I like him, we have fun together, he's good for an intelligent debate, which I love, and we share a number of interests. I also think he's a good, kind soul.
He's also almost 10 years younger and 3 inches shorter than me. I hate myself that the height matters, but it does.
Until recently we've been very much friends and usually only together as part of a group.
In the last month or two he's started inviting me to lots of things just the two of us. This makes some sense, as we're the only single ones in the group and are more often at a lose end at the weekends. Initially, it didn't occur to me that it was anything other than a mate looking for someone to go to something with (which may well be what it is).
However, it's becoming more frequent and more coupley. 3/4 times a week, theatre rather than a band iyswim, and things he would previously have suggested in a group chat, he's now directing just to me.
He's never actually made a move, but it's coming, do you think? What do I do about this situation? I genuinely like having him around, it's great to have a "companion" who wants to spend time with me, I can see he might make a good boyfriend (10 years isn't as much as it sounds once you get to our age 😆) but I can't find it in me to find him attractive.