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Now we are a coupe of years on. Do you think the Covid lockdowns should have happened

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Rainbowdeer · 10/02/2025 16:16

I don’t we should have shut down the schools and I don’t agree with the lockdowns
the damage has been far too great
esp regarding children’s mental health

the economy been damaged far too much

work culture has totally changed

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Ilovegoldies · 10/02/2025 17:51

ThejoyofNC · 10/02/2025 16:25

No and I'm so glad I didn't comply.

You didn't comply? I assume you mean you visited people? I mean you could hardly force yourself into a gym/pub/cafe. Did you sneak into Marks and Spencer?

JenniferBooth · 10/02/2025 17:52

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 10/02/2025 16:46

Speaking only for myself I think they should have happened but I think the second one shouldn't have lasted until April and ended around the end of February when everyone vulnerable and over 70 had been offered at least one does of vaccine. It doesn't sound like long but having those extra eight weeks would have made a massive difference to my mental health, which has never fully recovered since.

That was the third one not the srecond one The second one was November 2020. Parents tend to forget this because schools were still open
Us child free remember it though

Mightymoog · 10/02/2025 17:53

@Longma

Hindsight is a wonderful gift.
People forget that it was a new disease, for a long time people had no real idea of what it was or what it could possibly do.

But we did know what it could do. The very first England press conference told the public very emphatically that this would be a mild disease for the vast majority.

Mightymoog · 10/02/2025 17:54

Ilovegoldies · 10/02/2025 17:51

You didn't comply? I assume you mean you visited people? I mean you could hardly force yourself into a gym/pub/cafe. Did you sneak into Marks and Spencer?

It's not that tricky to comprehend what she meant ( and good on her)

Baital · 10/02/2025 17:55

Ddakji · 10/02/2025 16:37

I didn’t then and I don’t now, though I did comply.

We need to understand as a society that fighting nature to stay alive when you should be dead can’t last forever. That the population was locked down to save those trying to defy nature was morally wrong in my opinion.

There was a good interview with Lord Sumption discussing this in Saturday’s Times

'When you should be dead'

Who are you to say when someone 'should ' be dead?

My mother was an otherwise healthy 80 year old. She shielded, and has survived, still living independently and having a good quality of life. Are you saying she 'should' be dead?

Rainbowdeer · 10/02/2025 17:55

Also I hated that Christmas when we weren’t allowed to see extended family

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Baital · 10/02/2025 17:56

If fact, this year has taken up walking netball to keep active. A much lived extra-granny to three families in her street whose grandparents live a long way away

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 10/02/2025 17:57

JenniferBooth · 10/02/2025 17:52

That was the third one not the srecond one The second one was November 2020. Parents tend to forget this because schools were still open
Us child free remember it though

I can barely remember when one ended and another began. It's one terrible harmogenous mass in my head.

Baital · 10/02/2025 17:57

Rainbowdeer · 10/02/2025 17:55

Also I hated that Christmas when we weren’t allowed to see extended family

One Christmas where you couldn't have what you wanted.

Meandhimtogether · 10/02/2025 17:59

Hindsight is a wonderful thing.

nocoolnamesleft · 10/02/2025 17:59

I don't think they were avoidable. Though if they'd been started sooner, they could have been shorter. But they saved a lot of lives.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 10/02/2025 17:59

@Baital This is MN where anyone over the age of 50 has one foot in the grave.

Rainbowdeer · 10/02/2025 18:00

No there was a lot more to it than that, but if i went in a Time Machine I would have gone to Join the rest of my family, I mean batshit crazy things like eat out to help out was happening shortly before Christmas got cancelled!

the whole thing was just so surreal

do others look back on that time as surreal ?

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BourbonsAreOverated · 10/02/2025 18:00

Hindsight is wonderful. if hospitals had been over whelmed? Children scarred from long covid or mental health issues of seeing family die in front of them.

some things seem mad looking back now. However, we just didn’t know anything about this virus.

LolaLouise · 10/02/2025 18:03

Rainbowdeer · 10/02/2025 18:00

No there was a lot more to it than that, but if i went in a Time Machine I would have gone to Join the rest of my family, I mean batshit crazy things like eat out to help out was happening shortly before Christmas got cancelled!

the whole thing was just so surreal

do others look back on that time as surreal ?

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6 months before? not shortly. The summer was relatively ok for cases when they did the eat out to try and pump some money into the undustry, but winter, as always, escalates hospitilisation from all virus'. The second lockdown began in November, they delayed it far longer than they should have. By October hospitals were full, and patients were dying who maybe would have otherwise survived under normal winter pressures. But the government waited and delayed that lockdown.

Parker231 · 10/02/2025 18:05

Chuchoter · 10/02/2025 17:12

Of course not! It was a load of nonsense.

There’s always one idiot who thinks they know better!

corlan · 10/02/2025 18:08

ThejoyofNC · 10/02/2025 16:25

No and I'm so glad I didn't comply.

Is that you Boris?

Parker231 · 10/02/2025 18:08

Mightymoog · 10/02/2025 17:45

absolutely not.
i was very against them at the time as I could see the harm that would be caused.
I was relatively lucky that I could ignore most of it and see friends and family and of course I never tested or isolated or wore a mask but I was fuming about the harm being done and will remain angry about it for a long time

Perhaps lockdown would have been shorter if everyone had done their bit to keep other safe. Unfortunately as we saw, some are selfish and didn’t think of others.

JenniferBooth · 10/02/2025 18:09

Baital · 10/02/2025 17:57

One Christmas where you couldn't have what you wanted.

There was a fucking big attempted push to have Christmas 2021 go the same way though.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 10/02/2025 18:09

No I think the vulnerable should have isolated and the rest of us got on with it. The tier system where they locked down vast swathes of the north while allowing places with higher cases in the south was outrageous as was the MN attitude that we were locked down because we’re all thick and not able to socially distance down t’ pits 🙈.

JenniferBooth · 10/02/2025 18:09

Parker231 · 10/02/2025 18:08

Perhaps lockdown would have been shorter if everyone had done their bit to keep other safe. Unfortunately as we saw, some are selfish and didn’t think of others.

Worked really well in China 🙄

HowardTJMoon · 10/02/2025 18:11

Mightymoog · 10/02/2025 17:53

@Longma

Hindsight is a wonderful gift.
People forget that it was a new disease, for a long time people had no real idea of what it was or what it could possibly do.

But we did know what it could do. The very first England press conference told the public very emphatically that this would be a mild disease for the vast majority.

So you believed the government when (at the beginning of the pandemic and data was limited) they said that that it'll probably be fine, but not when (later, and there was a wealth more data available) they subsequently said that if we didn't have lockdowns the NHS was at serious risk of being overwhelmed. Interesting.

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Even the government wasn't trusted.

Longma · 10/02/2025 18:13

I never said I believed the Government verbatim at all.

I simply said that governments across the world were all dealing with something new and were having to make decisions.

I very clearly said that mistakes were made.

And I certainly don't believe our government made the best decisions or had the best behaviour throughout!

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