I also think peoples experiences depended on their experience iyswim?
I work in education. Despite popular belief I was in everyday. I work in special education. I had both parents going through chemo.
So I wasn't isolated. I left home each day at 8am and got home at 4pm. I did then also have to shop for myself and my parents.
I think people who lived alone, were furloughed, had new babies, home schooled whilst wfh etc all had varying experiences and the issue has stemmed from the fact everyone pitted against each other rather than taking someone's word for it that their experience was as it was.
People who had relatives alone, relatives ill in hospital and relatives die alone had even more horrendous experiences but it didn't help when they were blaming others for being selfish rather than understanding someone's circumstances were personal.