I was driving me and OH in town today and a lorry driver started literally shouting at me for my driving - I hadn’t done anything wrong he just thought I should have pulled into a gap rather than waiting for him to pass further up. Totally unnecessary from the lorry driver and more so that the lorry driver stopped next to my car as he was passing (hence why it was unreasonable because there was loads of room for the lorry to pass where I chose to stop) and started berating me. I said he was unreasonable and why was he stopping when he could pass, leave me alone etc. and my OH just sat there and didn’t do anything or say anything - just sat there. The lorry driver didn’t swear or raise his voice but was rude and thoroughly unpleasant. It was just mean and bullish.
And when we continued I said to my OH why hadn’t he said anything and he said well you were handling it. It wasn’t that big of a deal in his view.
I’m home now but I can’t shake just how let down I feel by my OH. Like I was abandoned. Is it not that big of a deal? Am I reading something that’s not there? Couldn’t he have said something at the time? He was just so indifferent.