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Thread 16 - TalkLair: "Well, I'm not exactly quaking in my stylish-yet-affordable boots, but there's definitely something unnatural going on here."

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Kucinghitam · 19/12/2024 07:09

(Previous thread 15).

Another year over, a new one just begun...

In the TalkLair, the hearth is glowing, the walls festooned with tinsel, books by non-approved authors line the shelves, rugs are down on the floors, the tree is twinkling with fairy lights (and possibly being clambered on by cats). The denizens of the lair are a welcoming bunch though, always eager for general chit-chat on all manner of topics.

We just won’t mention the gnawed bones of our prey Christmas roast beast over there in the corner of the cave…

Thread 15 - TalkLair: “I Can't Lie To You About Your Chances, But... You Have My Sympathies.” | Mumsnet

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VictorianBigot · 21/03/2025 09:10

artant · 20/03/2025 20:02

That’s a particularly fine picture of lovely Kasper!

That tape sounds great @VictorianBigot. We have some reel to reel tapes here from the early sixties but nothing to play them on any more.

And sorry to hear about your friend.

It was originally recorded on reel to reel, and I think Great Uncle had a different kind of reel to reel setup as my dad was explaining something technical about the recording process that went straight over my head. I'm not sure how it ended up on cassette as GU died in 1978, I can only think the original reel to reel tape came back into my dad's possession after that and he transferred it.

Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 21/03/2025 11:42

We used to have a Bang and Olufsen reel to reel and I got very good at recording onto it from records, with all the buttons you had to push just in the right order. I used to enjoy that, and recording onto cassette tapes too.

I knew an old lady who had some cassettes of phone calls between her and a friend who had died years before. She wanted to hear them again but didn't have a cassette player. Luckily we still had one so I lent it to her and she heard her friend's voice again. I was very glad to be able to do that.

SqueakyDinosaur · 21/03/2025 11:43

Oh, that's so lovely, @Vegemiteandhoneyontoast !

Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 21/03/2025 12:10

It was, @SqueakyDinosaur ! Things like that can be so exciting.

I had an elderly male friend, a dour Yorkshire man, John, who after we'd known each other for a few years, told me about a school reader, 'The Blind Gamekeeper', from when he was about nine. John said that at the end of term the children would be allowed to pick a book and take it home but for some reason he hadn't been there so missed his chance and he'd been searching for a copy for decades. Every family holiday was spent going into second hand shops looking for this book and the search went on for over 30 years.

He asked me to find him a copy. I put it on the wish list on Abebooks and, miraculously, six months later and just before Christmas, a copy was found and sent to me and it was in perfect condition. I skim-read it, then wrapped it up and went to his house on Christmas eve, beside myself with excitement. On being handed the parcel, he said 'Aye, thanks I'll put it under t'tree'. Unbearable. 'No! open it now!' I insisted and under the watchful gaze of his wife and daughter, he tore off the top part of the wrapping paper and revealed the gold lettering on the cover, 'The Blind Gamekeeper'. As he took the book out of the wrapping his hands started to shake and he quietly asked 'Is this it?' then he held it like a baby bird and started carefully leafing through the pages, remembering the stories and illustrations. I left the family to it at the point.

Two days later, John phoned me and said 'I tell thee now, as long as I live that book will never leave my bedside'. He also said 'I knew you'd find it' and then, later, ''Ow long 'ad you 'ad that book?!'.

I'm a bit emotional just remembering, it was one of the most exciting chances I've ever had. John is long gone now but his daughter has the book and I was able to find a copy for myself, to remind me of him.

Britinme · 21/03/2025 12:52

That is so lovely @Vegemiteandhoneyontoast

VictorianBigot · 21/03/2025 13:53

He also said 'I knew you'd find it' and then, later, ''Ow long 'ad you 'ad that book?!'

Followed by ''OW MUCH?!' Grin

That's a lovely story @Vegemiteandhoneyontoast. I'm so glad you were able to fulfil his wish.

artant · 21/03/2025 13:58

That’s a lovely story! Abebooks is so much easier than trawling second hand bookshops when you want something specific.

Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 21/03/2025 17:07

artant · 21/03/2025 13:58

That’s a lovely story! Abebooks is so much easier than trawling second hand bookshops when you want something specific.

