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What makes you feel old?

164 replies

DebbieTheCat · 13/10/2024 09:28

Alexa just played Justin Bieber’s ‘Baby’.

Justin Bieber now has a baby.

Oh my!
Where have the last 15 years gone?! 😳

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NinetyNineOrangeBalloons · 13/10/2024 19:31

TFMinx · 13/10/2024 19:28

Only the other day, I worked out that, despite being only 38 (I'm clinging onto the 'only'!) I have lived in five decades. The maths just is not mathsing. It made me feel very old and confused 😂

Thanks for that. I’m less than 10 years older and just worked out I’ve lived in 6 decades 😭

TFMinx · 13/10/2024 19:32

@NinetyNineOrangeBalloons you are most welcome...I think...

wwjalme · 13/10/2024 19:45

My school friends' kids are now going to university (I haven't had children myself). One of my school friends is now a grandma.
Children I taught in my first year of teaching are now no longer 5 years old but pushing 30!

FoxtrotOscarFoxtrotOscar · 13/10/2024 19:45

Two years ago, aged 55, my boss called me in to listen to a comment he was writing for my annual review.
He looked delighted with himself as he read aloud: "Despite Foxtrot's age, she is a fast learner". We both howled laughing. He's 6 months younger than me.

TriangleSquareFringe · 13/10/2024 19:54

My niece said I wasn't allowed to play with the balloons because I was too very long pause "old."
I'm only in my 40s but to a six year old, I'm ancient. I feel old when I think of when I was sitting GCSEs and the baby's born then are well into their 20s now.

Bristolnewcomer · 13/10/2024 20:01

The England team are all younger than me

Gimjam · 13/10/2024 20:29

Watching a film you watched as a child and suddenly the adults who you looked up to and idolised look like kids. I mean John Travolta in Grease and Saturday Night Fever for instance. Also Princess Diana always looked really mature and grown up when I was younger but when I see pictures of her now I can see how young she looked.
Realising that as a child in the 80s the 1960s were only 20 years ago, which is the same as 2005 is to now. That really blows my mind.
Seeing old television programmes from the late 1970s and early 80s and they look like the 'olden days'.

Gimjam · 13/10/2024 20:30

Yes the England team all look like young boys to me now

GameOfJones · 13/10/2024 20:43

A young bloke in front of me in the queue at the supermarket got asked for ID when buying alcohol. The shop assistant looked for about half a second at his ID and when he commented how quick it was she just said "I saw your date of birth starts with 19...."

GrandTheftWalrus · 13/10/2024 21:08

That I'm not even 40 yet and 3 of my friends are grandparents! One is younger than me!

OK1206 · 13/10/2024 21:21

We’re currently doing the rounds of university open days. I remember thinking I wasn’t old enough to have a child starting high school and now she’s preparing to start uni - hard not to feel old!

The open days have taken me back to my own time at uni and it’s hard to get my head around the fact that it was over twenty years ago. Excited for my daughter but definitely increasingly conscious of my age.

I shared more on my thoughts of being at this stage in life here:

From Playdates to Prospectuses: A Parent's Countdown to University

Apparently, by the time our children are 18 we will have spent 90% of the time we will have together...

https://www.otherwisekate.com/post/from-playdates-to-prospectuses-a-parent-s-guide-to-university-countdown

RosesAndHellebores · 13/10/2024 21:45

My osteoporosis infusions!
DD in charge of a bunch of Y10s
DS becoming Dr Hellebores (academic not medical)
Grey pubes
44 years of NI contributions!
People being surprised when they find out I still work full-time
Free prescriptions

DelphiniumBlue · 13/10/2024 22:08

Went to get a Covid jab and the medics looked like sixth formers. But then again, not sure they have to be trained doctors to give the jab.

NannyGythaOgg · 13/10/2024 22:11

First time I felt old. I was 14 and babysitting for the kids next door. (1969), Suspicious Minds played on TOTP. The 5 year old said 'Who's Elvis'

Now, it's because my 70th birthday is in 3 months time.

