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People coming into work sick

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TheGrinchIsComingToTown · 16/12/2024 17:14

WHY? WHYYYY?!

Just a moan. Turn up this morning and the girl who's been on holiday for the last week is coughing and sneezing all over us all. It's 9 days until Christmas you utter idiot, why risk making us all sick?

(We all get paid sick pay, so she could have stayed off)

OP posts:
GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 17:37

coffeeandteav · 16/12/2024 17:33

@GoodVibesHere
You then get a target to not be off for so long. It is ridiculous. They would say it doesn't affect their opinion of you but it does.
Sadly presenteeism is still a thing despite the pandemic.

OK so you get a 'target', just say 'ok sure'. If I'm unwell then I'm staying home until I'm better. It's common bloody sense.

goldencabbage · 16/12/2024 17:38

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 17:37

OK so you get a 'target', just say 'ok sure'. If I'm unwell then I'm staying home until I'm better. It's common bloody sense.

Then eventually you get fired

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 17:39

goldencabbage · 16/12/2024 17:36

With a COLD. Just a cold. A sniffly little cold. Not full on flu

Whenever I've had a cold it comes with a headache and blocked nose and sore throat. To me that's what a cold is.

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 17:40

EasyComfortDishes · 16/12/2024 17:35

I have called in sick today with a horrible cold. I’ll be called in for an informal sickness absence meeting as it’s my 4th episode in 12 months.
I am a nurse and today would have been running a clinic seeing around fifty women in total. My absence luckily didn’t impact staff of patients today. But tomorrow if I don’t go in clinics will have to be cancelled. So I will be going in and seeing around 40 patients in a windowless unventilated room whilst I have a horrible chesty cough, mild temp and streaming nose. I will wear a mask for all the good it does but I have to go in otherwise I’ll be in trouble and my colleagues and patients will be affected 🤷‍♀️

It's not fair on the patients to go spreading your cold to them.

WalterdelaMare · 16/12/2024 17:40

I’d take a dim view if one of my team was on leave and then went off sick. I also hate this post Covid paranoia on here about people with colds. Lots of people in my office have colds. They’re just getting on with it.

Anyway, can she not wfh?

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 17:41

goldencabbage · 16/12/2024 17:38

Then eventually you get fired

Well so be it. I wouldn't want to work for such a dumb company. It's the system that's wrong here isn't it.

mrspresents · 16/12/2024 17:44

But let's be honest there's a difference between 'just a cold' (runny nose, sneezing), a cold (runny nose, sore throat, sneezing,cough), flu (temp, sore throats, cough, sneezing, bad chest, cold sweats). Just a cold you can work, cold maybe difficult for some, flu wiped you out completely for days on end!

EasyComfortDishes · 16/12/2024 17:44

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 17:40

It's not fair on the patients to go spreading your cold to them.

Agreed but it’s also not fair for them to have their clinic appts cancelled with no hope of rebooking for ages. And it’s not fair on colleagues to deal with furious patients who will not get the message and turn up anyway and not fair on my admin colleagues who will be desperately trying to cancel appts before 08.30!
And I’m a nurse and I work for the NHS. Very few other companies I could work for!

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 17:45

WalterdelaMare · 16/12/2024 17:40

I’d take a dim view if one of my team was on leave and then went off sick. I also hate this post Covid paranoia on here about people with colds. Lots of people in my office have colds. They’re just getting on with it.

Anyway, can she not wfh?

You'd take a 'dim view' of someone for having the misfortune of being unwell? Well, ain't you a peach.

Also just to remind, OP says her employer gives sick leave and is reasonable about people being unwell, in which case it really doesn't make sense to go in to work when ill.

m00rfarm · 16/12/2024 17:48

TheGrinchIsComingToTown · 16/12/2024 17:14

WHY? WHYYYY?!

Just a moan. Turn up this morning and the girl who's been on holiday for the last week is coughing and sneezing all over us all. It's 9 days until Christmas you utter idiot, why risk making us all sick?

(We all get paid sick pay, so she could have stayed off)

Because some people work in an environment where they are only allowed one sickness leave during a 2 month period. So they have to come in and infect everyone else. Public sector. I have seen people dragging themselves out of bed to avoid a disciplinary. Ridiculous.

LoobyDoop2 · 16/12/2024 17:48

Carry a bottle of First Defence whenever you go to the office. At the first sign that someone near you is snuffing and coughing, start using it every hour. If you can, move away. This will work most of the time.

PomandersandRedRibbon · 16/12/2024 17:48

I know and to add insult to injury they don't seem capable of covering mouths when they cough or catching fucking sneezes.

We have learned nothing from covid.
No ventilation, no increase in hygiene at this time of year it's awful.

So selfish.

StMarie4me · 16/12/2024 17:49

Totally agree. We have one today too. Same one who gave it to me in August and caused me not to see my cancer stricken friend for 2.5 weeks before she died. I am livid again.

