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Interview on my day off? WWYD

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AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 09:38

I have applied for a promotion, I currently work 4 days a week and work have scheduled my interview on my day off.

I am afraid that if I point this out to them it will look as if I am inflexible or difficult...but I do have plans that day. I can potentially reschedule them. Or should I go to the interview without fuss to show willing?

Alternatively it may look as if I am too soft if I don't say 'Nope, not coming in on my day off!'

Not trying to make excuses but I am a bit addled today anyway (painkillers and tiredness) hence asking for advice!

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Pluvia · 16/12/2024 11:32

Hazeby · 16/12/2024 09:53

If you think it was an oversight, then I would ask to change it but make it clear I was perfectly willing to come if they couldn’t.

If I were your boss, I’d think you were a bit weak for not mentioning it.

Why would you think it was weak for not mentioning it and not 'She's clearly motivated, she's coming in for the interview on her day off'? Why always looking for weakness and not for strength?

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 16/12/2024 11:34

Take half a day and do the interview during the working half. If there is competition for the role you do not want to send the wrong message. Once you have the job draw a line in the sand for unreasonable requests like this.

burnoutbabe · 16/12/2024 11:34

i work part time and i'd ask if the interview could be held on my working day if possible.

many people who are part time do so as they have fixed commitments on those days - College or University or kids or other caring responsibilities.

Asking if its possible is just sensible. It doesn't show lack of flexibility particularly. Particually its ifs internal with 2 people you know- not all of us are inteviewed by THE PANEL.

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AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:35

SantasBeardTrimmer · 16/12/2024 10:38

I have never heard of anyone having an internal interview on their day off before, at this organisation so I am sure it is an oversight. A lot of us work 5 days too so it wouldn't be possible for it to be on a day off for them, the ones of us who work four days are known to have private work alongside.

It doesn't matter if it's an oversight or if it's never happened before to your knowledge.

You don't work 5 days. Maybe your employer has decided it's far better for you to work 4 days than 3. And interview you on your day off.

What comes over is you seem very entitled.
And, bearing in mind this is for 'promotion' you seem to put yourself first rather than the organisation you work for, which is to help people with MH issues.

I'd query your work ethic.

Edited

I don't think I am entitled for asking strangers a question on a forum designed for things such as that.

Entitlement would be more so like me ringing them and saying 'I am totally not coming in on my day off, reschedule this interview'.

Maybe your employer has decided it's far better for you to work 4 days than 3

Eh?!😂

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YearsofYears · 16/12/2024 11:36

I recently had an internal interview. Manager suggested we do it on my NWD and I was busy, asked if there was another available slot and there was.
If I could only have done it on my NWD, I of course would have rearranged my plans but asking about flexibility seems fine to me. We all lead busy, complex lives these days.

CyranoDeBergerQuack · 16/12/2024 11:36

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:18

I am currently at work yes-It's just very quiet at this time of year.

Ok, if you were a manger, had taken time to craft job description, organise interviews, sort dates, rooms people, etc, then a candidate moans that s/he doesn't like that date because 'me, me,me', what would you do?
Because from where I'm sitting as a retired manager, it's not looking good.

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:36

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 16/12/2024 11:34

Take half a day and do the interview during the working half. If there is competition for the role you do not want to send the wrong message. Once you have the job draw a line in the sand for unreasonable requests like this.

Edited

Sorry, I don't understand this. I can't take half a day off on a day I am not at work.

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m00rfarm · 16/12/2024 11:37

Thank you for confirming the day and time of the interview. I actually have clients booked for this time, but I am happy to move these if this is the only time the interview can take place.

Personally, I would just go to the interview if I wanted the job. Unless you are so much better than any other applicant and this would not make a difference to the people interviewing you. Even if they don't SAY that it makes a difference, as an interviewer, I would still feel in the back of my mind you are not 100% committed to the company you are working for.

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:37

CyranoDeBergerQuack · 16/12/2024 11:36

Ok, if you were a manger, had taken time to craft job description, organise interviews, sort dates, rooms people, etc, then a candidate moans that s/he doesn't like that date because 'me, me,me', what would you do?
Because from where I'm sitting as a retired manager, it's not looking good.

I am sure it won't 'look' anything to them as they're unaware I have even had a thought process about it.

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Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 16/12/2024 11:39

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:36

Sorry, I don't understand this. I can't take half a day off on a day I am not at work.

Sorry missed that part. Unfortunately I would do the interview without raising it as an issue and then make sure I draw a line once I had the role. If I didn't get the role I would ask for time off in lieu for the interview.