They weren't very techie and probably wouldn't have known how to search for a book online, so I was it. IIRC, this all happened in 2003.

Finding John's book was a delightful thrill and, even better, he still liked it.

Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 21/03/2025 17:08

Followed by ''OW MUCH?!'

Thankfully he never asked!

duc748 · 21/03/2025 17:23

#notarealyorkshireman

Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 21/03/2025 17:27

It was a present so he couldn't really ask. Expect he wondered, mind.

As it was, I think it was under a tenner.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 21/03/2025 17:57

Thank you so much for mentioning that. I didn't know Abe Books had a wishlist, so just went to have a look and a book I've wanted for years is there!

I spotted a copy about 10 years ago and it sold before I'd made up my mind. No hesitation this time - first edition, under a tenner including postage. Mine!

Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 21/03/2025 18:05

That's lovely, Binturong!

NoBinturongsHereMate · 21/03/2025 18:09

It's the second volume of a pair. I already had part 1 - inherited from my grandmother - so I'm thrilled to complete the set.

FagsMagsandBags · 21/03/2025 22:05

I'd had a childhood library book that I loved and then of course never seen it again and only remembered the title, etc. I talked about it to a then boyfriend and for Christmas that year he found it on Abe Books and bought it for me. One of the best Christmas presents ever. I got so much happiness from it.

artant · 22/03/2025 01:12

My mum and her sister who was visiting from New Zealand (now long dead) were reminiscing about a book they’d read and loved in their youth. I found that in Abebooks for mum. She was excited to reread it but it turned out to be terrible!

artant · 22/03/2025 02:10

In other news, I managed to fall downstairs stairs today. On the floor for a couple of hours or so before being rescued by an ambulance crew and taken to A&E. I have fractured my left shoulder. Bizarrely it’s the only bone I’ve ever broken (apart from toes on shopping trolleys) but this is the second time it’s taken the hit. A bit of a rubbish day with lots of X rays, lots of lying on a trolley then lots of sitting in a general waiting around area (with some lovely other patients), painkillers, referral to a virtual fracture clinic (yes, that’s a thing now) and eventually a taxi home about midnight.

Thankfully, my brother has come straight down to do most of the mum wrangling so she was only home alone for an hour. It’s not going to be fun for any of us though (although if they get used to the whole thing it may make me going away at some point possible which would be a massive silver lining).

Don’t turn round on the stairs, that’s my advice! (I do feel more than a bit stupid about that really, all the more so as I was wearing Birkenstocks which aren’t the steadiest of footwear.)

Britinme · 22/03/2025 02:17

Oh no! I’m sorry you’re in pain @artant. I hope your brother can take over the mum wrangling for long enough for you to recover.

FagsMagsandBags · 22/03/2025 02:27

Sending love, @artant . I've fractured a shoulder and I'd say it smarted a bit! All that waiting around as well, it's just horrible. I'm glad you're home and I hope that it does eventually make going away a lot easier because you deserve that.

I've never trusted stairs.

artant · 22/03/2025 02:38

Thanks!

I’m definitely no fan of stairs now but I think I was only medium distrusting of them before. They’re useful, right enough, but the can be very mean.

duc748 · 22/03/2025 02:58

That sounds bloody painful, artant, sorry to hear.

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Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 22/03/2025 07:27

Just been reading that one. I'd have been cross too if someone stripped my front garden of the daffodils.

Ouch, @artant that sounds painful, I hope you heal up quickly!

SinnerBoy · 22/03/2025 07:52

Sorry to hear about your friend, VB. I suppose most of us are now at the age that we begin to lose friends and that certainly makes me think a bit too much.

Artant, may you heal quickly - that autocorrected to heel, which seems apt...

Fags, I'm rather lost for words, but am entertained by the thought of you with your voice enhancer, spooking the locals! Maybe a Davros voice might be the thing?

And Kucinghitam, I have seen that thread this am and am also Team YANBU. I'd be livid if it happened to me!

FagsMagsandBags · 22/03/2025 08:39

I don't care if she wanted them to give to her mum or her gran or whoever. She's old enough to know she was stealing and she decided to steal. "Aw, bless her!" My arse! People wouldn't say that if she was a few years older, the thieving little shit.

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