😳

AlpineCoromandel · 13/10/2024 22:13

When people on mumsnet write about their parents who turn out to be early 50s like me

FootbalIslife · 13/10/2024 22:14

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 13/10/2024 14:41

When teenagers hold doors open for me, and show me respect! BlushGrin

What makes me chuffing angry though is adverts for 'over 55s' where they play fucking Glen Miller and Bill Haley music. People in their 50s and 60s now, grew up with Bowie, Prince, Madonna, The Police, Genesis, Adam and the Ants, Fleetwood Mac, Blondie, Michael Jackson, Whitney Houston, Spandau Ballet, Duran Duran, George Micheal etc etc etc. And in their 20s and 30s (still young) they would have been listening to Spice Girls, Britney Spears, N-Sync, Girls Aloud, Rihanna, Beyonce, Destiny's Child etc etc etc.

These ad makers need to fuck off with that 1950s bollux. Many of the people they are advertising their product at weren't even born then FFS! Hmm

Also sick to fucking death of getting ads - online - for facelifts, teeth whitening, body sculpting, and botox. Shockingly, even though I am a 'relic' in my late 50s, I am happy with the way I look. This shit started as soon as I hit 50. (Mostly on Facebook!) Fucking 50!

See also: ads for walking frames, walking sticks, baths with doors, level access showers, funeral plans. direct cremations, and wills. The ads for all this started when I hit 50.

I am actually proper annoyed about it! 😆

That is ridiculous. Kylie is in her 50s, and she doesn’t need a stair lift, saga holidays or meals on wheels!!

MumofSpud · 13/10/2024 22:17

CurlyhairedAssassin · 13/10/2024 18:01

All of the above.

Plus making a cultural reference at work to something which once everyone would have known eg name of a famous person, but now most of the people in the room have blank faces and haven't heard of them.

I'm ok with that, though, because I haven't heard of some of the things THEY mention. 😆

This is why I honestly can't understand how large age gap relationships can work.

At work the other day we were having IT issues and I wanted to say 'computer says no' but I know I would have been looked at blankly!

AlpineCoromandel · 13/10/2024 22:18

For the first 30 years of my life, Victorian times was 100 years ago, now that's the 20s.

Enoughwiththisshit · 13/10/2024 22:18

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 13/10/2024 18:48

These don't seem to be as quite as laughable as I originally thought they were.

I got one of those for my 43rd birthday! 😂

Plaidandapple · 13/10/2024 22:37

What in the skibidi sigma, I'm old?

BurntBroccoli · 13/10/2024 22:44

Crushed23 · 13/10/2024 17:36

I have just spent a small fortune on hiking boots instead of another pair of 'trendy' trainers.

Fashion is out and comfort & durability are in. 😎

Ha ha same!
Which ones did you go for? I got some lovely Scarpa boots. Just in process of wearing them in.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 13/10/2024 22:47

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 13/10/2024 14:41

When teenagers hold doors open for me, and show me respect! BlushGrin

What makes me chuffing angry though is adverts for 'over 55s' where they play fucking Glen Miller and Bill Haley music. People in their 50s and 60s now, grew up with Bowie, Prince, Madonna, The Police, Genesis, Adam and the Ants, Fleetwood Mac, Blondie, Michael Jackson, Whitney Houston, Spandau Ballet, Duran Duran, George Micheal etc etc etc. And in their 20s and 30s (still young) they would have been listening to Spice Girls, Britney Spears, N-Sync, Girls Aloud, Rihanna, Beyonce, Destiny's Child etc etc etc.

These ad makers need to fuck off with that 1950s bollux. Many of the people they are advertising their product at weren't even born then FFS! Hmm

Also sick to fucking death of getting ads - online - for facelifts, teeth whitening, body sculpting, and botox. Shockingly, even though I am a 'relic' in my late 50s, I am happy with the way I look. This shit started as soon as I hit 50. (Mostly on Facebook!) Fucking 50!

See also: ads for walking frames, walking sticks, baths with doors, level access showers, funeral plans. direct cremations, and wills. The ads for all this started when I hit 50.

I am actually proper annoyed about it! 😆

😂😂 Although I was most disappointed only an hour ago to discover that West End Girls by the Pet Shop Boys was actually released 40 years ago, not 30ish 😂😂

Dontlletmedownbruce · 13/10/2024 22:51

When your PM is younger than you.. very tricky in Ireland right now as Simon Harris is in his 30s.

BibbityBobbityToo · 13/10/2024 22:56

I've started doing that grunt thing when I attempt to get up off the floor.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 13/10/2024 22:57

A seasonal one - Michael Jackson's Thriller is 42 years old.