My son has just started yr 7, and there's a class whatsapp which is broadly useful for reminders of things like 'remember they need an apron' etc. It's also fairly drama free EXCEPT for one lady who keeps posting what I feel is unnecessary info about her son's needs. Things about his academic (lack of) ability, SEN issues, toilet pass requirements etc. It's not the SEN parents group, it's the form tutor group and the parents obviously don't know each other well.
My sons both have SEN so I do understand the importance of seeking support. But I know my sons would hate for me to disclose things to a whatsapp group of their friends parents, and realistically none of us know what other parents will say to their kids. This mum is clearly not thinking about his privacy at all. I was thinking of messaging her privately to gently suggest she consider what info she shares. If I do that am I massively overstepping? It really bothers me that I, and all these other parents, have this info that is so unnecessary.