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I haven’t had a moment to myself without the kids in over a week and I’m on my last shred of sanity

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DrRichardWebber · 30/12/2024 14:06

I was made redundant just before Christmas. It was an unbelievably stressful time but I’ve managed by some miracle to interview for and get a new job that will start next year. Each interview required a strategy presentation pulling together, so not an easy thing to do.

I have gone straight from that into non stop kids for the holidays. They are 5 and 7. My husband has been working pretty much non stop, but also because I’ve been taking the kids out to give him space to work he has also had plenty of relaxed time at home, and time to exercise and play golf. We don’t have any local help from family. The 5 year old is super clingy. The kids out of routine have not been easy.

We have a day of plans tomorrow and I’m on my absolute last shred of sanity. I can feel myself on the edge of just locking myself in a room by myself. But what I need is a decent long run. A coffee by myself in a quiet house while I watch Gavin and Stacey.

Can anyone else relate?

OP posts:
Mumistiredzzzz · 31/12/2024 08:47

CuriousGeorge80 · 30/12/2024 15:24

This is a genuine question (as I realise it can sound twatty) but why have you taken them so your husband can play golf and have time out, while you have had none? Why hasn't he taken them in return?

Exactly this. Is it not an equal partnership in your house op? Of there's time for him to exercise and golf there must be time for you to do something for yourself, or he cuts one or the other down.

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