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Interview on my day off? WWYD

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AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 09:38

I have applied for a promotion, I currently work 4 days a week and work have scheduled my interview on my day off.

I am afraid that if I point this out to them it will look as if I am inflexible or difficult...but I do have plans that day. I can potentially reschedule them. Or should I go to the interview without fuss to show willing?

Alternatively it may look as if I am too soft if I don't say 'Nope, not coming in on my day off!'

Not trying to make excuses but I am a bit addled today anyway (painkillers and tiredness) hence asking for advice!

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AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:07

Cynic17 · 16/12/2024 10:54

Go! The fact that it's on your day off is perfect timing, as it means you don't miss work and don't have to make up weird excuses about where you are going.

It's internal, obviously it would be different if it wasn't.

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TheGoddessFreyja · 16/12/2024 11:07

I expect they planned the interview for that day so you have time to prepare for it, if it was during your working day how would you be able to when you are meant to be working

If this wasn't an internal role you'd go when they told you wouldn't you? this isn't any different. I wouldn't be impressed if someone wanted me to change and interview time as its their day off and they had plans.

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:08

AnnieCookWriter · 16/12/2024 10:59

Maybe its their way of testing your commitment? It's a few hours out of your life, so how badly do you really want the job, and how committed would you be to it anyway, if you're already concerned about being expected to attend an interview on your own time? Is everyone else being expected to do that, or is it just you? If it's just you, its probably an oversight. If it's everyone, it's probably their scheduled interviewing day that works for them, for all kinds of reasons you might not even know about, e.g. the logistics of getting a panel together or taking time out from other important things. You could ask if the interview could be rearranged, but be careful that it doesn't send them the message that you're only interested in what's convenient for you. If it can't be rearrange to suit you, then you have a clear choice, don't you? 💛

Me and another manager who was to be interviewing, who has since responded that she can't attend.

I will go to it

thank you to those who've wished me luck!

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Wheresthebeach · 16/12/2024 11:08

As others have said timings are organised around the panel's availability so you need to show up when asked. As one of the panel has the same issue they may reorganise anyway. You now have an opportunity to raise the issue - you can send a short email saying something like:

'I see that ABC is not able to attend the panel, as it's also their day off. I was planning to rearrange a client session as it's also a day I'm not working at the office, however before I reorganise the session, can I just check that the date and time is going ahead as planned? I completely understand if it will be altered to ensure all panel members are available'

That way you're opening up the conversation without asking for a change to suit you.

LonginesPrime · 16/12/2024 11:09

Yes, but OP is trying to get promoted!

Also, she's probably up against other people who might not be done arse-kissing just yet.

snowmichael · 16/12/2024 11:09

If your plans can't be moved, ask if it could be rescheduled for a working day, otherwise can you do both?

SantasBeardTrimmer · 16/12/2024 11:09

You can try to justify it to yourself and us as much as you like ( ie the impact in your private work) , the fact that they have never interviewed anyone before on their day off, etc etc.

But none of that changes the possibility that you will come over to them as not that interested, entitled, being difficult - all of which you mentioned in your first post.

This is not just about the logistics and 'fairness' , it's about how you'd be perceived. If you want to risk that, fair enough.

But if you aren't the only person in the running for the job, it may work against you.

Saturdayssandwichsociety · 16/12/2024 11:10

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 10:42

Yes it is just two managers from my usual team. In fact,there are three put down and one of them (I have just noticed this) has responded that she can't attend as It's also HER day off 😂

Thats completely different tho - conducting an interview as a panellist is part of her job and thus work, and shouldn't have been scheduled during her work hours.
ATTENDING an interview, internal or not, is not part of your job, that's something you are choosing to do for your own personal advancement. If it had been scheduled during your working day id have expected you to book some leave as youd have been taking time away from your work for something personal.
As PP have noted, it's telling that you'd rather reduce your availability for your NHS service users on a working day, than expect to move private clients. Not good.

slightlydistrac · 16/12/2024 11:11

To get back to the point...

Yes, if you want this promotion, I think you should go to the interview on your day off if at all possible. Their reasoning for choosing that particular day is neither here nor there in the grand scheme of things.

TerroristToddler · 16/12/2024 11:12

I have worked part time (though diff industry) and had internal promotion interviews. I always understood that whilst my working days were Mon-Wed for example, their business worked Mon-Fri and so the interview would be on any business day.

I treat internal interviews in the same way as I would external. This means taking the time and date offered to me unless there is a really novel reason not to.

Obimumkinobi · 16/12/2024 11:12

Just to add, I'd make the decision based on how important the role could be to your career/life. I once delayed a holiday for an interview but this was a "big break" kinda job. If its not that big of a deal to you (which is fine) then ask. But ask soon so they have enough notice!

LonginesPrime · 16/12/2024 11:13

Sorry - my comment was to ThatsNotMyTeen

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:14

Saturdayssandwichsociety · 16/12/2024 11:10

Thats completely different tho - conducting an interview as a panellist is part of her job and thus work, and shouldn't have been scheduled during her work hours.
ATTENDING an interview, internal or not, is not part of your job, that's something you are choosing to do for your own personal advancement. If it had been scheduled during your working day id have expected you to book some leave as youd have been taking time away from your work for something personal.
As PP have noted, it's telling that you'd rather reduce your availability for your NHS service users on a working day, than expect to move private clients. Not good.

I don't work for the NHS and we don't have scheduled appointments as part of our role, it wouldn't affect anyone adversely, I'd just have some work to catch up on at a different time of the day (this does happen sometimes and I would usually stay behind if necessary, but this is rare).

