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What have you got to do tomorrow?

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 22/01/2025 22:25

Tomorrow is the day I must get my shit together

Dd has been off sick but she's fine to go back to school tomorrow

The house is a tip, both up and downstairs. Every room needs cleaning 😫

Need to order some paint

Need to get some food in

Need to do some self care

Need to take some stuff to the tip

Need to paint my bedroom

Need to do more laundry 🙄

And I'm just sat here, laying down no idea how I'm gonna get started

What have you got to do? Also, motivate me please 😄😫

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Lovelybitofsquirrel3 · 23/01/2025 01:52

Spread it across a few days make a list be realistic you only have so much energy

coxesorangepippin · 23/01/2025 01:52

Work

Shower

Pack bag for weekend

Follow up on DD'S medication

Decide on dinner

Do laundry

blueshoes · 23/01/2025 01:54

Work.

I have decided I CBA to go into the office and will work from home instead.

mondaytosunday · 23/01/2025 02:03

I guess it's already 'tomorrow'.
I'm going to visit my son for a couple days who lives on the Isle of Wight. He will be at work (he's got the Friday off), so I'm going to have lunch with a friend, walk the dog by the beach and then go meet him at work and out for a nice dinner. Have I packed? No. Found all his Christmas presents I'm to take with me (he's doesn't have a car and too heavy/bulky to take on his motorbike). No. So I should stop scrolling on Mumsnet and get some sleep as I'll be up early!

ChewbaccasMrs · 23/01/2025 02:03

Tons,whole of the house needs to be hoovered and dusted
Front door and back need a wipe.
Bathroom and kitchen need to be cleaned.
Both Dogs need a bath
Both Dog beds need to be washed and dried.
Laundry needs to be put away.
Some self care.

Fingers crossed after all of that I should sleep well tomorrow night.

Eminybob · 23/01/2025 02:11

Huge day at work. Back to back meetings, write up some mid-year appraisals that I didn't get to yesterday, respond to about 30 emails I didn't get to yesterday and prep for a conference next week.
But I also need to finish early to take DS to a doctors appointment, do the weekly shop after that and go to a fitness class in the evening.
So much going on in my brain I can't sleep now and so will be doing it all on half a battery in the morning.
I honestly feel like phoning in sick and just staying in bed (which will actually just make matters worse because all the above work jobs still need doing by the end of the week, with another full on day on Friday)

Tarkan · 23/01/2025 02:54

First of all I'll be getting my 16yo out of bed to go to college (they have ASD and mornings are always their worst time).

Then a quick shower then off to the local hospital for an ECG and blood tests. I have a heart condition which has been getting worse recently so my GP is sending me for a variety of tests while we wait on my referral to cardiology. I get a 24h blood pressure monitor next week.

Nannyfannybanny · 23/01/2025 08:51

Bless all of you who have health issues to deal with,it's horrible. "Hoovering"😱, I vacuumed and dusted everywhere yesterday. It's usually a big clean every Friday, but I work volunteering for our local councillor, and have a huge amount of council leaflets to deliver. You can't do it in the rain, they get ruined ,so am hoping to do them tomorrow morning. Takes 90 minutes with 2 of us, going full pelt and walking 3 miles (hoping to go out for lunch haven't done that since my birthday in October, thanks to Rachel from accounts)

Tisfortired · 23/01/2025 08:54

Survive

Recently found out I’m pregnant with #3. My toddler was up loads last night, I am exhausted and feel like death warmed up.

Overthebow · 23/01/2025 08:58

We’re all ill. Somehow I’ve got to fit in a full day of work, school and nursery runs, doctors appointment for the baby, laundry, cleaning, making dinner and trying to get better so I can be more productive.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 18:37

So we made it to school on time - i was up so late and so was dd, I was worried 😟

I've cleaned the floor of my bedroom and the hallway

I cooked dinner

That's all I've done! 😳😳😫😫

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 18:39

Bbq1 · 22/01/2025 23:25

Pick up my Jane Eyre print and ds's Spiderman print. They have been framed at the framing shop.

Get some food in.

Give myself a manicure.

Book my Eyebrow tint appointment.

Finish my homework for my Calligraphy course.

A calligraphy course sounds cool - people don't write enough anymore

Im trying to keep a diary this year

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 18:43

LuluBlakey1 · 22/01/2025 23:41

Just a day at work 😁

I know- that's what I need to decide. It's quite a salary rise though but we don't need the money. However, I earn less than DH and this would mean I earned just about the same so would have a better pension that I would currently have when I retire. And you never know what can happen in a relationship - I feel my time out as a SAHM has affected my career and this would put me back on track but it would have costs in terms of working later one night a week approx - prob not get home until 7 or 8pm.

🙌🙌🙌 did you get it all done? I feel like I've been out of work for so long it all sounds so exhausting. Even when I was working I struggled, probably due to my (then undiagnosed) autism

But if you're enjoying work, it could be fun to take the promotion - maybe see if you'd have the ability to go back to current job if you don't like it? x

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 18:45

Tisfortired · 23/01/2025 08:54

Survive

Recently found out I’m pregnant with #3. My toddler was up loads last night, I am exhausted and feel like death warmed up.

