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If covid hadn’t have happened I … [fill in the gap]

132 replies

madamura · 19/09/2024 22:21

I wouldn’t be in the job I’m in today.

I live in a city where the pay is not good. Now because hybrid working is such a huge thing I can work in a different city.

OP posts:
StarSlinger · 20/09/2024 07:16

I would have had more time with my mum before she died who was in a care home and no visits allowed.

user1471548941 · 20/09/2024 07:21

Wouldn't be currently giving cat number 2 his morning cuddles! Because we would never have got cat number 1 and subsequently decided he needed a friend!

Dumbitdown · 20/09/2024 07:30

would be living a decent life instead of barely scraping by as I wait to die

PopGoesTheProsecco · 20/09/2024 07:48

Would still be able to do a 5k
Would still be going to the gym every day
Would not have had four years of heart/neuropathy/vascular
Would not be working part time from home
Would not have been for numerous pointless medical appointments

Lovelydovey · 20/09/2024 08:06

Both my parents would still be with us. DS2 wouldn't have mental health issues.

Of course I don't know either of these for definite as something other than covid might have killed my parents and there might have been another trigger for DS2's mental health issues.

Sapphire387 · 20/09/2024 08:13

partridgeinasweartree · 20/09/2024 06:33

I wouldn't have met the love of my life

Same. And I am eternally grateful for him.

I also have a wonderful job now that I wouldn't have had.

But I agree with other posters, too many people went through terrible things.

JohnCravensNewsround · 20/09/2024 08:36

Would still have my big brother. I'm now older than he was when he died, which seems very odd and out of order.

TheStroppyFeminist · 20/09/2024 08:41

Would still have my amazing mother in law
Wouldn't have the job I do now - it was fully remote in a physical location I couldn't get to

CrouchingTigerHiddenChocolate · 20/09/2024 08:41

I would have had my cancer treatment quicker and probably wouldn't be disabled now.

I also wouldn't have my dog, because, as sucky as being disabled is, I'm not working every hour god sends and have the time for a dog now.

Swings and roundabouts.

Bluevelvetsofa · 20/09/2024 09:18

We would have been able to stay in this house because DH wouldn’t have lost his business.
I’d be a stone lighter and fitter because I would still be going to the classes I can’t afford now.
The impact on mental health is a given.
I would have been able to have cataract surgery without using savings to pay for it.
I would have been able to say goodbye in person to one of my oldest friends.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 20/09/2024 09:26

DM would still live 300 miles away, not half a mile away.

everywhichway · 20/09/2024 09:30

Holiday accommodation in Cornwall would be cheaper than it is now.

PenelopePitStrop · 20/09/2024 09:33

My job would not have evaporated.
I would not have had to deplete my retirement savings to survive.

Gcsunnyside23 · 20/09/2024 09:50

I would have had a breakdown, being forced to slow down helped me heal and fix/recognise I was just about surviving and that I was in a constant state of anxiety. I also wouldn't be in the job I am now, WFH allowed me to go full time and now make 3 times what I did before COVID

Andnowshesatoddler · 20/09/2024 09:53

I wouldn't have been made redundant from a job who didn't respect or value my efforts and end up in a job that genuinely cares for me and supports their staff don't get me wrong there is plenty of negatives and the pay isn't great but they've supported me through pregnancy early motherhood and bad health this year I think that'll be me set there for a while now.

Las Vegas holiday and new York holiday turned into house renovation which made bringing our baby up here easier.

mindutopia · 20/09/2024 09:59

I wouldn’t have found out that a family member was a convicted paedophile. Literally, it only came about after a series of events because another family member who was CEV was self isolating. It meant I could keep my children safe going forward.

Also our business grew leaps and bounds over COVID as more people at home with more leisure time.

And we decided to move house to a totally new part of the country after a house purchase fell through and it’s been a wonderful change.

piscofrisco · 20/09/2024 10:02

Wouldn't have met my lovely dh.

taxguru · 20/09/2024 10:15

I'd still have a thriving business and employing a couple of people and two of my ex clients wouldn't be dead!

Due to the restrictions/lockdowns, I lost over half my client base, who'd typically been small non food shops, cafes, B&Bs, etc (live and work in a touristy part of the UK!). They were the ones who were part of the 3 million excluded who didn't get furlough, adequate grants, etc.

A few dozen had to give up their businesses, many went bankrupt, a few lost their homes, and a couple committed suicide. Nice one Rishi!

I had to make my two employees redundant when the scale of my client losses became obvious, there was simply nothing for them to do when I only had half the clients I had in 2019!

Business hasn't recovered. Lots of the B&B owners went to work in supermarkets or doing deliveries and have simply stayed doing that rather than re-opening their B&Bs! Most of the small shops never re-opened - most are still empty or have been converted to flats!

Absolutely disastrous to small businesses who weren't allowed to stay open, and even more so with the scattergun approach to grants etc where it was virtually a flip of a coin whether you got a support grant or not! 3 million didn't!

NoahsTortoise · 20/09/2024 10:19

I would have been able to enjoy a couple more holidays abroad before having a baby and DP not wanting to do it anymore because of her.

rugbychick1 · 20/09/2024 18:42

Would have had a planned trip overseas and seen a much loved family member before she died ( not Covid related). We did get to visit eventually, but without seeing said family member

notacooldad · 20/09/2024 18:52

I wouldn't have paid off my mortgage so quick and got ahead with my savings.

I wouldn't have lost my FOMO!

Wrennie4 · 20/09/2024 20:32

My wonderful mother in law would have had the funeral she deserved and I would still be in the dark about what an absolutely selfish cow my sister in law is.

orangetriangle · 20/09/2024 20:33

I wouldn't be a full time homeworker today

ODFOx · 20/09/2024 20:35

.....Would weigh (at least) 3 stone less and wouldn't be working 6x6 hour days each week so that I can sleep for at least 12 hours every day.

ODFOx · 20/09/2024 20:37

I wouldn't be involved in respiratory medicine, which is a fascinating field.