@Shakeyourbaublesandsmile
Probably another thread, but doesn't this just show how ludicrously we treat mental health?
In MH services when someone refers to being in crises they need urgent care to reduce the risk of them hurting themselves or others. It means the are at imminent risk for being suicidal or violent towards others.
Ok, so... if you're about to kill yourself you count as "in crisis" and are allowed help. Except... if you've decided to end it right now, you're not going to ask for help, are you? You're past that stage.
It's the stage where you're having bad thoughts, dark thoughts, thinking of suicide as an option, that you'd seek mental health help as an alternative.
So we've got a situation whereby the people entitled to timely help are the ones who are too far gone to ask for it, whilst those who do recognise they're going down a dark path are dismissed as "not in crisis (yet)".
A really grim, dark catch-22.
A friend of mine killed herself for this exact reason. The act of asking for help meant she was seen as "not immediately suicidal". In the end she gave up asking.
It's bonkers, and dangerous.
I'm not sure where you're getting your information from re. people refusing to speak to emergency doctor, or the implication that people are just saying they're suicidal without really meaning it. I'm sure it happens occasionally, but am concerned you're dismissing people as "not really suicidal" when they are, they're just still at the stage where they can just about believe someone might be able to help. It doesn't help that mental health staff appear to take this outlook too.
The equivalent in physical health to the way mental health services are run would be if there was low-level care for coughs and colds and stuff (equivalent to self-referral primary care mental health services), and an intensive care department for if you're at death's door, and nothing inbetween. No way for a GP to refer you on for tests or operations or to a consultant, until whatever's wrong is about to kill you.