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When did going out for an evening turn into "date night"?

164 replies

MoodySky · 26/01/2025 08:59

Sorry but it's such a crap expression.

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CurrentHun · 26/01/2025 20:14

That ‘house party’ thing is because club nights (that you pay to get into) can be called parties these days. Don’t get me started

CurrentHun · 26/01/2025 20:16

While I am venting about social media led lifestyle guff I have to mention the horrendous overuse of the word ‘iconic’. To describe anything being flogged to us. Food etc. Just no

MooFroo · 26/01/2025 20:17

It’s all about the gram innit

Doechii · 26/01/2025 20:23

House party has been around for years and years. I use date night, nothing to do with social media just a night where we go on a date.

YourWinter · 26/01/2025 20:24

I agree, it’s cringey for anyone no longer a teenager!

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 26/01/2025 20:25

Ah but the house parties makes sense for a generation who’s parents rented a function room or booked some space in a bar /restaurant for a party. I can’t remember the last time I went to a party (for an adult) that was at someone’s house, not bar/restaurant /function room etc.

iamnotalemon · 26/01/2025 20:26

Or going out on your own is a 'solo date' ffs.

fingerbobz · 26/01/2025 20:55

Awwwh it's making memories hun

fingerbobz · 26/01/2025 20:57

CheeseCakeSunflowers · 26/01/2025 09:21

I sometimes wonder when the Personnel Department became Human Resources. I was happy being a person but it irritates me now that I am a resource.

Keep up. Its People or Talent now not Human Resources any more

ConsuelaHammock · 26/01/2025 20:58

When we had fur babies instead of cats and dogs ! And made memories instead of ‘living’.

Gwenhwyfar · 26/01/2025 21:02

RosesAndHellebores · 26/01/2025 09:21

No idea. We might go out for dinner or have a day out.

We only ever had two dates. We were never apart after our second date so DH never had to ask me out again. We just planned on doing stuff together thereafter. And have for 35 years.

I've heard about this many times. People who say they moved in straight away, but I can't grasp how it actually happens practically e.g. if one of you moved in with the other, when did you give notice to landlord, move your stuff out, etc.?

Gwenhwyfar · 26/01/2025 21:02

denhaag · 26/01/2025 09:41

Oh but that's been around for a very long time. We used to go "out, out" when I started going out back in the mid 80s.
People still say it now.
It's akin to "home, home"

Out out makes sense.
I'm at my local pub all the time, but I never go 'out out'. You need to differentiate sometimes.

heroinechic · 26/01/2025 21:05

You are not alone.

Going out for dinner with my husband isn't a date. We aren't dating. We're married. We're just spending time together!

Risheth · 26/01/2025 23:26

Gwenhwyfar · 26/01/2025 21:02

I've heard about this many times. People who say they moved in straight away, but I can't grasp how it actually happens practically e.g. if one of you moved in with the other, when did you give notice to landlord, move your stuff out, etc.?

They were clearly too much in love to think about such banalities as giving notice, and carting around their vinyl collection and shoes.

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