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Microgal · 16/12/2024 11:14

petedicks · 16/12/2024 09:41

Do you want the job or not?

this 😅

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:16

and yes, I realise It's different for the panel, it just does illustrate that It's likely that it isn't deliberate, rather that they've done it as an oversight, not realising It's my day off-as they also evidently didn't consider that it was her day off too.

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CyranoDeBergerQuack · 16/12/2024 11:18

Are you supposed to be working today? Because if so, you are spending quite a lot of your work time moaning that you don't want them interviewing you in your time...

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:18

I am currently at work yes-It's just very quiet at this time of year.

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Gleeanda · 16/12/2024 11:19

I'm quite surprised by these responses.

Different industry but as an interviewer I would look positively at a polite enquiry as to whether a different day is available. We're looking for someone who can engage professional to professional. Especially when you're going for promotion, we want someone who can manage clashes, not just jump through hoops.

SantasBeardTrimmer · 16/12/2024 11:20

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:16

and yes, I realise It's different for the panel, it just does illustrate that It's likely that it isn't deliberate, rather that they've done it as an oversight, not realising It's my day off-as they also evidently didn't consider that it was her day off too.

Do you always overthink to this degree?

You come over as not really appreciating the vibes it will give.

You acknowledged those in your first post but since then you've continued to argue the other side.

It really isn't the point whether they know it's your day off or not.
The interview is on X day. You either attend or ask for it to be moved.
If you ask, it will show a lack of flexibility.

You also appear to think you're going to get the job rather than accept there are other candidates who will be wanting it more than you appear to.

If you REALLY want this job you'd move heaven and earth to turn up when they say, without asking it to accommodate your other work.

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:22

SantasBeardTrimmer · 16/12/2024 11:20

Do you always overthink to this degree?

You come over as not really appreciating the vibes it will give.

You acknowledged those in your first post but since then you've continued to argue the other side.

It really isn't the point whether they know it's your day off or not.
The interview is on X day. You either attend or ask for it to be moved.
If you ask, it will show a lack of flexibility.

You also appear to think you're going to get the job rather than accept there are other candidates who will be wanting it more than you appear to.

If you REALLY want this job you'd move heaven and earth to turn up when they say, without asking it to accommodate your other work.

Edited

I am not trying to argue, just responding to some points which aren't relevant to this particular situation.

I will attend the interview.

I am not sure why I appear to think I will get the job, I actually don't at all unfortunately. More so that there's a small chance and I have nothing to lose by applying.

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Hollyhollyberry · 16/12/2024 11:23

I assume they have access to your work calendar and in my book they are a bit special. We wouldn’t book in an interview without checking anyone’s calendar, regardless if it’s your work day or not, you might have an important meeting.

I would email them and say “thanks for interview invite, unfortunately you aren’t available at this time. Would it be possible to move this to x date and time (have a look in their diaries) or offer a few alternatives.

SantasBeardTrimmer · 16/12/2024 11:27

I am not sure why I appear to think I will get the job, I actually don't at all unfortunately. More so that there's a small chance and I have nothing to lose by applying.

What comes over is that you appear to expect them to reschedule the interview as if you are the most likely person to get it, and they must try to interview you at your convenience.

It's hard to understand why you can't see that any request may just cast a shadow over your application as it does simply show a lack of enthusiasm.

If this was something like a wedding or an appt that was long standing it would be justified.

It's a minor inconvenience and it's possibly going to give off negative vibes if you ask for it to be changed.

LordEmsworth · 16/12/2024 11:30

Resilienceisimportant · 16/12/2024 10:33

Yeah I absolutely would not send this note, it’s an interview for promotion and you are basically saying I won’t do anything on my day off ever (not saying your should but a business needs a bit of flexibility sometimes) and my plans are more important than going for a promotion interview. It may also be because the panel or interviewers are only available on that day. You are setting yourself apart negatively to begin with.

Unless you have an appointment that can’t be moved (doctors appointment booked months in advance for example), you don’t want your first impression to be inflexibility. If you just have plans (lunch with a friend) suck it up and go to the interview which is on,y likely to be an hour anyway.

If you do send an email something more like ‘Thank you for confirming the interview date. I am delighted to have this opportunity. Unfortunately I have an important appointment booked months in advance that I can’t move at that time. I have looked in calendars and see that this time is free. Are we able to move it to then? If not, I will try to move my appointment but thank you for considering it…..”.

Can you let me know where you work, that pretends to give flexible working but actually expects its employees to be at its beck and call 24/7, so I can avoid it?

I work with human beings who understand that people have lives outside work. The OP has clearly stated that she thinks this is oversight and implied that the organisation accepts flexible working arrangements; so presumably the interviewers are more like my colleagues, than yours. Mutual respect costs nothing and doesn't weaken anyone.

EightChalk · 16/12/2024 11:30

Some people on here seem to want a return to Dickensian times.

"Maybe your employer has decided it's far better for you to work 4 days than 3."

This attitude makes me shudder. We're not owned by our employers. MH professionals are in high demand.

AuntieMillicent · 16/12/2024 11:30

SantasBeardTrimmer · 16/12/2024 11:27

I am not sure why I appear to think I will get the job, I actually don't at all unfortunately. More so that there's a small chance and I have nothing to lose by applying.

What comes over is that you appear to expect them to reschedule the interview as if you are the most likely person to get it, and they must try to interview you at your convenience.

It's hard to understand why you can't see that any request may just cast a shadow over your application as it does simply show a lack of enthusiasm.

If this was something like a wedding or an appt that was long standing it would be justified.

It's a minor inconvenience and it's possibly going to give off negative vibes if you ask for it to be changed.

I didn't expect it, I was asking what others thought.

I have not asked them to reschedule, based on responses on here I have decided to rearrange my day and attend it.

I don't know who else (if anyone) has applied anyway.

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