Oh bless you. I've had days where the goal is just survive. Congratulations on number 3

Will you get a break from your toddler so you can sleep at all? x

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 18:52

mondaytosunday · 23/01/2025 02:03

I guess it's already 'tomorrow'.
I'm going to visit my son for a couple days who lives on the Isle of Wight. He will be at work (he's got the Friday off), so I'm going to have lunch with a friend, walk the dog by the beach and then go meet him at work and out for a nice dinner. Have I packed? No. Found all his Christmas presents I'm to take with me (he's doesn't have a car and too heavy/bulky to take on his motorbike). No. So I should stop scrolling on Mumsnet and get some sleep as I'll be up early!

Did you make it on time? x

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GingerLiberalFeminist · 23/01/2025 19:24

GingerLiberalFeminist · 22/01/2025 23:47

Get DD dressed and to nursery
Fold tumbler clothes
Put wash on
Clean bathroom
Clean kitchen
Ride the horses
Tidy my bedroom
Dust
Hoover
Clean the car maybe
Sort car tires maybe
Call a colleague maybe
Deliver some leaflets maybe

The reality is I'll get some done 😅

Child was dressed and went to nursery
Folded tumble clothes
Put washing on
Dried washing
Cleaned the kitchen
Cleaned the bathroom
Tidied utility room
Cleaned all the horse tack as too wet to ride
Hoovered.

Not bad really. I should get some ironing done now though. And it's bonk night.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 19:58

GingerLiberalFeminist · 23/01/2025 19:24

Child was dressed and went to nursery
Folded tumble clothes
Put washing on
Dried washing
Cleaned the kitchen
Cleaned the bathroom
Tidied utility room
Cleaned all the horse tack as too wet to ride
Hoovered.

Not bad really. I should get some ironing done now though. And it's bonk night.

Bonk night 👀

Regularly scheduled or just a feeling?

a day after hump day 🤭, lucky dp

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GingerLiberalFeminist · 23/01/2025 20:09

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 19:58

Bonk night 👀

Regularly scheduled or just a feeling?

a day after hump day 🤭, lucky dp

Haha it's roughly a every other day situation, DH starts touching my bum more often in the day and giving me puppy dog eyes 😂
I could probably be happy with twice a week and him every day. We have an unspoken compromise 😂

Sunnyside4 · 23/01/2025 20:30

Definitely need to hoover and go to Tescos, as well as a few hours work. Bathroom installer popping in for a few mins to go through things before he starts on Monday. Ideally go out and get some paint brushes and a bathroom cabinet. Not sure the latter will happen.

whaddayawannado · 23/01/2025 20:37

I have three things to do.

1 - work.

2 - watch the finale of Traitors.

3 - think of a plausible reason to give to my former fellow committee members to explain why I have just resigned, without telling them that actually, the only real reason is that I just can't be arsed to do it any more.
<suggestions gratefully accepted!> 😂

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 20:54

GingerLiberalFeminist · 23/01/2025 20:09

Haha it's roughly a every other day situation, DH starts touching my bum more often in the day and giving me puppy dog eyes 😂
I could probably be happy with twice a week and him every day. We have an unspoken compromise 😂

Flirty Reaction GIF by MOODMAN

😄😄 that's not a bad compromise tbf 🥰

I'm 6.5 years bonk free

Whenever I see an even slightly handsome man in Asda I'm like 'he's the one' 🤭🤭🙈

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 20:54

whaddayawannado · 23/01/2025 20:37

I have three things to do.

1 - work.

2 - watch the finale of Traitors.

3 - think of a plausible reason to give to my former fellow committee members to explain why I have just resigned, without telling them that actually, the only real reason is that I just can't be arsed to do it any more.
<suggestions gratefully accepted!> 😂

Yes traitors over here too

😄😄 gen z are all about prioritising peace?

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GingerLiberalFeminist · 23/01/2025 20:59

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 20:54

😄😄 that's not a bad compromise tbf 🥰

I'm 6.5 years bonk free

Whenever I see an even slightly handsome man in Asda I'm like 'he's the one' 🤭🤭🙈

pepe le pew skunk GIF

That gif made me laugh!
I went 2 years once, started salivating over Poldark regularly, Pavlov style! Can't imagine 6.5 years!

Beautifulweeds · 23/01/2025 21:08

Currently working a night care shift then home at 7am to take over from DH as he has a mtg wfh and drop DC off at school. Morning nap, bit of housework then off to another job for 1pm for an afternoon for 5 hours. Finally home and weekend free, yey!

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/01/2025 21:08

GingerLiberalFeminist · 23/01/2025 20:59

That gif made me laugh!
I went 2 years once, started salivating over Poldark regularly, Pavlov style! Can't imagine 6.5 years!

😄

Omg i know - I've got everything crossed that this year is the year my legs are finally uncrossed! 🤭

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