I agree. One of our cars is 16 years old and has not needed any maintenance other than annual servicing and replacement of consumables such as tyres, brakes, a battery, a couple of sets of spark plugs and bulbs etc. Just passed it's MOT again with no problems, no advisories etc.
One of our previous ones managed to hit around 195,000 miles before it gave up the ghost, again, with just basic consumables etc in annual services, and I think a few minor "extras" to do with the wheels/suspension, such as suspension arms, "boots", etc.
In 40 years of driving and owning cars, we've never had to replace a gear box or clutch, or even an exhaust and that's typically buying new or nearly new and running them to they drop which is typically 10-20 years depending on the mileage. I honestly just don't recognise it when people go on about hugely expensive repair bills or unreliable cars. In those 40 years, I think we've had to call out breakdown services maybe 2 or 3 times which, if I remember rightly, has been when the car hasn't started and just needed a jump start or some tweaking under the bonnet (distributor I think was one), another was a diesel car that just needed a squirt of WD40 under some cap or other.
I think the EV crowd are massively over-stating the unreliability and cost of petrol/diesel cars.