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Small gift for an elderly couple

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DillyDallyingAllDay · 13/12/2024 19:36

Hello!

Any ideas for a small gift for an elderly couple. Ideally I'd like to give them one thing that they could both enjoy; they were our very helpful neighbours and since we moved we haven't seen them much. They're not keen on chocolates and I'm not sure what other food item would be appropriate- any ideas even if it's non-food but the same sort of vibe so they would t feel like they had to reciprocate.

Thanks!

OP posts:
AnneKipankitoo · 13/12/2024 19:39

Teabags, coffee , biscuits in a hamper.

Holliegee · 13/12/2024 19:39

You could buy a plant for their garden, a rose bush or something.
could you invite them
out for afternoon tea or something?
flowers delivered are always a lovely gift.
Or maybe a little hamper of goodies, cheese and crackers etc and a little bottle of port.

loropianalover · 13/12/2024 19:40

A nice box of biscuits or a selection of jams/marmalades/spreads.

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GhostOrchid · 13/12/2024 19:42

How much are you wanting to spend?

Posh smoked salmon/fish or nice selection of cheese, could include pickle/chutney.

To drink, really nice coffee or speciality teas. If they drink alcohol, then a bottle of fizz or a dessert wine could be nice.

It all depends on how much you want to spend and what you know about their tastes.

menopausalmare · 13/12/2024 19:48

A nice seasonal planter for the doorstep.

CurlewKate · 13/12/2024 20:11

@DillyDallyingAllDay What would you give them if they weren't "elderly"? Probably that.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 13/12/2024 20:38

Pop round with a tin of shortbread and take them to a local cafe for a coffee and a catch up. I bet they’d enjoy your time more than a gift tbh.

CurlewKate · 13/12/2024 20:38

Incidentally- I always used to give plants in circumstances like this until my DS said "Why are you giving responsibility as a present?"

slightlydistrac · 13/12/2024 20:40

CurlewKate · 13/12/2024 20:38

Incidentally- I always used to give plants in circumstances like this until my DS said "Why are you giving responsibility as a present?"

Because people who might be lonely and in need a bit of company might like something to look after?

I was going to suggest an amaryllis OP.

KnopkaPixie · 13/12/2024 20:46

slightlydistrac · 13/12/2024 20:40

Because people who might be lonely and in need a bit of company might like something to look after?

I was going to suggest an amaryllis OP.

I believe a poinsettia is traditional. Or a peace lily? A red one though. The white ones are boring.

DillyDallyingAllDay · 13/12/2024 20:58

Briliant, thanks for the suggestions!

OP posts:
KnopkaPixie · 13/12/2024 21:10

Oh, things in a nice tin. My mum likes that and she's 83. (I was a late surprise!)

purser25 · 13/12/2024 21:19

Some bulbs in pot for indoors

Fireworknight · 13/12/2024 21:21

I’d go for something edible. Nice tin of biscuits from M and S, for example.

Phineyj · 13/12/2024 21:23

How about a calendar with art or landscape pictures? Extra calendars are always useful or eminently re-gift able!

Fireworknight · 13/12/2024 21:25

Phineyj · 13/12/2024 21:23

How about a calendar with art or landscape pictures? Extra calendars are always useful or eminently re-gift able!

Countryfile calendar is always a good choice.

Elley123 · 13/12/2024 21:26

Have a look online at The Cornish Company. We sent an elderly couple a Cornish cream tea hamper and they loved it. Other Cornish hampers available with pasties, scones, saffron buns etc. it depends what your budget is

pizzaHeart · 13/12/2024 21:28

CurlewKate · 13/12/2024 20:38

Incidentally- I always used to give plants in circumstances like this until my DS said "Why are you giving responsibility as a present?"

He is so right !
It’s exactly how I would feel.

woffley · 13/12/2024 21:49

CurlewKate · 13/12/2024 20:11

@DillyDallyingAllDay What would you give them if they weren't "elderly"? Probably that.

This.
Please not biscuits. Why would anyone want to be given biscuits as a present?
If you want something consumable then buy something you would enjoy.

LauderSyme · 13/12/2024 21:52

I'd be chuffed with a nice tin of biscuits and I'm Gen X!

StarDolphins · 13/12/2024 21:55

I still miss my old neighbours but they moved too far away. If yours haven’t moved too far, I would do a home made voucher of ‘afternoon tea & catch up’ at yours & tell them you miss them & to let you know when they’re free would love so much to see them🥰

ForPearlViper · 13/12/2024 21:58

Couldn't agree more. And for goodness sake - a plant because lonely people (apparently aka elderly) need something to look after! Kill me now.

What would anyone like as a generic presents from someone they don't know that well? I think biscuits, wine, etc, are good choices as they can share them with friends as family.

People over a certain age are not an alien species.

ChristmasPudd1990 · 13/12/2024 22:02

A nice potted plant and tin of biscuits.

Skepticgal · 13/12/2024 22:03

Hello, I'm 60, my DH is 70. Does that make us an elderly couple? If so I would like so many things! Chocolate, wine, whiskey, pot plants, cheese, flowers. You name it, I'll take it. I wouldn't sweat it, just wrote a nice card and pick something you think they'll like and go with it. At the end of the day it's just a gesture.