Fascinating. Thank you. I think you undermined a lot my argument quite well here. Hmm.
I guess motives matter and affect the outcome. Why we are doing a thing. Why are we having sex in the first place? If it comes primarily from a place of needing to prove ones worth, as opposed to already having a firm grasp of it, that must, in time, be ultimately unfulfilling. It takes time, however to work this out.
Simply having sex with many men because you want to/enjoy it is fine - this still, however receives widespread disapproval.
Feeling an inner compulsion to have sex with many men due to insecurities and wanting approval and validation can be harmful (I'm not entirely sure that having sex for approval doesn't happen in other more 'socially acceptable' contexts, marriage et al., but we're talking specifically about women having sex in a context which is socially frowned upon) to the inner self and as a pp said that power to attract lessens with time, at which point it would be distressing to find that one has neglected the cultivation of other competencies, values and strengths necessary for a sense of continued wellbeing.
So ultimately, it is not in your opinion, the judgement value of the outside (society, men), but the inside (oneself)?
Thank you for your thoughts I going to remember your post.