Vaxtable · 16/12/2024 11:39

Do you want the job? If so go.

I really don’t understand people who are so inflexible there are always times when you may need to change stuff

DressOrSkirt · 16/12/2024 11:40

I don't think there's anything wrong with asking if another time is available if the original one doesn't suit.
But I do think it's unreasonable to expect the interview to take place during your working hours.
I also think you're overthinking whether going will make you look flexible or weak etc.

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 16/12/2024 11:42

If this is your attitude you won’t be getting the role so I wouldn’t bother. Any other company you would go to the interview on any day that they said. Unless you have childcare that you reg need to provide on that day and they know that, there is no reason why they wouldn’t have invited to interview that day.

HooMoo · 16/12/2024 11:42

I get what you mean, I’d mention it and ask. If this happened at my work that’s what I’d do.

CyranoDeBergerQuack · 16/12/2024 11:42

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:37

I am sure it won't 'look' anything to them as they're unaware I have even had a thought process about it.

You do not want to listen to anyone not echoing your thoughts. But if you ever get a management position, you may want to consider whether or not you should be in such a position, particularly if you ask for advice and then ignore it.
You may also want to consider if you want to employ staff who spend worktime asking questions on MN about doing stuff in their own time

HaddawayAndShite · 16/12/2024 11:44

Me and another manager who was to be interviewing, who has since responded that she can't attend.

So they sent out candidate invites without actually securing the interview panel? That would put me off the job alone, incredibly disorganised and terrible management.

DressOrSkirt · 16/12/2024 11:44

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 16/12/2024 11:39

Sorry missed that part. Unfortunately I would do the interview without raising it as an issue and then make sure I draw a line once I had the role. If I didn't get the role I would ask for time off in lieu for the interview.

Why would they give time off in lieu for it? Are they going to pay the external candidates for showing up too?

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:44

CyranoDeBergerQuack · 16/12/2024 11:42

You do not want to listen to anyone not echoing your thoughts. But if you ever get a management position, you may want to consider whether or not you should be in such a position, particularly if you ask for advice and then ignore it.
You may also want to consider if you want to employ staff who spend worktime asking questions on MN about doing stuff in their own time

Edited

I haven't ignored advice.

I am far from the only one who MNs while at work!

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AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:46

HaddawayAndShite · 16/12/2024 11:44

Me and another manager who was to be interviewing, who has since responded that she can't attend.

So they sent out candidate invites without actually securing the interview panel? That would put me off the job alone, incredibly disorganised and terrible management.

They are quite disorganised to be fair.
It's a fairly new team.

On the plus side, they are flexible and understanding.

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Richiewoo · 16/12/2024 11:49

Rearrange your plans simples.

Dash0Cal · 16/12/2024 11:49

I think it’s fine to mention that the interview clashes with a pre-existing client booking and asking if there is scope to reschedule. I think you’ve had some rough answers here as it originally sounded as if you just didn’t want to do it on your day off because you had “plans” which makes it sound like a bit of shopping or something.

(I’m imagining a scenario where you are eg an NHS psychologist with private clients on your NWD. Totally normal and professional to avoid moving their appointments if you can.)

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:53

Dash0Cal · 16/12/2024 11:49

I think it’s fine to mention that the interview clashes with a pre-existing client booking and asking if there is scope to reschedule. I think you’ve had some rough answers here as it originally sounded as if you just didn’t want to do it on your day off because you had “plans” which makes it sound like a bit of shopping or something.

(I’m imagining a scenario where you are eg an NHS psychologist with private clients on your NWD. Totally normal and professional to avoid moving their appointments if you can.)

Yes, I do have private clients. It's normal within the industry to work part time for an employer and also have a private practice which is why I believe it is an oversight(along with them being quite disorganised as a rule anyway). They would probably know that most people within the organisation have private clients on their days off, It's what most of us do.

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WillowTit · 16/12/2024 11:59

i think it is better to have an interview on your day off rather than during working hours, then you can prepare, and then go home!

GivingitToGod · 16/12/2024 12:00

Back20 · 16/12/2024 09:40

If u want the job u go to interview!
Not sure what the quandary is tbh

Ditto

ThatsNotMyTeen · 16/12/2024 12:02

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 10:51

I was always like this too. I have worked very hard for several companies and been very good and available for management and as you've said, it either gets you nowhere, or worse!

yep exactly. I don’t see the harm in asking. If it’s a no, then reschedule your plans