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 17:59

EasyComfortDishes · 16/12/2024 17:44

Agreed but it’s also not fair for them to have their clinic appts cancelled with no hope of rebooking for ages. And it’s not fair on colleagues to deal with furious patients who will not get the message and turn up anyway and not fair on my admin colleagues who will be desperately trying to cancel appts before 08.30!
And I’m a nurse and I work for the NHS. Very few other companies I could work for!

OK well I think you are being a martyr here. Don't let the threat of furious patients prevent you from doing the right thing, stay away from the clinic so that you don't make loads of people unwell over christmas. You're right, if you don't go in, your admin colleagues will have to ring people to let them know clinic is cancelled - that's part of their job isn't it? They get paid to do that. If one of my colleagues is unwell, the rest of us have to suck it up and cover for them. We reciprocate for one another, being a team.

lastchristmasforreal · 16/12/2024 18:03

Gertrudesinthegutter · 16/12/2024 17:22

Oh come on… you know you’re not allowed to take a day off with Covid/cold/flu without being hauled over the Coles and it triggering warnings on sickness absence.

I’m so glad I don’t live in the UK if this is the case.

janfebmar87 · 16/12/2024 18:04

I hate when people come to work with a heavy cold. It's so inconsiderate. One guy I worked with bragged about the fact he had never taken a day off sick, no he didn't he just came into work sick all the time and spread his germs around

KindLemur · 16/12/2024 18:08

Where I work 2 days in a row triggers a meeting and you are ‘monitored’. People come in with d&v and all sorts. When people ring in sick I’ve heard line managers say on the phone ‘well you’ve really done us over today being off, enjoy your day off then!’ Dead sarcastic. You feel like utter shit calling in.

Isobel201 · 16/12/2024 18:08

lljkk · 16/12/2024 17:23

Do you want colleagues to stay away from work if they have a minor runny nose for 2 months? That would be me. The sort that leads to sneezing & occasional cough.

What if some days it escalates to a bad cough, and other days it's just a snivel. What if I sneeze and sneeze. No allergies. Just sequence of minor respiratory infections that don't stop me from doing anything at all.

How do you know what specific symptom severity threshold is "minor enough" and what is "omg how dare you be in the office"

yeah this, I have chronic sinus issues, and sometimes I will have bad days of sneezing, then a run of good days where I don't do much at all. Doesn't mean I'm actually feeling unwell.

hagchic · 16/12/2024 18:10

People don't drag themselves in to work sick for fun.

They do it if there are negatve consequences for not going in. Negative consequences like reduced money, no money, disciplinary, negative comments from workmates/managers/clients and ultimately being given no further work or being sacked.

It's great that you don't think your employer does that, but many many employers have draconian sickness absence policies that penalise people for being unwell and essentially force them into work whilst unwell.

Not everyone has the privelege of working from home.

AdoraBell · 16/12/2024 18:15

Years ago I had a boss who threatened to put me on disciplinary if I didn’t get antibiotics for a cold. So, I talked to my GP, didn’t get antibiotics, then went into work with my cold.

When DDs were in school they got swine flu and GP signed them off. A teacher kicked off so the next time one had a cold I sent her in.

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 18:19

AdoraBell · 16/12/2024 18:15

Years ago I had a boss who threatened to put me on disciplinary if I didn’t get antibiotics for a cold. So, I talked to my GP, didn’t get antibiotics, then went into work with my cold.

When DDs were in school they got swine flu and GP signed them off. A teacher kicked off so the next time one had a cold I sent her in.

Why did you send her in though? Your poor DD, and her classmates didn't deserve that. I wouldn't roll over like that for a teacher kicking off.

RosieLeaf · 16/12/2024 18:21

Coughs and sneezes wouldn’t be seen as valid reason to call in sick at my workplace.

GoodVibesHere · 16/12/2024 18:22

hagchic · 16/12/2024 18:10

People don't drag themselves in to work sick for fun.

They do it if there are negatve consequences for not going in. Negative consequences like reduced money, no money, disciplinary, negative comments from workmates/managers/clients and ultimately being given no further work or being sacked.

It's great that you don't think your employer does that, but many many employers have draconian sickness absence policies that penalise people for being unwell and essentially force them into work whilst unwell.

Not everyone has the privelege of working from home.

It's these draconian absence policies that need changing then. I simply wouldn't go along with it.

And anyway, in the OP's case her employer doesn't have these draconian measures in place so her colleague didn't have any reason not to stay at home.

PalePurplePumpkin · 16/12/2024 18:22

Lol so at your place of work you can stay off for every cough, sneeze or headache and never get interviewed by management about it?

Nah.

hulahula2 · 16/12/2024 18:23

Everyone in my office is sick at the moment. It's a busy time, if people are off then stuff doesn't get done. Bugs are everywhere from about September - February. The world can't stop can it? I'm sure they'd rather be at home in bed too but unless it's a violent vomiting bug or something I think people just have to suck it up.

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