning habits and skills like: Perseverance, Collaboration, Organisation, Growth mindset etc etc.

For Academic Subjects (Maths, Reading, Writing, Science) they have Requires Improvement, Satisfactory, Good & Very Good.

My main concern was Spelling which came under Writing area. Hope this makes sense.

The report makes sense. But your reaction to it doesn't.